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writes:: Ok i hav been masturbating on gay porn and i feel so horny looking at all these buff guys naked, i also hav developed crushes on boys at school and i dont like girls anymore that much! Plz help! Im 15!! Is this because i watched gay porn?
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson +, writes (27 January 2011):
Its ok, watching gay porn didn't make you into something that you are not. Being gay is not some condition that you can catch.
As you develop go for what makes you happy, be happy to be yourself and confident enough to express that and you shouldn't go wrong.
If you need them there are plenty of LGBT support groups you can find just by using google.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): why are you watching it in the first place? the feelings are there. i am very straight and dont want to watch it,as you do then its got to be because you have those feelings,it would look wierd to you otherwise. would you rather not have gay feelings? if you are happy within yourself,then it doesnt matter. if you end up bi then you got twice the choices i have.
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reader, mscard  +, writes (23 January 2011):
I don't think the gay porn is making you have those feelings, I think the reason you like the gay porn is that those feelings were already inside you.
Don't sweat it though, kid. There are a lot of assholes out there who for whatever reason have a problem with homosexuality, but the vast majority of people (or at least the ones who matter) won't give you any shit if it turns out that you're gay.
My advice is just do what you're feeling and try not to worry too much about it.
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Ok all you need to do is figure out what your sexual desires are because everyone is different. If you are finding yourself attracted to guys rather than girls you may be gay and that is NOTHING to be ashamed about. Talk to people about this to a friend or sibling, teacher or any other family member. They will not laugh at you, they will not judge you. The only difference is that you will have some support where you need it most, at school or at home. If you find you are attracted to both boys and girls you may be bisexual- a lot of people are either gay or bi-sexual now- it is no longer anything to be ashamed of as we are in the 21st century now. You are only 15 so you have plenty of time to think about it. You need to be who you are and do what makes you happy You will always have the support there.
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (23 January 2011):
Ok all you need to do is figure out what your sexual desires are because everyone is different. If you are finding yourself attracted to guys rather than girls you may be gay and that is NOTHING to be ashamed about. Talk to people about this to a friend or sibling, teacher or any other family member. They will not laugh at you, they will not judge you. The only difference is that you will have some support where you need it most, at school or at home. If you find you are attracted to both boys and girls you may be bisexual- a lot of people are either gay or bi-sexual now- it is no longer anything to be ashamed of as we are in the 21st century now. You are only 15 so you have plenty of time to think about it. You need to be who you are and do what makes you happy You will always have the support there.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (23 January 2011):
Rest assured that porn cannot turn you gay. Either you're gay, or you're not, or by some people's theory, you might be in between. I don't believe it's something you can change. So watch your porn and enjoy it and if you're gay, be thankful it's the 21st century and you live in a mostly-free country.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): No.
I don't think the porn had anything to do with you losing attraction towards girls. However, it may have helped you realize you it faster than you would have otherwise. I don't believe people can choose whether or not they're gay, so I think if you had been straight before the porn, you wouldn't have gotten so into it. I wouldn't worry, though, there's nothing wrong with your being attracted to other guys. I am a married woman who before I met my husband, I dated both men and women. I also know quite a few people who have "experimented" at least once with someone of their own gender. It's more common than you think.
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