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He drools over other girls every time we go out!

Q.   I am so angry with my boyfriend. He takes me out then drools over another lady looking straight past my face into hers. He has been making remarks at other ladies in front of me and I tried to brush it off, but this time it was too much. He says I ...

A.   29 June 2009: What the hell he must be pretty confident to think he can do that and keep you as a gf ... i wouldnt stand for it, he says your jealous or over exagerating but fact is your not , he clearly insensitive and you must do it back to him first! Loud and ... (read in full...)

He bought a flavoured condom, hoping I'd have sex with him!

Q.   my boyfriend wants to do sex with me but i am not ready. yesterday at school he asked me my favourite flavour and at night he came to my house and told he wanted to have sex with me.he had also brought my favourite flavour's condom.but i sent him ...

A.   29 June 2009: To be completely honest love at 14 is not love at 18 or even 20, i dont know how long you dated but i doubt its even been a long period of time meaning a year or two ! ... Sex at 14 isnt right in my opinion i believe your not emotionally even ... (read in full...)

Pornorgraphy against Religion!

Q.   Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it h...

A.   25 June 2009: cheating does entail more than what your bf of 9months seems to be doing , he dont want comitment with one of these women (he wants youn the fact is) he watching multipul porn showing he is jus indulging in mnodern fantasy. Why dont you watch it ... (read in full...)

Pornorgraphy against Religion!

Q.   Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it h...

A.   25 June 2009: This is difficult because of your religion, understand !... But i know and can maybe help you in saying Porn and the women has nothing to do with you and your image or even your sex life... Its a man escape and fantasy.. its liek you being a great ... (read in full...)

I don't want to leave but I really want the independent uni life!

Q.   I dont want to leave my family and friends to go to university but want to move at the same time, I have a good home life, I argue loads with everyone but we love each other soo much... I love my friends and have no boyfriend relationship ...

A.   25 June 2009: Yeah see this is what i gte told alot it is the best years of your life.. and im sure itll be wonderful, but im scared i wont make new friends, ive always been fairly liked where i live now just casual with everyone and a few specal friends, im ... (read in full...)

Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly?

Q.   Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly? All my friends are so skinny and size 6 and 8... I dont want to lose a great amount of weight, just enough to look like them and one of them said laxatives helped them. thanks...

A.   25 June 2009: thanks everyone for replying... you answer are all very similar putting into light the danger, i do understand people have different body types, i just believe there more beautiful the way they are, im probably just jealous.. but dont think i will ... (read in full...)

My grandpa molested me when I was 13!

Q.   My grandpa molested me when I was 13. I stayed over at his house all summer because my parents were finishing building a house and moving into it. The abuse started by him tickling me one time after I was tickling my cousins. A minute or so later ...

A.   24 June 2009: Ive been too a crown court and watched a case just like this before, there was hard evidence and the fact is he got done for ten years but good behaviour let out in 5.... showing stuff like this should be exposed your family welfaire is lovely to ... (read in full...)

I don't want sex, it hurts. Should I give it to him?

Q.   i don't want to have sex with my boyfriend because i'm not yet ready but everytime he touched me in areas gives me tickles and make me want to do it and i cant think well during that state. then everytime he tries to stick his thing in I cry and he ...

A.   24 June 2009: im a virgin too and your worrying me lool .. no im kidding the fact is loosing your virginity is painful but not excruciating , you may have a low pain threshold or your too tense ... maybe its pyschological and you think the pain is worse than it ... (read in full...)

I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?

Q.   hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...

A.   24 June 2009: ITs seems it isnt worth the cost of being outcasted by your society... if you want to have sex with him noone can stop you but it would be reaosnable to say you should wait for someone you really like, your so yound aswell the law is there for a ... (read in full...)

How can I make amends? I tried to make love to her while she was asleep...

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other going on five months now, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me by far, we share a lot of the same interests, enjoy the same things, and really hit it off better than I ever thought ...

A.   24 June 2009: wow good question it seems you broken her trust really, and sex with someone you love is very intimate so breaking the intimate level is probably worse. As a girl i understand completely why she is not acting right with you, if i ahd a bf that ... (read in full...)

How do I even talk to this boy when I'm so shy?

Q.   I am a girl that is really shy and I would like to know how to get this boy that I like to like me back. I hardly ever talk to him because his popular and i'm not! I really need help!...

A.   24 June 2009: As i dont know you its hard to give advice to such questions... first of all ask your self why you are shy, isit low self esteem lack in confidence. if so why do you have this do you think your not beautiful? if so who else agrees (probally ... (read in full...)

What are your views on premarital sex?

Q.   hi there, what do you think with that I think girls and boys should have sex after getting married(for the first time)no sex before marriage what is your opinion?...

A.   24 June 2009: Well opinion will be biased wth religion and other factors. i personally believe sex before marraige is acceptable, i believe that being with someone who you are commited to and love is good enough for me. Finding the one is tough in this life time ... (read in full...)

I introduced them and now they're texting one another, thing is I liked him first!

Q.   Okay so I have this best guy friend whom I love like a brother and he knows everything about me and I feel super comfortable with him, the thing is I introduced him to my best chick friend about a year ago and now she gave him her number and she ...

A.   24 June 2009: maybe you fancy the boy then again maybe you fancy you girl mate...my point is by saying you fancy him may be a silly assumption. I believe its the thought of you not being number one in either of there lives, it seems the fact they have eachother ... (read in full...)

Why am I jealous of my sister?

Q.   I have recently felt concerned about my relationship with my sister. She is younger than me (2 years), a doctor, and engaged to a good looking man who adores her. I am a real estage agent, really enjoy my job etc, and very happy with my life in ...

A.   24 June 2009: The fact you mention she your younger sister seems to strike me in the sense that you older than her are suppose to be more successful and n a comiting relationship, it isnt the gritty details of your sister but the idea of her life coming together ... (read in full...)

Who has stayed with their parter after an affair?

Q.   hello... I was wondering if anyone could help me out... I recently found out that my partner has been utilizing massage services... Which I wouldn't have a problem with except it was ones that "finish" the job so to speak... Now... That isn't...

A.   24 June 2009: Right what struck me most about this is he didnt cheat is a sense of sex which is most common.. no strings attached sex.. or even sex then you grow closer into a formal relationship. But you believe your partner in saying there no sex showing two ... (read in full...)

We're great friends and I know I'll never be his girlfriend...but I want to be!

Q.   I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in ...

A.   24 June 2009: The thing is i had a simlar situation and i liked my best friend older brother sooo much and we were always close so one day i told him and he felt the same.. so we dated and immediately he ended it and i ruined are friendship ! For me it truly were... (read in full...)

Why did he cheat if he says I'm the best thing that happened to him?

Q.   This is new to me, so forgive me. I'm usually the one giving the advice, not asking for it. But for once, I'm stuck. I've known this guy for two years, and we've always been great friends and just about 6 months ago we started talking every si...

A.   24 June 2009: ok the way you describe it, it seems he does infact have strong feelings for your mate and maybe the fact that she in so unavalible to him makes him want her more because you seem besotted with this guy you so avalible he might be leading you on and ... (read in full...)

Why should I change and act all macho? I'm happy as I am!

Q.   I'm a 35 year old guy who is in a great relationship with my wonderful girlfriend. The problem is that the way i act people think i'm gay. It makes me mad having to convince people that i'm straight! Maybe it's because of some of the things ...

A.   24 June 2009: I understand the gay comments as (no offence) However if you are truly happy as you are you should not get so bothered you said you have a lovely gf who obviously see otherwise to people. It seems the statement intouch with you feminine side would ... (read in full...)

Is he insecure or just nasty?

Q.   Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race child...

A.   24 June 2009: He seems to be both. though im sure there are other reasons like his divorce making him bitter despite being so long ago he still went through a break up... now years down the line your serious and he desperately insecure your going to leave him, it ... (read in full...)

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