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anonymous
writes:I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in anyone and he has no thoughts of getting into a relationship. Now that I like him so much I don't know what I should do. I'm too afriad to ask cos' I think he will reject me like he did to other girls. I bet he only treats me as a friend cos' we had a conversation about him being a great guy thats why girl always fall for him and he said that "but you didn't". But actually I did! What should I do? Tell him or wait for him to realise that I love him? Reply to this Question
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reader, identifiable  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 The thing is i had a simlar situation and i liked my best friend older brother sooo much and we were always close so one day i told him and he felt the same.. so we dated and immediately he ended it and i ruined are friendship !
For me it truly werent worth it ... now think what are you gaining or loosing .. isit truly worth it... if so confess your feelings but remember your life isnt a romance novel and there are other boys out there you may be so fixated on this guy because you aint socialising with many others.What ever the reason good luck x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 June 2009):
 He's not ready for a serious relationship and he knows it. How refreshing. If I were in your shoes, I'd just relax and enjoy the friendship you are sharing. Both of you are very young and there is no rush. Just have fun with each other, make memories. Who knows what may develop down the road?
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