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How do guys really feel about small boobs ?

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Question - (23 March 2008) 39 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2008)
A female United States age 13-15, VegasGirl15 writes:

Hey

I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!!

if you have some answers for me please let me know

thanks !!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008):

I am 11 and every other girl in my class has boobs, I am JUST starting to dovelop but my friends kinda pick on me, but I hope it changes as i get older, but when you're your age, sall booba are cute, trust me i know these things, i knew having 6 step brothers aged 13-20 would pay off someday! DON'T WORRY!!

-sweet-like-jam-tarts-, 11 x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

They used to be a fantasy to men, until today when everyone lets them hang out, and some of the sights are NOT PRETTY. Big saggy breasts are not a turn on to men unless there is something wrong with the man. Anyway who cares, breasts are for feeding babies.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

at early ages big boobs r r like fantasy to men then as men gets older small ones seems more sexier

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

There is nothing wrong with small boobs. I for one think they are awesome.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

im a guy....teen(15) and my girlfriend has big breast(dont know the cup size never cared to check) i asked her out 2.5 years ago when she was still flat. i was only in love with her pesonality and nothing else. i can only say this. guys like a girl for things like breast but love a girl for her personallity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

I am 51 and worried about my small boobs all my life, now I know from experience that men dont really care, and I would honestly say that they prefer smaller neater ones. Its only the silly young lads and a certain type of man that likes large ones. Mine are still really firm and perky, my friends with larger ones have all sagged. I wish I had not wasted all that time worrying when I should have realised I had the best deal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

I'm 16 and I'm pretty sure that I can speak for a lot of guys by saying that it's really not very important. It can, however, be unflattering if a girl wears clothes that would look better on someone better endoubed and vice versa.

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A male reader, Niffy Canada +, writes (23 July 2008):

Niffy agony auntto tell you the truth it doesnt matter, you could be the hottest girl on the earth and have small boobs its not soo much on having them being small and what not its the way you use them!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

It's a question of taste - I (31 yrs) personally prefer small boobs but never judged a woman by her boobs. The problem is that feeling insecure about any part of you body shows - other people will notice it. I know what I'm saying, I just lost 200 pounds in the past year.

For a more direct answer - bigger boobs are attractive because of the way they move and the way they feel - seriously. Smaller boobs can be easier to dress though and make life much easier for men.

I believe that any woman can be attractive but I generally go out with a woman who can tease my mind, no matter the size of her boobs.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

i'm a 30B although i think i may be a 32A

i generally hate the size of my boobs

i'm 14 and most girls younger than me are already a 32D

the lads around me drowl at girls with bigger boobs

this makes me feel dead self concious!

everyone calls me flat chested

and i've done loads to make my boobs look bigger

y'know what?

it really isn't worth it!

after reading the responses off other males it's made me feel hell of alot more confident about the size of my boobs

i feel concious because my boyfriend always talks about bigger boobs

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008):

There are a lot of guys who like big boobs. But there are just as many or more who like small boobs.

Don't let your cup size make you who you are, I know you've heard it before but it's true. Men like all types of women, Big, little, big tits, small tits, big ass, small ass, blond, brunet and redhead and everything else you can imagine. If the guy you like is only with you because of your boobs... DUMP HIM!! You're so much better than that.

My preference (and every guy I know) is small boobs.

When all is said and done, it's you're personality and character that your man will be attracted to, love and stay with for the rest of his life.

A woman with personality and character is ALWAYS the woman that will win HANDS DOWN!!

If you don't believe me, ask any MAN who has been married for 20 years and completely adores his wife. All that other crap means nothing…

He loves her for her, not boobs, hair, make-up, legs, ass or pussy (pardon my French) it’s all about who she is, not what she has. THAT’S THE GODS HONEST TRUTH!!!

I whish you the best…

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

If I like a girl, it doesn't matter to me how big her boobs are, I like all sizes, and I prefer the small to average rather than the huge monster ones!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

i think both have their perks.. ha no pun intended but seriously, women are too self concious about this either way. to the original post, don't feel bad about your boobs because they are small, its not a big deal. there are many beautiful and attractive women with small boobs. and to the girl who posted who felt insecure about her big boobs, same answer! don't! i'm sure they look great, and work on you. variety is the spice of life! there is no reason for us as humans to be so insecure about our bodies! work what ya got!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

i saw somthing on the discovery channel a couple years ago and it talked about why guys like big boobs and wide hips and it said it was all encoded into our genetics because women with large breast and wide hips are more likely to be succsesful in childbirth and breastfeeding. with todays technology this is not be the case but in like caveman times this was realy important so guys have a natural atraction to big buts and big boobs. it was a realy interesting show, that wasent all it was about, and i personnaly dont care either way.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008):

I don't like big boobs at all I think small are more beautiful

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008):

I am a 16 year old girl with 36D boobs, i'm not a big fan of them but reading these posts made me feel a little insicure about them. I know now that guys like boob that are small and perky, not big and "saggy", umm thank you. but i quess its something that i am going to have to live with.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008):

i think all of you are right, great responses, im really small, but my boyfriend loves my boobs.Some guys just prefer bigger, because it gives them a false sense of masculinity, to be with a girl who has huge boobs, because its the most conspicuous female feature..b happy with what you have, because when ur older, you wont be saggy =D

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A male reader, jjesse United States +, writes (27 June 2008):

Im 17 and honestly I don't like big boobs I find them to be.. Annoying? I dunno I prefer em to be smaller.

There's definately nothing wrong with it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

i like smaller boob sizes. i dont no y but girls with over the top breasts kinda gross me out. i think you'll find most guys do

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A female reader, bratzgir10 United States +, writes (20 June 2008):

Most of the guys i know prefer small boobs because their more firm and stuff they say that big boobs are nice and all but either they dont sag and their fake or they sag to much or are just to big

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

personally i rather have small firm boobs than larger saggy ones, and i just like smaller boobs, idky it just turns me on.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

it is ingraved in our heads that the bigger, the better ,but some men includeing me dont mind to much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

It is personal taste, but I tend to prefer the smaller chested woman because they tend not to sag so much and are generally more pert... a lot of clothes suit smaller boobs too, and even if theyre small a wonder bra will do wonders for cleavage if thats what your after!

I think alot of men are like me and are the same, however at the end of the day its personal preference. Loves the boobs yu have... and if theyre small then so will i.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

i love small boobs. dont know why just love small boobs. i think alot of guys would prefer a set of perky boobs not saggy boobs!! be happy with your size!

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A male reader, adam2447 United States +, writes (30 April 2008):

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I'm in my mid 20's and I absolutely love small boobs, I prefer them. You're going to find this is all personal preference when it comes to guys. If I want to fill my hands up, I'm going to grab her butt ;) Be proud of what you got because it's hot, it's part of who you are, and there are guys out there that ABSOLUTELY love them! One other factor is nipple size, I like small boobs and small nipples, again, everyone has his or her own preference. Hope this helps!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

i have no problems with small breasts personally, my girlfriend claims hers are small but theyre still fun ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008):

im 15, and what it really comes down to is the shape. The size doesnt matter as much as what they actually look like and how they look on you. But small boobs are nice

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A male reader, useiwayne United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

useiwayne agony auntBig boobs look nice in a bikini or under a shirt. However, the reality of big boobs is that they are much more likely to be droopy/saggy, and that is not attractive. I think you will find guys like small, firm breasts.

The guys you are talking about (teenage boys) haven't fully realized this fact yet as most pictures of women with large breasts are the results of silicone. porn has skewed what normal breasts should look like, and your generation's expectations are ridiculous. Once guys become congnizant of this fact and the "droop/sag" factor of larger breasts, breasts of your size become what we guys all want.

Be patient and happy with you were given, you have nothing to worry about!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

Ya, small is definately better!

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A female reader, VegasGirl15 United States +, writes (24 March 2008):

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VegasGirl15 agony auntI would like to give a big thank you to everyone that has answered especially the guys . You have made me feel alot better . Thank you . feel free to msg me anytime

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntAs an older man who has seen and enjoyed about every available size, my opinion is that it matters little to me. In fact, I think that smaller breasts are just fine, but I do love nice perky nipples. Whether on large or small breasts, firm nipples poking out are a joy for me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

Hey there. I'm 15 year old male, and i got to say, i really really like small boobs. I don't like to big boobs. I like them a bit small, I'm not kidding.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands + , writes (23 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntIt is a matter of taste. What matters more is that your breast size matches your size/weight, clothing and attitude.

What matters is how the total package looks. To many women try to dress/behave as something they are not.

If you got small breasts don't try to fake a cleavage. Look at what women who do look good with your bra-size wear. I have no idea how to express it better but there are plenty of women who can make an a-cup really work.

After all, if an a-cup was sexually unattractive then it would have been bred out of the human species long ago. Evolution shows us that tit size don't make a difference.

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A male reader, ShouldKnowBetter United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2008):

It is down to personal preferences, some like big, some like small.

Just dont go for the false advertising of a wonder bra :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

It dosent really matter...

I have a girlfriend who is going through the same thing as you,

Its the way you act toward your partner and your personality that really matters.

so dont worry about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

ya every guy is different i cant really help you with why guys like bigger boobs cause im not really one of those guys.a girls breast size doesnt matter to me if she has a good personality.come to think of it the girl i like isnt extremely big but boy am i attracted to her.so guys are all different some like em big and some like em small hope this helps

-michael

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A male reader, g247 Ireland +, writes (23 March 2008):

First off, you're 15 so your body still has a LOT of growing to do.

But anyway, guys don't tend to go for big boobs. That's a stigma. Personally speaking, I'm more of a fan of smaller one's and a lot of other guys share the same sentiment.

Yes there are guys who like big tits alright, but they're not neccessarily the majority, much less everyone. Relax, you don't have a problem.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

To be honest, (obviously I'm not a guy but...) I think guys like big boobs simply because they don't have ANY boobs. In a way, it makes the girl seem more feminine.

However, I'm a 32E and feel LESS feminine because of them.

Not all guys like bigger breasts though, some just prefer for their girls to be smaller in chest size. So we've got to remember not to generalize here.

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