I think I'm more emotionally involved than he is, should I just cut contact?
Q. I've recently became single after being in relationships since i was 16, im now 20, and i'm finding it diffcult to get back into dating again. firstly i have been talking to a guy on the internet who i used to go to school with but he moved away. we ...
A. 13 November 2011: Because you havent seen this guy for a while it is probably difficult to know wether he is interested or not. He might write something and mean it to be taken in one way but you may read it and think he means something completely different. Maybe ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated three times, is that reason to dump him?
Q. Hi there. I've gotten together with this guy about 2 weeks ago after we had been dating for 3 months. I found out he's cheating on me just three days after we got together and yet he's done it 3 times already. I'm really confused since he seems t...
A. 13 November 2011: Yes i think you should. Why would you want to waste your time on someone who cant give you commitment and is sleeping.around possibly bringing back disease. Im sure you deserve far better than to be disrespected like that. Good luck hun... (read in full...)
Is it strange that I am always missing and dreaming of my dead grandmother?
Q. My mum and dad split up when i was 7! My mum moved away and i stayed with my dad with my 2 older brothers! Not through choice: i was too young to realise what was going on. Anyway my dad ended up drinking all the time, my brothers were never in ...
A. 13 November 2011: Your.past in some ways is so familiar to mine. Im 23 too and my grandmother passed when i was 12 i miss her alot and she crosses my mind most days. It is normal to think of somebody like that when you loved them so much. I wont push my beliefs on ... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend less moody?
Q. The past few days my girlfriend is always in a bad mood. There will be times where she in a great mood, and then all of the sudden her mood just change into a bad mood. When she in a bad mood she just seem so dead. I have no experience on what to ...
A. 13 November 2011: I'll b honest i can be quite moody at times.and it is often down to a mixture of hormones and stress which could be the case with ur girlfriend. Just ask her if she is ok. Tell her that you.love her and how special she is to you. Can i ask why she ... (read in full...)
I think he's interested in me. He squeezed my thigh when we met. What do I do next?
Q. Hey guys, c: So, lately, I've been dealing with this issue for about two weeks to be exact. There is this guy I like, and he makes it obvious he feels the same. For example, when I first met him, he squeezed my thigh and smiled. He usually sat...
A. 12 November 2011: It does sound like he's interested....but.. (im gonna sound so old now :/ )
13 is so young for those sort of games. Its not the age gap itself its your actual ages. If you do.feel that a relationship is going to.occur then just.make sure that you ... (read in full...)
Wondering for the future: Would a 5yr age difference between a 23yr old woman and an 18yr old guy be wrong?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering what people think of 4/5 year age gaps in relationships? To give you a bit of backstory - I used to suffer with really terrible anxiety. At 15 I had a sort of breakdown, dropped out of school and just stayed at home. For about...
A. 12 November 2011: As a short answer no, an age gap like that where the woman is older is not A bad thing. You would both be adults. As long as you are both happy why should it.matter, as long as he knows how old you are!... (read in full...)
Depression. I need help to allow me to have a better life. Any tips, strategies, Advice please?
Q. hi i just wanted some advice about depression. im in my 30s still living at home and dont work. i feel my life is lacking, and as im gay i will never have the whole family thing like husband and kids. i I'm too scared to give birth anyway and this...
A. 12 November 2011: Hey hun. Make sure, that you keep.seeking.help from your doctor and counciller work with them and they will help you to get better.
Get yourself better and then work on building yourself a support network outside your imediate family. Even if you ... (read in full...)
My Guy Friend wants more than friendship but I don't feel the same!
Q. So there's this guy. Who I've known for five years, but really never felt anything toward romantically. He's my best guy friends and has helped me through alot but the thought of dating him, let alone kissing him, or holding his hand creeps me ...
A. 10 November 2011: You need to tell him the truth hun. By acting like it didnt happen, he probably thinks that what he done was ok and may try it again.
Ask him if you can meet up to talk. Explain to.him in the same way that you have to us here. He is A good frie... (read in full...)
My Guy Friend wants more than friendship but I don't feel the same!
Q. So there's this guy. Who I've known for five years, but really never felt anything toward romantically. He's my best guy friends and has helped me through alot but the thought of dating him, let alone kissing him, or holding his hand creeps me ...
A. 10 November 2011: You need to tell him the truth hun. By acting like it didnt happen, he probably thinks that what he done was ok and may try it again.
Ask him if you can meet up to talk. Explain to.him in the same way that you have to us here. He is A good frie... (read in full...)
How do I get my children back?
Q. i have two son ,but both are leave with my father in law and my husband was death .my sons are scered to come with me beacuase my mother in law is learning wrong .now i want back my children so what can i do ? please give me an answer ...
A. 9 November 2011: As long as you have not done anything wrong, you have the right to see your children. Contact a lawyer or the police and explain to them that your children have been taken away without your permition and that you believe that it is in their best ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling such a strong sense of loss if I didn't even plan to have a baby and I know I wasn't ready?
Q. Hi Im 21 and found out i was pregnant on Saturday, both me and my bf were not ready for a baby and it wasn't planned but we accepted it. On Monday I miscarried, it was only 3 - 4 weeks. Since then I haven't stopped crying, im not sleeping well and...
A. 9 November 2011: Oh hunny im so sorry for you. A misscarrage is a terrible thing to go through no matter how old you are or how ready. I expect your feelings are partly down to hormones. When you are pregnant your body floods with them. It will make you emotional. ... (read in full...)
Ex says I should have sex with him because I owe him my virginity since he waited for me
Q. Me and my now ex-boyfriend just broke up because of me not being in love with him anymore. Although we're broken up, he's telling me to have sex with him so we can both loose our virginities and then he'll move on. He says if we do have sex, he'll ...
A. 7 November 2011: Dont do it hunny. Save your virginity for someone you love, i wish i had.... (read in full...)
First date in a LONG time tonight - advice please!
Q. I have my first 'first date' in 11 years tonight and I'm rather nervous (I have been single for 2 years after a 9-year relationship). Been online dating sites for a year and this is the first time it has resulted in a date - she sought me out. ...
A. 7 November 2011: My pointers would be firstly. Relax, she is just As nervous as you are. When you first meet. Make sure that you compliment her on how she looks. Dont go too far, just tell her that she looks beautiful. If you are goin the the cinema take her ... (read in full...)
I donated a kidney for love, how do I tell my parents back home?
Q. I am form Pakistan but currently on visit visa in States. On third day of my visit, two months back, I went to strip dance club and fell in love with striptease dancer who was beautiful beyond description. After meeting her, for next two weeks, ...
A. 7 November 2011: Can I say, what a brave and unselfish act that was. If you were my relative I would be proud that you went through that to save the life of another person without a second thought to yourself.
What is it that your parents would be angry about. Is i... (read in full...)
Is this guy genuine?
Q. Hi there i'm in a bit of a dilema..i think. I'm a 19 year old female who started seeing a 24 year old male in April. We met at a nightclub i was outside in the smoking area with a friend when he walked past also with a friend. He stared at me as he...
A. 7 November 2011: In all honesty hun I would be careful, it sounds like he could be living a double life. Chances are he has a wife/g-friend and kids somewhere back home. I would personally ditch him before the relationship becomes confusing and distructive. best of ... (read in full...)
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