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I'm a school teacher and have a graduate degree in psychology. I've been through a lot in my life and have seen people in a lot of psychological pain.

I'm in a happy, committed relationship; but my relationships haven't always been good.

I just want to help but I know that often I can't give the best advice because I don't have the full story, or I simply just don't have the knowledge or experience.

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How can I get him to be more interested in ME and not keep looking at porn all the time?

Q.   Hi I have been married for 1.7 years we are both 22 and we have a beautiful daughter who is 14 months and we have been together for 2.6 years now I love my husband sooo much and I know he loves me but the thing is he looks at porn online he ...

A.   26 February 2007: Pornography often starts as a way to fuel fantasy, and can then become an addiction. Unless the addiction becomes out of control, it is usually not considered too much of a threat to a relationship (sometimes porn can actually save a ... (read in full...)

Any advice on how to rectify my boyfriend's ED? (Erectile Dysfunction)

Q.   My boyfriend has recently started suffering from premature ejaculation. Have been with him for almost 2 years and things were great, we used to have marathon sessions but for the past 2 months, he lasts for about 2 minutes, if that, and then he ...

A.   25 February 2007: The more you and your boyfriend worry about this, the more of an issue it will become. You're worried about him not fancying you, and he's worried about not pleasing you - and you both might be attributing the 'atmosphere' in the bedroom to your ... (read in full...)

I really want to try anal but it was so messy! How do I do it so it's not?

Q.   This is probably a weird question.. well what it is is i want to try anal.. the other day me and my boyfriend attempted to do it but it hurt too much and 'messy stuff' you know what i mean was on his penis.. is this normal because i was sooo ...

A.   16 February 2007: A bit of 'messy stuff' is inevitable when you're having anal - nothing to be embarrassed about. Your could try turning the lights down low and using a condom so he doesn't have to clean himself after. Alternatively you could have an anal douche b... (read in full...)

Am I being a fool thinking things could work out for us? Where should I go from here?

Q.   I received the email below from my boyfriend, who I did not realize was seeing someone else.. we live in separate cities and saw each other at Christmas and we talked about our relationship and he stated he wanted us to do things right... that he ...

A.   16 February 2007: It's difficult to accept that he's confused - he clearly chose to pursue a relationship with this other woman. He had to have, at some point, made a decision about whether to continue with you or not. Usually when someone is truly in love they don't ... (read in full...)

Why is she always giving me false hope?

Q.   There is this gal who always turns down my requets of being her bf but soon after does or says something to give me hope like 'dont rush me', 'if you were my bf...' or 'give me time'.We often even do things togher like shopping andd asks my opinon ...

A.   14 February 2007: It seems as if she wants you only as a friend, but she's being very insensitive because she most likely realises how she is hurting you. It seems as if she might be 'stringing you along' in case she doesn't find anyone else. If you can, you... (read in full...)

He's been looking for free sex and escorts..He claims innocence but I found the records! Who do I believe here?

Q.   dear all. i'm not a native english speaker, so apologies for eventual mistakes. I've got married with this guy for three years and I've found out from phone bills and internet records that he's been looking either for escorts and free sex for a lo...

A.   14 February 2007: Unfortunately, it's almost impossible to prove whether he's telling the truth or not. By trying to find proof, you are most likely only to make both you and him more upset. He might have become addicted to the excitement of calling and enqu... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he can't ejaculate... should I help?

Q.   Hi im a 15 year old girl. My boyfreind recently told me he cant ejaculate! I'm not sure whether this is just down to him not having developed enough yet or whether he has a problem. He is quite immature for his age in physical terms so im wondering ...

A.   7 February 2007: A boy's developing manhood is quite a sensitive issue, and discussion about it may make him feel embarrassed. Is he having an orgasm but without the semen? Lots of semen is only produced when a boy is a bit older. So - ejaculation and orgasm a... (read in full...)

I'm gay and I don't enjoy sex! What can I do to begin enjoying it?

Q.   Hi i am Gay male of 21, i av had sex many times but the one thing i cant seem to do is enjoy it, never have enjoyed sex at all, and im lost on what i can do to enjoy it, me and my partner have had sex yet, not just because of my problem but because ...

A.   3 February 2007: Sorry to hear about your problem Gay sex doesn't have to be anal - many gay guys enjoy other types of sex. It seems as if sex has become more of an issue because you're both worrying about it. Try to forget about it and focus on other types of... (read in full...)

He proposed... but with no ring (he was saving)... now it turns out he hadn't really meant it!?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I am at the stage where I really don't know what to do for the best. He is a couple of years older than me and when we first got together things were great. After 6 months he asked me to marry...

A.   3 February 2007: Sorry to hear this If he's treating you badly it means that your relationship has become toxic. We often fall into these traps to 'save ourselves' from loneliness; but, in reality, the low-level emotional abuse only weakens us and makes us ... (read in full...)

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