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writes:good morning everybody,i thank everyone who takes time to read my question and give me an advice.I'm pregnant but my boyfriend acted stupid at the beginning,he lied to me,cheated,and even injured me.he ran away for twq months,and come back when i was 4 months to apologize.i forgive him and accept to reestart our relation for the sake of my baby.but three days after he came back,i trick him to see if he was really careless about my baby an i.he yielded on me ,and run away again.i steel believe he leves me,i love him so much too.but i decide to take care of my baby alone,and go back to school.i start to hate him,and don't want him to be around my baby and i.i m only 5 months pregnant now.and i dont feel any interrest on him anymore.do you guys think there is some way that he might come back to me or my baby after years.cause he was my first bf n i want to get him out of my life forever for what he hsa done to me.do you think it s going to be easy for me?thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, eby +, writes (24 April 2010):
eby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for taking time reading my question.I want to tell you that he still call me,but once a week,i talk to him but without interrest,i joke him to ignore the love i have for him inside.but when i realize his reaction in the past,i truly hate him.do you think it is armful to me to talk to him still
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reader, TimmD +, writes (22 April 2010):
 You did the right thing by removing him from your life. You don't need him nor should you be with him after how he treated you.
Yes, there is a good chance he will try to return. He will apologize. He will use your feelings to his advantage. The best thing for you to do is NOT LET HIM. Don't give him anything at all. Don't "be nice for your child's sake" or feel fall for the "he needs to see his father". Have this baby without him, don't try giving him partial custody, etc.
Keep him out of your life because if you let him back in again this will become an endless cycle for years to come.
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