A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:my ex and i broke up a few months ago after being together for two years. weve texted occasionally, but nothing serious. i want him to be in my life like he was before and don't know how to get to the point where he would realize that i'm the person he loves.help!
View related questions:
broke up, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, heartbroken20  +, writes (26 August 2009):
Don't. It sounds to me like he's the one who broke it off with you, or the break up was your doing (or mutual) and you've already attempted to get back with him, only to be rejected. Honey, why would you want to be with somebody who would hurt you that way?Get over him and get on with your life. It will be difficult, but it will be the best thing you ever did, trust me. Pamper yourself. Get dolled up and go out with the girls, and have a fabulous, drama-free time! Focus on college (or your career). Love yourself. Don't live for your ex; he's history.Don't worry about finding someone else.Respect yourself. Forget this guy -- he doesn't DESERVE you. Many people will tell you that you'll find someone else (maybe even "the one") when it's the last thing on your mind. More appropriately, that somebody will find YOU. I promise. Take care of yourself.
A
female
reader, nightwalker +, writes (26 August 2009):
 What i am about to tell you is tricky and risky at the same time but 95 % works... !st never show you are desperate, you will only make him make fun of you and act all whatever in front his friends...Don't let him get the feeling he is something that special goes he'll get it on him and will feel more confided for finding someone else. 2nd... dress sexy, more than you have ever done, this way if he sees you he'll be like huba huba haha... 3rd start acting like your busy... then less the times you talk... 4th start dating. if you are not able to do that and you dont want to, than go out with someone where hell be and act like you are over him... if you have a friend, or a friend's friend you could use that will be great... make him seem like you have been dating and that he is crazy about you... let your ex know that... if he knows that other people are crazy about you im sure he'll run back... Look, men want what other men love... they won't what they cannot have...jealousy always helps them realize what they really feel and want... Once they lose you then they realize your true value .... ;)let me know what happens... ;)nightwalker
...............................
A
male
reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (26 August 2009):
You cant make anyone realize something they can not physically see. In time, things may swing back into perspective and maybe he will realize.
But in the mean time, stay confident. Admire your attributes, remember your beauty, remember that GUYS WANT YOU . Keep that in mind, dont appear desperate, dont drown him in phone calls, texts, e mails.. its not beneficial. You are the one in control, think about it in a conceited way... as in
Is he worth MY time, think of it like that. I guarantee you , you will find many many other offers.
-IYDM
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): thats assuming he still does, maybe,instead of waiting for him to realise something you think he feels,you should alert him of how you feel
...............................
|
