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writes:my fiance of 5yr cheated on me when i was 5month pregnant,i got to know my self after i gave birth,he confess after i ask him and apologise.but the worst part of it is he was sleeping with this girl in our apartment,and he did not use condom.he later sleep with me.i love him so much.pls advice me on what to do.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Have you been checked for any and all types of STDs? If not, then do so immediately. He cheated on you when you were five months pregnant and had sex with this girl in your apartment.
Are you sure he won't cheat on you again? How sorry is he for doing this to you and breaking your trust? Have you considered maybe taking a break from your relationship and letting him and you, have some space for a while? Perhaps reevaluate your relationship and whether or not you can learn to trust him again?
I am so sorry he did that to you and truly you are a strong person for wanting to forgive him, but he needs to be truly sorry and be willing to earn your trust back and that's not going to happen overnight.
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reader, LizBeth +, writes (13 January 2011):
You need to go to a clinic or doctor immediately and be checked for any sexually transmitted diseases that he may have given you. Do NOT wait.
Then, kick him out. He does not deserve you. You may love him, but he obviously does not love you, care about you or respect you. And do NOT believe him when he comes back and says, "Baby, I'm so sorry. Can we try again? I won't do it ever again." Repeat the word "NO" until he gets it.
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson  +, writes (13 January 2011):
If you feel that your marriage can be saved and that you are able to trust him then give it another shot.
Just to be safe you should get yourself checked for any sexually transmitted diseases he may have given, most act up pretty quickly but better safe than sorry. If you stay with him make him get checked too.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Sounds like there's a chance that he could be a father again to the other woman, will you still love him then. So he cheated and now you can not trust him. You have to realize that he may do this again so you now will be forever watching his every move. Do you want to live like that?
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