New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244975 questions, 1084357 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

He's my best friend's guy, they have 2 kids, I live with them but...I am falling for him! Any advice?

Tagged as: Dating, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (4 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *telli916 writes:

Hi, I'm falling in love with my roomate and it's my best friends boyfriend. They have 2 kids together and have been together for 4 1/2 years. For the most part they get along, but they struggle like everyone else. It just seems so natural when I'm around him. He persued my first for quite some time, and I finally gave in. I feel horrible because it's my best friends man, but at the same time, I ALWAYS want to be around him. It's not just physical, I'm emotionally attatched to him, he tells me the same thing. I don't know what to do. I'm completely lost.

View related questions: best friend

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, girlwhoneedshelp United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

girlwhoneedshelp agony auntI'm sorry to say it but you should have stayed away from him in the first place. I'm not saying it's all your fault as he is the one in a relationship and he gave in to something he shouldn't have also. I think you should make a clean break and tell him that you don't want to see him anymore. I know this will hurt but believe me it will be the best thing in the long run. You can't call yourself a best friend if you are sleeping with her man can you? I think you should move on and find someone else, think of his children!

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "He's my best friend's guy, they have 2 kids, I live with them but...I am falling for him! Any advice?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156139000027906!