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... Send *ackalus a private message | | | *ackalus's profile:Hey guys im Jack and i'm 17 years old. i live in england and I started on this wesite on the 16th or 17th of february 2011. i joined because i have problems with girls, friends and i felt i could help people my age with problems and other problems I will try and help as best as possible.
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| Latest articles: Someone not liking you back + rebound = a whole lotta trouble!
No replies yet... 5 June 2011: So when you where growing up did you ever feel as if you liked someone but they didn't like you back? Well you are most certainly not alone there! Probably the majority of the population have at one point in their lives experienced the exact sa...
How to decide which one
No replies yet... 5 June 2011: I am going to try and help you all who read this how to choose the one that you like out of the 2+ or how to choose one of the 2+ that like you. I although still quite young have been in both of these positions in my recent years. When you like 2 o...
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When I masturbate, no sperm comes out!
Q. Hi I am 13 and I have erections but when I masturbate no sperm comes out. I'm scared as I have been kicked in the balls twice; once this year the other one last year. I don't want to go to the doctors because my Mum will know and I'm really ...
A. 15 March 2011: Well if you are masturbating from porn or something erotic then you need to try for longer but if it is from a random erection you get you shouldnt produce sperm
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He got an erection from just cuddling?
Q. me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ...
A. 13 March 2011: I think because you are his girlfriend he is obviously attracted to you and that's what happens with us. I got one when the girl I liked was sat on my lap now that was embarrassing. ... (read in full...)
Wife slept with another man with my permission but now I'm finding it hard to deal with.
Q. My wife and I have been married for five years and love each other very much. We've been very honest in our relationship and have always shared our fantasies and flirtations with other people. She has always had a desire of sleeping with another ...
A. 12 March 2011: Sex is the ultimate showing of love and you should never have let her. Even with your consent it is cheating.... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: Well I don't know which one I like the most. I need ideas on how to find out... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: Sorry for not being clear there are 3 girls overall and none of them have boyfriends.... (read in full...)
My partner is abusive so I am going to cheat on him!
Q. Is it justified for me to cheat if my partner is abusive to me? I shouldn't say justified, but rather is it a good reason. I know I should just leave him, but i don't know how at this point. He hits me and threatens me and verbally abuses me. ...
A. 11 March 2011: Cheating is not the answer. You need to confront him and tell him he has no right to lay his hands on you and that u are leaving. You just need guidance and courage but dont cheat... (read in full...)
The myth of "best friends" of the opposite sex
Q. OK, I know I am going to get a lot of flack for this (assuming anyone read this) but from my experience and observation I believe that a heterosexual man and woman who claim to be "best friends" without any romantic feelings...is a myth. Almost al...
A. 4 March 2011: You have gd points but I disagree because my best friend is a girl and we never thunk of each other sexually we help each other in bad relationships with advice about our gender.... (read in full...)
I have somewhat of an existential crisis. Please help
Q. I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend for probably the sixth time after finding him have cyber sex with random girls. I want to stay broken up for good, I really do, but it is almost impossible for me ...
A. 4 March 2011: First thing is first what is your definition of " cyber sex"... (read in full...)
We were engaged, broke up, I contacted him, he sent me a Valentine's gift and message. I rejected him, but I still love him! What should I do?
Q. I had a boyfriend. After a year and a half he proposed. We were engaged for 4 months and we broke up because he started a business with his family and told me nothing about it. I didn't like it because he was totally invested in it and practically ...
A. 4 March 2011: I know you don't want to hear this but you should have said yes to his valentines day thing. If he has deleted you in under an hour and all of your family he has no intention of contacting you ever again. If you want to be with him then you need... (read in full...)
How do I ask my boyfriend if we can have a threesome with his friend?
Q. i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx...
A. 28 February 2011: No no no no no no no no no xxmishxx is right don't do it. It will cause mistrust, violence and a whole lot of crap. How would u feel I'd he said I wanna have a threesome with you and ur girl friend or sister. U would say no it's cheating it's wrong ... (read in full...)
First love stories...how did you meet?
Q. How did you meet your first love and how? or if your married how did you find each other?...
A. 26 February 2011: Hmm tough question. My first girlfriend was when I was in yr6 10 yrs old i know it's young but anyway, her and her best friend both liked me at the same time which was weird, still we were official for about 6 months then I dumped her for someone ... (read in full...)
Our little weekend away is turning into a guys thing!
Q. Hi all, my boyfriend of 4 years and I were supposed to go on a little getaway to the casino/hotel for a few days. I was looking forward to it as we never went anywhere by ourselves just the two of us. The past 2 days he has kind of been ignoring...
A. 26 February 2011: Well it seems as if he doesnt really want to be going out with you at all friends are important but I believe a relationship which could go somewhere is more important so he can't see it going anywhere serious... (read in full...)
Too soon to kiss???
Q. I'm going to the cinema with a girl who I like and who likes me, is it too soon to kiss her or not?...
A. 26 February 2011: Hey guys thanks for the help, and the flow was, well, nothing at all, no literal physical contact in a sexual and non sexual way. It was almost killing me. I wanted to grab her and just sweep her off her feet and give her the kiss of a lifetime, but ... (read in full...)
He means the world to me. How can I get him to trust me?
Q. Hello :-) Right, i shall start from the begining so it makes more sense to you all. (whoever's reading) My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and at the begining of the relationship i was still talking to other boys (jus...
A. 26 February 2011: Caring guy, dirtball and denise32 well done you make great points. I'm going to focus on the beginning. You used pet names and put kisses. Yes, my sister puts kisses on her texts to me. This girl in my year who is my very good friend has had a ... (read in full...)
We're in financial trouble and have been offered money for sex, should we do it?
Q. I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought ...
A. 26 February 2011: No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no, this should never have gotten this far. Don't do any of it. This will lead to other people wanting, no other way to put it, you to prostitute and your relationship will break down, could possibly end! ... (read in full...)
I want to take it beyond Facebook!
Q. I'm really close to this girl i know, she is in 10th standard and im in 9th, i really like her, but she just likes me as a friend, we talk on facebook all the time, but i want something more, what can i do...
A. 26 February 2011: Just ask her for her number and say I just want it so I can text you if I need to. Then after a while just ask her 'hey do u wanna meet up with me sometime outside of school?'... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my femaly P.E. teacher and I need to get rid of these feelings! Any advice?
Q. Hi people. I'm obsessed with my female P.E teacher and I don't know how to get out of it. I don’t want to, but I have to, or else I’ll go off the rails. Does anybody who share the same problem or have any advice? Please reply. ...
A. 21 February 2011: Well mate I'm not in the same position but we have a very attractive female pe teacher at my school. But seriously you may think you are attracted to her but I would guess it is just puberty doing ... (read in full...)
The sweetness of first love....
Q. Stories of first loves? Did it last? How old were you? What went wrong? Do you still think of them? Are you still together? Stories, please. I'm interested :)...
A. 21 February 2011: My first love wow er my best friend was my first crush but my first love is the girl I'm hung up on ATM she is beautiful and I just can't stop think about her I had a dream that we were in a very serious relationship and after that night I had that ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my self confidence, stop worrying, and be better in school and relate better to others
Q. Hello, I am only 15 at the moment and I have a slight issue with my self confidence. I know I'm not really thin but I don't think I'm fat, I have an hourglass figure and have a little larger reir end and thighs, which is difficult to get rid of...
A. 20 February 2011: I don't think there is anything you can do other than try. Do different things like join new clubs with friends and hang out with more outgoing people maybe... (read in full...)
What do guys think about little breasts?
Q. Alright here it goes: so i don't have the biggest breast in the world. There close to a B. Big breast do not run in my family at all. I mean my mother is an A36. I just want to know what guys think about little breast. ...
A. 20 February 2011: Dont worry about small breasts mist guys can't tell how big a womens cup size is. I get b and c mixed up c and d mixed up. Real breasts are a turn on, huge breasts are a turn off and so are fake ones ... (read in full...)
My boobs are small and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hello, i am 15 and i have small boobs. i am going on holiday in July with my boyfriend and his family and i am inbarased about them. I was shopping not that long ago with him and we were talking about bras and he asked what bra size i was and i ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hi er well you have to be straight with him and tell him before you go, if he leaves you he never really loved you for you. Your bra size should not affect your relationship... (read in full...)
How do I ask my crush to go out with me?
Q. Allright so I've had a crush on this girl since we were in 8th grade. I'm in 9th grade now and I want to ask her out so bad! She's really pretty to me, funny, and I love her laugh.We have had small conversations every now and then like hey hows it ...
A. 20 February 2011: I don't want not put a downer on you but that's not a great plan if I'm honest. I think what you need to do I walk up to her in the hallway I'm English so I'm trying to relate so meet her at her locker and start small talk then say 'I have been ... (read in full...)
How can I ask out a guy who already has a gf?
Q. I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. And he doesn't even know that I feel this way about him. I want to ask him out but I'm terrified to do it because I don't want it to be awkward if he turns me down. Also, I don't want him to be ...
A. 20 February 2011: You need to see if he really loves his girlfriend, if he does you just needto be a friend to him. If their relationship isn't great you need to tell him how you feel but don't ask him out.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?
Q. I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...
A. 18 February 2011: Go for it all that can happen is he says no then u have an answer and need to start persuading him... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?
Q. I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...
A. 18 February 2011: I am a 14 year old boy living in the uk so probs quite similar to your bf if he is anything like me or any of my mates he is worrying about if you are ready for it I say next time ur alone together hold him close to you and just go for it stand ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?
Q. I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...
A. 18 February 2011: As a 14 year old boy myself I will answer as fully as possible I dont know his age obv so I will cover what u should do if he is 12,13,14 and 15
1. If he is 12 years you are the more mature one and need to be making decisions like that you need... (read in full...)
I cant seem to get over him......
Q. i'm 13, soon 14. i broke up with my boyfriend in november (we only lasted a month but liked each other a lot) and now its february. we didnt break up cause of relationship problems or anything, its cause something else not really important. we kept ...
A. 17 February 2011: I as you can see am a guy and I can sort of see how u feel I am 14 almost 15 so I can relate you need to keep not talking to him he seems an alright guy from what I have heard but there are plenty more fish in the sea and he seems to just be one ... (read in full...)
Guy number 1? Guy number 2?
Q. Hi there! So here's the deal. I'm torn between these two guys. I've known the 1st one for 5 months now, and he's really sweet to me. He says so many nice things about me, he compliments me, sings to me, we can talk about anything and is incredibly ...
A. 17 February 2011: Hi I have got the exact same problem except I'm a guy and am torn between 2 girls I would suggest guy number 2. If u could read my questions I would be grateful and a reply with some advice would be greatly appreciated... (read in full...)
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