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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I am a girl that is really shy and I would like to know how to get this boy that I like to like me back. I hardly ever talk to him because his popular and i'm not! I really need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): I think you should just tell him that you like him or else you might in the friendship bubble. I know it might be quite hard to do but the worst he can say is no.
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reader, identifiable  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 As i dont know you its hard to give advice to such questions... first of all ask your self why you are shy, isit low self esteem lack in confidence. if so why do you have this do you think your not beautiful? if so who else agrees (probally noone).. using this cognitive style of thinking will help you grow in confidence not over night though. Approaching him will be the hardest part so once you bite the bullet and say to him "heya aint seen you in ages", or randomly say "oh you know what i thought i saw you the other day werent you though some other goodlookin guy"... this way he'll know youll like him and leaves it open for him to say thanks etc and see whether he expresses an interest back.. if he does then blurting out will you go out with me just wont cut it.. you have to keep it casual and linger a boys interest set your self different from the other girls who like the typical popular guy.. be flirtacious but unavalible and above all show class. i appreciate your young but by trying to kiss him behind the lockers at school makes you another girl not the special one... anyway good luck hun x im sure youll get him x
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