What's up with this friend's hugs and kisses?
Q. Just a general question about body language. I've been away on a nice long 6 week holiday and come back refreshed and ready for anything. Except one of my friends reaction to my return. We are very close but I'm not really one to indulge in big...
A. 18 November 2014: You were away for weeks, she missed you is all?
Myself & my friends always give each other hugs and kisses on the cheek when we meet and greet.
We know it is just friendly and don't go off thinking omg she wants a lesbein fling lol!! Sinc... (read in full...)
How do I show him I was interested, I was just scared?
Q. Hi, I met a guy through then summer he was very flirty with me, and always stared at me, he did come on quite strong that scared me a little. So I started ignoring him in the street. Wasn't being mean but I was nervous and little shocked as he is 15 ...
A. 18 November 2014: Had to read your age 2x there!
Sorry but this man liked you, you played childish games with him.
He moved on!
Did u expect him to wait around until u could be bothered to speak to him? You were very rude to this man, now you wonder why he wa... (read in full...)
I would be leaving my wife of 12 years for her, so I need to know if she wants me too
Q. First time I have done something like this online but there is no one else i can speak to about this. I am married with a child and 2 step kids, I love my wife but I don't know if I am still in love with her. I met a girl in her 20s a couple months ...
A. 3 November 2014: Wow just wow!! You are a piece of work First of all she sees you as her handyman, she needs jobs doing, so batting her eyes and flirting gets you to do it. Off course she will. Is she bubbly when a job needs doing and ignores you when she d... (read in full...)
What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?
Q. At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. ...
A. 30 June 2014: I don't understand your problem. Men look, they flirt as do women. It doesn't mean they are going to act on it. At work i am really friendly to everyone some might say it is flirting but what's wrong with that? As long as lines aren't crossed? I ... (read in full...)
Does the repair man like me?
Q. Ok I'm going to start of saying am the worst for thinking things over and over. Can't help myself so please put me straight if am over thinking nothing here, I met a man few months ago, he came out to do repairs for me. But seemed to pro-long the ...
A. 29 June 2014: I think this man is certainly feeling something for you, he does appear to be going out his way for you.
but have you told him not too stare or Asked him his problem when he's staring at you?
when he was sitting on your wall did you ask him ... (read in full...)
Job interview included working for a full day, for no pay!
Q. This isnt a relationship question but im hoping someone can help. My niece who is 19 and currently an office temp wants to get in to hairdressing. She saw that a well known salon in our town was looking to hire trainees so she applied - sent h...
A. 5 April 2014: I think most vocational jobs interview like that now tbh, when I was a trainee Nursery Nurse, I had a one 2 one interview with the head teacher and then asked to go into the play room and the Head Teacher observed my interaction with the children to ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake. Now how do I choose between my pregnant wife and unborn child, and the love of my life?
Q. Between 2006 to 2009, I was dating this amazing and wonderful girl, due to the long distance of our relationship, she suggested we take a break from our relationship to finish our education, I was so hurt but I agreed. During this period, an old ...
A. 4 April 2014: I all is in this I feel, I want, I need... Me, me,, me what about how your wife feels! What about the fact she is pregnant and naturally going to be going through all sorts of emotions, what about how your child will feel, just a heads up once you ... (read in full...)
How do I let down my guard after an abusive relationship?
Q. Ok I have a question about a man who recently came back into my life, I first met him 4 years ago on a course for work and felt attracted to him then, but tried my best to hide it as he is older and was the course leader. But he moved up to work at ...
A. 4 April 2014: I disagree with the other poster, you are not a, “battered women" or acting like the victim. One you take care of your daughter yourself that takes strength! 2nd you held down your job through all the rubbish! I assume this man is a manager to you ... (read in full...)
Don't we all smell the same?
Q. Hey guys.I've got a very weird question to ask..first off,I've been friends with this UK lady for 4yrs.cyber_friendship.we've shared a lot.she recently had a baby born.and she used to tell me she doesn't bath sometimes,they I'd ask y and she'd say ...
A. 1 April 2014: I thought everyone had to have a bath or shower every day? Not just for the fact it down to poor hygiene people get bacteria and infection build up, but as a women I don't feel right for the day if I don't have a shower and the odd mornings I will ... (read in full...)
Can a man control his arousal?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , ...
A. 1 April 2014: As a christian women I am shocked reading that, you seem not to respect the fact he doesn't want to have sex before marriage, why grope him while you kiss as though your trying to tempt him and good on him for not falling for it, you need to look at ... (read in full...)
Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?
Q. My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...
A. 30 March 2014: No offence but your making a big deal out of nothing. You had no problem with the 2 men sitting on his lap but the girl joined and u did? Clearly she did it just for a laugh, now your insecure about it? If either of them had anything to hide they ... (read in full...)
I want a child and can't gamble more time on dating and ending up alone. Should I have a baby with this guy even though he doesn't want a relationship?
Q. I have been sleeping with a guy from work he is 32 years old and I am 38. and it just keeps going on and on and he says that he doesn't not want a relationship and he cannot be my boyfriend yet we spend weekends together and I go to his parents for ...
A. 26 March 2014: I'm sorry but i just want to scream NO! I understand your need to have a child and family, but this man can't even commit in a relationship never mind take on the massive responsibility of being a father, and ok you are saying this the now but ... (read in full...)
Do folk think the likes me or not? How can I show him I am interested ?
Q. Hi, I'm feeling confused over a man I have knew for a few months. He blows hot and cold! I see him once a week at church, Some weeks he is great around me and comes up to me and chats away, putting his arm around me,rubs my arm, flirts ect a...
A. 26 March 2014: This doesn't sound like a man who likes you tbh, I attend church and sometimes the men in the church hug me, give me supportive pats on the back and just really friendly, I don't see them in a romantic sense nor do they see me that way, Church ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I don't want to come across as creepy
Q. Ok I need some thoughts on this, I have met a younger girl through my work, I own a small maintenance company and have met with her a good few times to discuss various repairs she needed in her home, she is attractive and around 25, I do know she ...
A. 26 March 2014: My advice to you is I think she does like you,if she is flirting back and being sweet to you, but can I point something else out to you she is a 25 year old single mom, so I am assuming her income is tight, She needs work done in her home and met a ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to look at other women and come to the conclusion that some are better than my wife?
Q. Is it wrong to look at other women if you find yourself thinking they are better than your wife in some way? For example you see a woman who has long shapely legs, and you catch yourself thinking for a second she has nicer legs than your wife. I ...
A. 26 March 2014: I think it is natural for men too look at other women, for example I just had a workman out to do some for me in my flat, I did notice him staring at my chest, does that mean am better to him than his wife? No off course it doesn't he doesn't really ... (read in full...)
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