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I've been dating him for 2 years and he won't show me where he lives?

Q.   I have been dating a man for two years but he refuses to show me where he lives.he took me to visit jis family out of state; but he can't show me where he live in state.he tells me he lives with a family member.he get many excuses about the ...

A.   7 November 2014: Thanks to everyone. I spent money looking for him but I cannot gind him.he told me has to keep things private until we get married. He proposed to me once, I agreed to the proposal but it seems that he was only trying out.I know he is not homeless. ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid becoming pregnant by my husband who won't allow me to use birth control?

Q.   My husband of 6 years won't pull out during sex. We are catholic so he refuses for me to use any birth control. I do not want to get pregnant. Please give me advice...

A.   26 August 2012: i use natural contraception for years,i never like condoms and do not want to take any pills cause i am affraid of the side effect.if you know your menstrual cycle and you can have some control of yourself,its a good method eventhough its not too ... (read in full...)

Does my long distance lover really love me or is she just playing around?

Q.   I have a LDR and I love her, but Im not sure if she loves me as I do. She is cold, doesnt show emotions, doesnt say any sweet words, doesnt call me, sometimes txts and usually never asks about how my day was... However when we are together she is v...

A.   26 August 2012: it seems that she loves u,but there is a cultural issues and a distance.If she is in school and she is not a lazy girl you will have to deal with that cause i believe she loves you... (read in full...)

Will he try to come back later on?

Q.   good morning everybody,i thank everyone who takes time to read my question and give me an advice.I'm pregnant but my boyfriend acted stupid at the beginning,he lied to me,cheated,and even injured me.he ran away for twq months,and come back when i ...

A.   24 April 2010: thank you very much for taking time reading my question.I want to tell you that he still call me,but once a week,i talk to him but without interrest,i joke him to ignore the love i have for him inside.but when i realize his reaction in the past,i ... (read in full...)

She and her Mother are turning me against my own family! Help!

Q.   Recently I got introduced to a girl who is still in her school.She is average in looks.But, somehow she and her mother focred me into this relationship.I feel her mother has used some technique that I am totally mesmerised.It started only as ...

A.   16 February 2010: I'm in that situation too,i know what you re suffering.but the only advice that i can give you dont ever let someone drive you to abandon your parents.trust me your family is the only person who will be at your side when you do not know what to ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant and my boyfriend can't marry me because it will break the other girl's heart

Q.   hi everybody,i think you gyzs for all those good idvices and ideas that may lead my relationship.therefore,i have a problem and i need some advices from anyone who cares about my situation.this is my problem:i have been with my boyfriend for two ...

A.   15 February 2010: Hi everybody,I really appreciate the way you work together to help others,and i thank you for the previous advices that you gave me.Thi is my question today,i hope everyone will help me to find the answer.I'm pregnant,at first my boyfriend acted ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant and my boyfriend can't marry me because it will break the other girl's heart

Q.   hi everybody,i think you gyzs for all those good idvices and ideas that may lead my relationship.therefore,i have a problem and i need some advices from anyone who cares about my situation.this is my problem:i have been with my boyfriend for two ...

A.   6 February 2010: thanks to everyone who cares and i m really agree with you gyzs.so if i decide not to marry him with my own will,do you think i m going to get over the situation? and if i start seing myself first,do you think there is another chance for me to ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant and my boyfriend can't marry me because it will break the other girl's heart

Q.   hi everybody,i think you gyzs for all those good idvices and ideas that may lead my relationship.therefore,i have a problem and i need some advices from anyone who cares about my situation.this is my problem:i have been with my boyfriend for two ...

A.   6 February 2010: thanks to everyone who concerns about my problems.that man came to my family,he pretended that everything goes right between us,but while i m talking to him,he refuses to forget about every single wrong thing we have done in the past.when i ask him ... (read in full...)

He wants the baby but not me...

Q.   good morning everybody, i'm 23, i have my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years. First, he loved me so much but my parents were really disappointed about our relationship. Now i'm 2 months pregnant, i told him so and he's being like a ...

A.   23 January 2010: i'm sorry for those who dnt understand,and i really thanks those who have tried to give me an explanation.he is my first bf,he loved me so much before,and he knows that he was not easy for us to built the relationship.as he act stupid now.i decide ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean?

Q.   My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean? We have been seeing each other for 5 months, when i first met him i can remember being SO happy because i had finally found a nice guy. He promised me he would treat me r...

A.   23 January 2010: I've been in that situation,so i know what you mean.It would not be too easy for you to give him that space,but if you keep bother him,and does not give that space to him;he will turn against you and you will not be able to do anything to calm ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean?

Q.   My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean? We have been seeing each other for 5 months, when i first met him i can remember being SO happy because i had finally found a nice guy. He promised me he would treat me r...

A.   23 January 2010: I've been in that situation,so i know what you mean.It would not be too easy for you to give him that space,but if you keep bother him,and does not give that space to him;he will turn against you and you will not be able to do anything to calm ... (read in full...)

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