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writes:Hi all,I was recently seeing a guy that I went to school with. We met up again after 15 yrs and had so much in common. We were together for about 7 months. This was quite a serious relationship and we both fell in love and would text and call each other everyday an would spend any spare time we had together.Recently his work has caused us to spend less time together and I missed him loads. We had an argument over this and I said that I didn't see the point in us having a relationship if we never seen each other and asked him if he could start making time for us....(he makes time for other things) by us I meant myself and my children who have also become attached to him and I know he loves them.We didn't speak for 3 days and he said he didn't see the point in us having a relationship. I was devastated as i really didnt wasnt this to happen! He then found out through a mutual friend that someone was interested in me, so he contacted me to tell me and went on to say how he felt that he wasn't good enough for me an how he thought he was a complete waste of space and that me and my 2 kids deserved better. I told him I loved him and it's him who I wanted and asked if we could try again. He ignored this message. I text him a day later An said i finally accept its over between us, I've lived in hope all week that we would get bk together as its what i wanted more than anything, I never ever thought u wasn't good enough an any girls lucky 2 hav you. But I'll just leave u to get on with ur life now an leave u alone....he didn't respond. It's been a week since we split and 4 days since I sent this. Should I just move on now and accept its over or is there any hope?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): Well as long as you don't sleep with him and have him vanish again afterwards..hope you clear the air and are able to move on.
Or maybe sort it out...who knows...but if he comes back you will just be waiting to see if he goes again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI spoke to him this evening and he's agreed to come over and fix my daughters tv. I'm not reading anything in to this but at least I can confront him and speak face to face. Maybe then I will have closure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2011): Move on......it's over
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reader, tu.paloma  +, writes (20 December 2011):
MOVE ON.Sad to say, but you need to come to grips with reality. It's the end. He hasn't resonded to your texts, and even told you himself that he didn't see the point in staying in the relationship. It will be hard, but what choice do you have? Respect his wishes to end it because nothing is worse than appearing like a desperate, clingy stalker. you will find someone better soon, hate to sound cliche but there are thousands of fish in the sea.
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reader, Crazykatee +, writes (19 December 2011):
Move on, he cnt have you but he doesnt want anyone else too!! Move on for your kids sake!! Dont let him keep u on a peice of string, you and your kids deserve better than that!! X
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