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What qualifies you to help people?

I guess that I'm probably no more or less experienced in life than anyone else. All our experiences are different and by sharing my set of experiences maybe I can help others. I guess I want to help because I care. I'm a firm believer in Christianity and I believe in doing what I can to help others. There's too much have and selfishness in this world and a little more love can go along way.

What's your relationship status?

I'm currently single having come out of a stable relationship a few years ago. That hit me hard and its not really been untill now that I've really been ready to start dating again. I'm thorugh with menaingless relationships and now loking for someone to settle down with and maybe start a familly.

I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians

Q.   I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...

A.   30 April 2008: I guess there's a couple of things here. Firstly, I am strongly of the Christian faith but I personally believe that the passages of the Bible that talk about female subservience were writeen that way because that it the way that society was at the ... (read in full...)

He's starting to get on my nerves now...should I stick with it?

Q.   Im really frustrated in my head at the moment and im really hoping you can help. I have been with my bf for a little while, but recently he has been really frustrating me. everything he does gets on my nerves and he makes racist or stupid re...

A.   27 April 2008: I think to be fair you have hinted at the answer here already. If there is nothing that ties you together and things aren't right then I think that maybe you should move on. If you are with the right person, it's very rarely plain sailing but ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with three of my teachers and I can't do my school work!

Q.   Hi i am 13 and in love with three of my teachers and i don't know what to do. I am in love with my maths teacher BD and I don't know what 2 do. I want to tell him but then I will not be able to do my work.I really like him. i am in love with my yr 7 ...

A.   14 March 2008: Ok, there's one simple answer here, as much as you dont want to hear this. It can never happen for so many reasons. Having a crush is a natural aprt of adolesence. And thats what this is. It may seem like love but I would guess that its just a ... (read in full...)

What's the next best step to healing myself?

Q.   Dear cupid. I have been in a very emotionally abusive relationship with someone for the past 4 years where I have been lonely most of the time and was confused whether I should call it quits or stick around. About 2 weeks ago I regained contact...

A.   23 January 2008: I'm sorry to hear of your last relationship. I can deffinitely say that breaking free from it was the right thing to do. I think that maybe you need a fresh start with you new partner, somewhere that you abusive ex cannot get hold of you. I ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant.My boyfrind thinks it isn't his and now he won't talk to me. What should I do?

Q.   well in one of my previous aquestions i was always moody well good news found out why im PREGNANT and we wernt expecting that. my boyfriend thinks i have cheated on him a few times but i HAVNT he wont talk to me about it and he keeps going off the ...

A.   23 January 2008: Thats excellent news. good luck for the future... (read in full...)

He likes to receive, but won't give. Why not?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a year. he's my first boyfriend and i really relaly love him. we've been having sex for half a year and he's the one who always initiates it. i do go down on him when i feel he wants it, but i ...

A.   18 January 2008: For most men, its an acquired skill. Perhaps consider the idea that he may need a little guidance and encouragement. A little praise for any effort will also act as encouragment. I guess it's possible that he genuinely doesnt like it, but that... (read in full...)

I am pregnant.My boyfrind thinks it isn't his and now he won't talk to me. What should I do?

Q.   well in one of my previous aquestions i was always moody well good news found out why im PREGNANT and we wernt expecting that. my boyfriend thinks i have cheated on him a few times but i HAVNT he wont talk to me about it and he keeps going off the ...

A.   18 January 2008: I guess this is going to be a pretty delicate subject area but there are a coupple of questions that I think may need answering here. Does your boyfriend want a child or is he using this denial as a chance to try to escape any kind of commitment. ... (read in full...)

Is it legal to have sex with your cousin?

Q.   Is it legal to have sex with you cousin (Fathers Brothers daughter) in the UK? Please help. My cousin has propositioned me and I feel the same. I'm not interested in whether you think its moral or not - I'm big enough to make my own decisions on ...

A.   15 January 2008: Yes, it is legal. I'm sure, as you say, you can make your own decisions but for what it's worth, here's my opinion; If you're going to do it then be sure that this is what you want. Families have been torn appart over less than this. What... (read in full...)

Everything is great apart from the bedroom department..I can't seem to please him. Help!

Q.   Hi there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for about six months now. Everything is great apart from the bedroom department. He completley pleases me in every way but i only happen to be able to do it to him in the trousers department. Ive tried ...

A.   15 January 2008: Start at the beginning and go from there. When you first met your partner I'm guessing that they didnt hit the exact spot 100% in the bedroom first time round, they probably needed a little direction right? (most of us men do from time to time!) ... (read in full...)

Should I date my cousn's friend?

Q.   Hi. Well I really need help here. I really like my cousin's best friend. He likes me too, and we go to school together. My cousin goes to a different school. My cousin has his friend over every weekend, and I always come over to hang out with his ...

A.   14 January 2008: I'm all in favour of going with the moment and if there is something between you then I dont think that you should rule out having a relationship. On the other hand you do nee to talk to your cousin and clear the air. Understanding works wonders - ... (read in full...)

Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?

Q.   why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...

A.   12 January 2008: Ok, theres two answeres to this one. 1) I dont think that it is seen as un acceptable for woment to masturbate anymore. Its natural and perfectly acceptable. There are always some people who are a bit squeamish and wont openly accept masturba... (read in full...)

How can I help my wife cope with her grief??

Q.   hi, I need some help my father in law died 2 weeks ago and as you may tell my wife is not too good at the moment. Well at first she wouldn't talk to me or anything or even hug me because she was frigthened that she would start crying and not be a...

A.   12 January 2008: This really strikes a chord with me. A few years ago, my Mum died. I was 20 at the time and thought I was damn nearly invincible. I was also doing a degree at the time and decided to force myself to carry on for the sake of finishing my course ... (read in full...)

How can I rescue this potential relationship after I came off so clingy??

Q.   I'm interested in this boy, and up till yesterday i thought he was interested in me. Yesterday, i had really bad PMS, and was feeling really insecure about my body and life. I mentioned this to him, and now my friend thinks i'll have come off lo...

A.   12 January 2008: Ok. First of all, stay calm. I would think it's pretty unlikely that one day is going to ruin a genuine feeling between you. I cant speak fror every man on this, only myself, but a certain ammount of 'clingyness' can actually be quite endearing. ... (read in full...)

How am I suppose to match her ex-lovers when I haven't done anything sexual my entire life?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6 months. I adore her and she adores me. Some of her friends and family say she seems much more happy and thrilled with me as her boyfriend than she has done with her ex's. I haven't told her I've...

A.   7 January 2008: Experience doesnt always count for everything. It's easy to think of a sexula history as having a repetior of tricks to draw on. It doesnt work like that. People are very differnt and liek very differnt things. Good love making comes from deep ... (read in full...)

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