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Opinions please on this email he sent to me....

Q.   I just want some opinions regarding how someone I know feels about me, if you were to receive this email, what would YOU think, its not the full email, just a part of it which I received today. I've known them for a long time and it is starting to ...

A.   5 July 2010: Uh...what is there to think about? The man wants to have sex with you. That's a creepy but i'm sure you already know that.... (read in full...)

18 and lost on dating and how it all works...

Q.   I've never had a boyfriend before, so the problem is that I have no game and no idea of how to meet people and ask them out. I wouldn't even know where to begin! Like...do I just go up to some random man in a bar and ask him out? Or do I only ask...

A.   3 July 2010: Hey Hikari, You don't need game, just be yourself and you should be good. Depends on what kind of guy you're interested in there are guys everywhere. I'm right here...lol. It is true that you aren't of age but there are clubs out there that are 18 a... (read in full...)

Heartbroken 17 year old. How do I move on?

Q.   So I was dating this guy for the last 2 and half years and I love him so much. But he has this horrible Jekyll/Hyde personality. He can be sweet and romantic and suppportive, but you say the wrong thing and he completely snaps. He makes me cry ...

A.   18 April 2010: Hey...I know that right now it seems like everything you know and see remind you of him, that's the way it goes. It's good that you two aren't together anymore, you don't need an abusive relationship like that. You miss him cause you did everything ... (read in full...)

We don't have anything in common, so how can I keep the relationship going?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend of 6 months. She's 25 and I'm 7 years older than her. We don't seem to have something in common. Sometimes we argue over things that we have different opinion and she always insists her thinking is right. I lo...

A.   6 September 2009: There are two ways to look at this situation. The first thing is how did you guys hook up and last this long? something gotta be there. Second way to look at this is actually hard to do because it's about your personality. Are both of you able and... (read in full...)

Looking for a vacation spot for singles

Q.   I recently became single me and my girl friend broke up. I dont really have much time for dating, Because of Work and School. At work I have some Vacation days. Looking for a place for "single" only kinda thing. Im pretty sure there round any one ...

A.   3 September 2009: Hey dude i don't know what your budget is so i need more information and your location...but here a list of places to go crazy high end price Phuket, Thailand (anything you want there.) Australia (Fun country you can almost get marry there) Ha... (read in full...)

I'm worried I will get rejected but my friends say go for it

Q.   Hi guys, Ive got myself into a bit of a problem here, you've probably heard all this before, but this is new to me and its driving me nuts! Theres a girl that I like...alot. Alot being I must be thinking about her once every 5 minutes, it's r...

A.   22 August 2009: Ah, yes...I wouldn't say problem, a situation sounds better. This situation happens all the time. GO FOR IT. I have been in your situation before, I got rejected and later I was awkward with her and we went on our separate ways even though we still ... (read in full...)

Any ideas? I don't know what else to do to get pregnant!

Q.   I am 19 year old, I am married and have no children. My husband and I have been planning to have a child for about 2 years now. I checked myself with the Dr. and said I was fine, also my husband. I am not taking care of myself against pregnancy, nor ...

A.   20 April 2009: You're a little young to be having kids but as long as you want some. i think you're trying too hard...sperms need time to be "healthy." They say sperms need at least a week to be an ok swimmer. What that means is if you keep on having sex everyday ... (read in full...)

Will she get pregnant?

Q.   My fiance isn't on any birth control, but I have been pulling out before ejaculating.. How likely is it that she could get pregnant?...

A.   5 April 2009: dude...condoms aren't that expensive...so why take that risk? Your life will totally go down hill if you don't plan for a kid and one day she sit you down and break the new. Pre-cum can get her pregnant too.... (read in full...)

Help! Wife saw porn, I think I might lose her and my son!

Q.   I have a big problem. My wife looked through the history of my laptop and saw some porn sites I had went to. I'm living a few hours away from home because of my job, and get home on the weekends. She had seen that I had searched for MILFs and a ...

A.   28 March 2009: As long as you're willing to work at it. I'm sure you can work it out. A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009). Well like i said, some female understand that and some don't. Luckily i have a girl that understands that. I'm in Japan ri... (read in full...)

Help! Wife saw porn, I think I might lose her and my son!

Q.   I have a big problem. My wife looked through the history of my laptop and saw some porn sites I had went to. I'm living a few hours away from home because of my job, and get home on the weekends. She had seen that I had searched for MILFs and a ...

A.   25 March 2009: I see...you're in the military...hey me too. I know what you should do now. It's gonna be hard to quit the military but also doesn't help if you're gonna most of the time. You should do what most other here have said "tell her you love her and she's ... (read in full...)

Help! Wife saw porn, I think I might lose her and my son!

Q.   I have a big problem. My wife looked through the history of my laptop and saw some porn sites I had went to. I'm living a few hours away from home because of my job, and get home on the weekends. She had seen that I had searched for MILFs and a ...

A.   24 March 2009: sorry dude...I don't think you're looking at the problem the right way...seems like she doesn't mind you watching porn just the type. As far as i know when watching porn you want to watch decent looking girls, why would you want to look for less ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

Q.   Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...

A.   8 March 2009: What is going on nowadays? you guys are way to young to be even think about sex. I don't think you're at that age to be having sex. it doesn't hurt to wait...it would sux if she get pregnant at that age and then what...?... (read in full...)

I'm falling so deeply and now I'm broken... help...

Q.   I am currently so heart broken I dont know where to start my story. 2 years ago Im seperated from my husband and about 6 months after I met a guy through an adult online dating site thinking i want to just look for some exclusive fun (I dont do h...

A.   8 March 2009: wow...nice book you just wrote. Anyway sounds like you did too much for you part in the relationship. Right now you just need to leave him be and is he missed you he will call. Just carry on with your life and forget about him. I know you know this ... (read in full...)

My life pretty much stinks on ice!!!

Q.   I don't know what to do... I always feel so down and lonely... my life pretty much stinks on ice!!! I'm always depressed, nothing ever comes easy for me and I dont think I can handle it any more... and to put on to that misery.... I rarely get ...

A.   8 March 2009: you just need a hobby. Find something that you like to do and takes a little bit of time to do it. I suggest musical instrument especially guitar (trust me...the ladies love that). Not saying you need a lady right now but it will be a good skill to ... (read in full...)

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

A.   7 March 2009: i think you got your answer when he walked out on you...what other reason do you need not to break up with him?... (read in full...)

AT 13, should we have sex?

Q.   im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we are really deeply in love with each other.we have been going out for 4 in a half months.we both want to but should we have sex ?...

A.   26 February 2009: I can't believe you want to have sex at 13. 13!!? that's way too young. I know you don't want to hear "NO" but you will be glad you that you waited till older. Trust me if we (as guys) care enough about you we'll wait too. If your bf doesn't then he ... (read in full...)

Am I being foolish by letting this upset me? Why the secrecy?

Q.   About 2 years ago my live in boyfriend told me a girl he had gone to school with (20 years ago) had contacted him. When I asked a few months later how she was, he said he hadn't talked with her for some time. I recently found out he has a secret ...

A.   23 February 2009: i'm sorry to hear about your situation. you probably don't want to hear this but that sounds like a one way street to cheating. You definitely need to find out what's going on and prepare for the worst. good luck!... (read in full...)

One minute he's courteous, the next, he teases me!

Q.   Men, I need your help. Or women if you have had similar experiences. The guy that I like is very confusing (I know which guy isn't, right?) One second he's offering to brush off my car and holds doors open for me. And the next he'll tease me w...

A.   22 February 2009: That isn't something you should look hard into. He seems good to me. teasing is what we do once in a while for a change in mood. For me i think teasing is just a break from being all lovevy dappy. What's the fun in just going straight to love all ... (read in full...)

Do I get on with my life or wait in the wings?

Q.   I was with a guy for a year and a half and one day he told me we should take a break. After a few weeks this break became a break up. I sadly kept asking him why can't we just back together and he told me it's because he still has feelings for his ...

A.   22 February 2009: If you love someone let them go. If they love you then they will come back. If they don't then they never were yours. i heard something like that somewhere. It makes sense to me. You should do the same.... (read in full...)

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

A.   22 February 2009: The way it seems, this guy need a slap across the face to wake up. I'm not going to big details about this whole things since you already have and answer from Emilyanswers. There are other fishes out in the sea. You're are bound to find another good ... (read in full...)

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