Unfaithfulness on both our parts, Do I stay or go?
Q. I have been to my husband for 4 1/2 married for 1 1/2 years, we were good friends for four years before we started dating. I have two children from a previous relationship who know him as there father and don't know anything else. During our four ...
A. 27 January 2011: I think that the only way your marriage could be considered fixable is if you act fast, I know councelling isn't an option many find appealing but it can produce some great results. The key thing you need to do, for better or worse, is commun... (read in full...)
One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?
Q. Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...
A. 27 January 2011: Definetly leave him. Even if you weren't not over your ex fiance the way your current man is acting is way too much for you to ignore.... (read in full...)
How do I be more romantic without going overboard?
Q. For the most part I'm not a very romantic person, this doesn't bother my fiance but it does bother me when I think about it, I'm not completely unromantic (i.e. I took her out to dinner at a very nice Italian restaraunt and bought her flowers last ...
A. 27 January 2011: I know that on the special days like Valentines day I'm good but my question is about being more romantic on the normal days, we've been seeing each other for over a year now and I think I've only bought her flowers three times and I used to send ... (read in full...)
does he think I'm a whore and he is just a really really good liar?
Q. ok,this is really confusing me-I have this new boyfriend-we've been seeing each other for a couple of months and he is saying that he loves me and he wants to have a serious relationship and he sounds really genuine and when he says what he likes ...
A. 27 January 2011: I think you should tell him you know that he said that. There is a chance that he has changed his mind since then but knowing what you know you are right to be afraid that he could just be lieing to you. ... (read in full...)
Flat tire, 6mo preggo, and bf is more worried about his xbox game?
Q. So I got a flat tire on my way to work. I'm 6 months pregnant and have no cell phone and live in MN where it was a balmy 20*f out today. I was able to stop someone driving by to use their phone and call my dad. My dad came and helped me, the only ...
A. 27 January 2011: Yes you should be upset, this is what I would call a couch offence, in that you'd be perfectly justified in making him sleep on the couch.
Your safety and wellbeing should have been his first priority, even if you weren't pregnant.
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Would watching gay porn bring out these feelings in me?
Q. : Ok i hav been masturbating on gay porn and i feel so horny looking at all these buff guys naked, i also hav developed crushes on boys at school and i dont like girls anymore that much! Plz help! Im 15!! Is this because i watched gay porn?...
A. 27 January 2011: Its ok, watching gay porn didn't make you into something that you are not. Being gay is not some condition that you can catch.
As you develop go for what makes you happy, be happy to be yourself and confident enough to express that and you shou... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watching porn, says he doesn't care if I break up with him or not
Q. Ok, I recently found out that my boyfriend has been going on this website called [name removed but suggests pictures with no clothes on]... ALL THE TIME!. He wont reply to my texts, he doesn't talk to me, i feel like he has emotionally with...
A. 26 January 2011: From what you said it seems that he really doesn't care and I'd recomend that you find someone who does.
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Power shift in a relationship?
Q. In a relationship why would power shift from one person to the other? Nothing personal just a bit of research for a book I'm writing :) ...
A. 26 January 2011: Well when a couple get together one partner but be fairly shy or inexperience and gain more confidence.... (read in full...)
If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?
Q. I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex ...
A. 26 January 2011: While I think it is a good position to take that you should have "an official relationship" rather than just an affair I think you should not give her an outright ultimatum, this might just scare her away or leave her feeling hurt/betrayed.
Inste... (read in full...)
Now she wants our relationship to go sexless until marriage. Should I accept this request?
Q. After leaving a long term relationship, that was based primarily on sexual attraction, I am dating a girl who attracted me more than just physically. We have been dating for about 5 months and have had anywhere from 25-30 sexual encounters. The fir...
A. 26 January 2011: It seems that while you have a great deal of affection for here you are not truly sexually attracted to her.
Do not accept this request outright, going into a marriage while you doubt your sexual chemistry with her would be a mistake, you should s... (read in full...)
I haven't been on a date for a long time. Could you please suggest some conversation starters and tips for my date with a 17 year old?
Q. Hi all! I'm 19. Going to have a date with a very nice 17 year old :). Now, it's been a VEEERY long time since I went on a date, so I'm thinking I'm a tad rusty, so would anyone have any good tips for conversation? :) Thanks...
A. 26 January 2011: I know be yourself is cliche but here is a reason for that. Jokes and the sort of stuff dirtball mentioned are good for icebreakers.
Once you get talking try to get a feel for the conversation, if she seems to like talking about a particul... (read in full...)
How genuine is my guy? I've helped him so much, and yet I feel excluded from his life.
Q. My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me ...
A. 26 January 2011: So you say you have been in love for three years yet you have never met his family? That on its own is suspicous.
If it has been this long and he still doesn't include you in certain parts of his life my instincts tell me that he is probably... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and didn't use a condom with the other girl
Q. my fiance of 5yr cheated on me when i was 5month pregnant,i got to know my self after i gave birth,he confess after i ask him and apologise.but the worst part of it is he was sleeping with this girl in our apartment,and he did not use condom.he ...
A. 13 January 2011: If you feel that your marriage can be saved and that you are able to trust him then give it another shot.
Just to be safe you should get yourself checked for any sexually transmitted diseases he may have given, most act up pretty quickly but bett... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is immature and I always cave in and contact him after a fight
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little less than 2 years so here is the quickest timeline I can possibly do..... beginning: everything was cute, we would go on dates, things were good. about a month in, he starts becoming super insecure about m...
A. 13 January 2011: Leave him. If you are strong and do so you will one day be able to find a man who gives you everything you want and doesn't act like a jealous, angry, thoughtless control freak. If you stay with him you may have some good times but they will no ... (read in full...)
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