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We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 11 February 2010: It's over. I ended it. I'm glad that I tried, but once again our timing was wrong and we just couldn't communicate through the obstacles. We played the game fairly, and im proud of us for that. Now I have to heal and step back and look at this year. ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 7 January 2010: Ok, part one of this update is below.lol I hope I can finish in 2 parts. I want to say here that though it is truly getting more difficult to wait, we haven't been sexual with each other. I don't ask what he does with his wife because if he said he ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 7 January 2010: Hi guys! Hope your holidays were full of love and happiness and that the new year is bringing you more! There has been a lot going on here! I'll try not to babble too much but if I do I'll post another update in a couple of days and give you guys ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 1 November 2009: Hi there. So far no fairytale ending, in fact it seems after all this time that we may have the timing wrong or lack the communication skills to make it. It has been over 7 months since we first talked and if anything I am more uncertain now. I ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 1 November 2009: Hi there. So far no fairytale ending, in fact it seems after all this time that we may have the timing wrong or lack the communication skills to make it. It has been over 7 months since we first talked and if anything I am more uncertain now. I ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 10 October 2009: I want to thank all of you for your help and advice without which i may not have had the courage to see my heart through. THere is a long journey ahead before Kevin and I can live our dream, but we are close friends and our friendship has been ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 1 August 2009: thank you that is great advice but something must be really wrong and i an truly miserable. we were so close... (read in full...)
I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with ...
A. 31 July 2009: You really have impacted my opinion of men! Thank you! You must try as hard as you can to put this information out of your mind. While it was nice of her to be honest? with you she probably didn't realize that she would impact your performance with ... (read in full...)
Please help me cope with this shame..
Q. i have a great girlfriend, i love her to the point of dying, though i have done something stupid, as i sit here i wonder what all of you will think of this but i really use feed back as a way to cope with everything. so me, my girlfriend who i...
A. 31 July 2009: its not that bad, but it sounds like you have a complicated relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe an open relationship is what you both need. maybe not. just be honest and loving to each other. good luck and don't feel to bad. drinking causes ... (read in full...)
I truly love this guy and I cannot believe it has come to this. What do I do?
Q. Oh God, someone help me. So me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up a month ago and I was devastated. In the month though we have been in constant contact, initiated by him. He even told people we were back together. This guy told me I was his ...
A. 31 July 2009: Try to get him to go to some kind of couples' councilor with you or try to get someone who you are both friends with to be a mediator in conversations that you have with each other on this subject. he must trust you for this relationship to work. if ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 31 July 2009: Hi guys, i want to thank you again for all your help and kindness. I wish i had a happier update on the situation but i may be contorting the truth to make it seem worse than it really is. That is why i am asking for your help again. Here's the ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 16 March 2009: Hi guys, good news! I'm so excited I can hardly type or even sit down! I did a little detective work of my own today and found him! He did not think I was stalkerish but rather very clever heehehee! I am deliriously happy but a fairytale ending is n... (read in full...)
Contact & say I am available for lunch?
Q. Hi, it is a little bit long but I need your help ! Question: should I contact him again and tell him that I am available for that lunch? should I wait to see if he contact me back? (which I do not think will happen) This is the story: I met ...
A. 15 March 2009: According to your flag, you are French, my mother was also. From my experience you are masters of "Go away, no come back." If you regret what you did, pester him a little. What you have done may only heighten the anticipation for him.... (read in full...)
Is it posssible that I'm pregnant?
Q. yeah so im 14 and scared to death! A few days ago me and my friend had somewhat sex. (i know im not a virgin anymore) He only went in once and didn't cum at all. Is it posssible that im pregnant?...
A. 15 March 2009: Not at all. You can't be punished fore barely having any fun. Use a condom next time and save yourself the stress!... (read in full...)
She wants to break up but I just cant?
Q. I got a relationship for over 7 months now, but now my girl wants to breakup with me because she said she didnt felt anything for me for quite a while now.. I begged her to give me 1 week to make her fall in love with me again, but she said it woul...
A. 15 March 2009: Don't worry so much. Worrying causes more problems in relationships than ice, bad haircuts and soiled undergarments. Make her laugh and it will be okay.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do because I have a girlfriend,
Q. Well I need some advice, I just turned 18 and for my party my friends and I went down to my summer house to have a party. I have never thought of my friends romantically nether girls nor guys, but something really weird happened. I'm not gay, and ...
A. 15 March 2009: Sometimes in their lives people sleep with people they don't mean to sleep with. This happens more often than you will think. Just let Manny know if he asks or if you want to clear the air, that you just are friends,unless you aren't. Don't worry ... (read in full...)
Do guys just say that to get out of a rough spot with a girl or do they actually mean it?
Q. My ex and I have been going out again, nothing exclusive for a few months now. I have a lot of trust issues with this guy as he has cheated on me before. Ever since we've been back together he has tried really hard to gain my trust back and he has ...
A. 15 March 2009: I agree with anonymous male reader, trust your heart. Your heart always wants what's best! ... (read in full...)
Will he consider ditching me?
Q. Hi guys. I really really really lke this guy who I am currently in a relationship with, he's sweet and extremly complentery. He says he loves me and doesn't stop saying it, but because my last relationships did not turn out to be the best, I can'...
A. 15 March 2009: Worrying is the worst thing that has happened to relationships since Barbara Striesand, sharks and werewolves. Your instinct will tell you-if you trust them.... (read in full...)
He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 15 March 2009: Don't panic. He is stable and probably acting like himself from u what you said. This is no time to be on edge. Stress is bad in any situation. You really didn't do anything wrong, and you have to believe that. The best thing you can do is be cal... (read in full...)
He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 15 March 2009: First of all, Mr. Johnny Depp is my favorite peice of movie eye candy too, so right away I have to side with you. I don't know how your man could have reacted that way. Maybe he was just having a bad day and then didn't want to own up to the fact ... (read in full...)
I don't know why I'm so jealous!
Q. Help me! I don't know why I'm so jealous! Im 15, bi and really fancy my best friend. She knows i like her but she doesnt like me that way. however, i find myself really jelous when my other best friend goes round to hers, or shopping with ...
A. 14 March 2009: Okay calm down if you can get to a bookstore get The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz. It is wisdom that no one should be without. My best friend actually gave me this book years after I told her that I thought I was in love with her in a very ... (read in full...)
How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?
Q. I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?...
A. 14 March 2009: Tell him in person, cry if you have to. You will be making a lot of big decisions together very soon, so get used to having important conversations with this man. He should be enough of an adult to put it into perspective in a few weeks but be ... (read in full...)
He's being appropriate with me
Q. I went on a date with a boy 2 weeks ago and we had a really good time. Afterward, we went back to my room and made out for a little and then he was the one that ended it and said he should go. A few days later, we talked and he told me that he ...
A. 14 March 2009: Steady as he goes. It sounds like everything is OK as long as you stop worrying. Did you know that worrying ruins more blossoming relationships than car accidents, sharks and werewolves combined? Seriously, he is probably taking it slow to see what ... (read in full...)
Can he change or should I just leave now?
Q. Pretty much, me and my bf have been going out for about 18 months now, were in a LDR (200 miles apart) and everythings pretty good overall, however... After a while i get upset because we havent talked in a while, like 4,5 days, no communic...
A. 14 March 2009: That is up to you. I can tell you that most people aren't likely to change. Playing tug of war really only exacerbates the situation. Experimenting by not calling him is probably only going to frustrate you and it may send him signals that you don't ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 14 March 2009: Thank you guys so much! I'm so glad that I found this site. This has been so heavy on my heart for so long. My friends have always been supportive of me, but also protective. Many of them have never met him because I met them after I lost touch with ... (read in full...)
How to get over my first love
Q. hi well im 15 and just broke up with my gf well it was a mutual break up. we broke up cause we were fightin about stupid stuff and she was doun stupid stuff like drinking and smokin alot and i just dont wanna deal with that and she doesnt want to ...
A. 14 March 2009: Maybe you should just try to be her friend for awhile. If she is doing all that stuff with her friends, you could help to steady her a bit. Remember though, you are not responsible for her actions. Just tell her you are there for her to talk to. ... (read in full...)
Its not healthy for me to have this feelings for my teacher
Q. hey everbody, i know ur just about to kill anyone who wants advice about their teacher's crush. but please. hear me out. I have had really strong feelings about my teacher for the past year or so. These feelings just kind of started as an ad...
A. 14 March 2009: I know it is hard, but you have to make it stop. This kind of attraction is very dangerous, which of course makes it more attractive. He needs to respect you and know that you are in school for an education, not to be tormented by unrealistic ... (read in full...)
He's the only boy I can't get out of my head
Q. There was a guy I kinda dated in the beginning of college. We hung out a few times, but I was way too busy then and we kinda went our separate ways. I was told that he really liked me though and his actions showed it. Throughout the last couple of ...
A. 14 March 2009: I have advice for you, GO GET HIM! He likes you. Trust me. Go to Wikipedia and look up limerence. That is what is gong on. I made the mistake of not telling a man that I cared about him, and now I don't know if we'll ever have a chance again. It is ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 14 March 2009: Thank both of you so much for answering. I really would like to find him, but wouldn't a PI be like stalking in my situation? I don't know how he would react to that, married or not. Is there any way that I can look him up myself? ... (read in full...)
Still in love with my man but can't get some other guys out of my head.
Q. Hello I Have Been With My Boyfriend For 6 years now, we have been through a lot, at one point I sent him to jail for one month with a two year probation... I deeply and truly love him to death I never thought of any other guy besides him never even ...
A. 14 March 2009: Sweetie, don't say you're ugly. I can think of two boys who think you are the most beautiful woman in the universe-your sons. You need to think of them and yourself. Yes, your boyfriend is their father, but living with him while he abuses you is so ... (read in full...)
He wants to come back. What should I do?
Q. Hi, it's me the wife with the cheating husband 2nd time. We still communicate and he has aksed me if he could come back home, but I, I want to but I'm scared. This really hurts and I'm too young to go through this. But I also stressed to him before ...
A. 14 March 2009: Girl listen to your instincts. If you're scared, it's for a reason. When you gave your vows to him it was in response to a vow from him. You would never have made a sacred vow to him if his vows included a cheating option. I know what you're going ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to desire what he feels about me?
Q. I asked this guy last night,via email about his feelings for me. We've been going on dates for months,and even slept over at his place last weekend. He's not the typical asshole kind of guy.Hes very sweet and anybody would assume by his actions that ...
A. 14 March 2009: Just be careful. I know guys that seem sweet but are anything but. Lack of communication always spooks me. If you could elaborate a bit on how long you have known him, or weather or not he is willing to spend time with your friends or what he does ... (read in full...)
What do you think would've happened if I'd gone through with it?
Q. I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago) Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while...
A. 14 March 2009: That was a really cute story. Of course you want to wait because you will always remember the first time. He sounds nice though. Just take it slow and enjoy it. When it happens, it will be the right time, as long as you are doing it because you ... (read in full...)
Kegel exercises - do they really work?
Q. I'm single and haven't had sex in over six years and when I do, I want to be nice and tight. I started doing kegel exercises last month and would like to know how many I should do a day? I also want to know from those who do them, if they really ...
A. 14 March 2009: YES,YES,YES Kegal exercises are so great for anyone who uses that thang down there. (If done properly they even prevent incontinence when you ate older) OK, maybe that was tmi. I've been doing them for years. Not only do they tighten your muscles, ... (read in full...)
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