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29 July 2009: So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...
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Is getting tanned the way to get attention from the guys?
Q. A question for the men: do you prefer women who are pale or women who are tanned? I ask becuase I find that women with tans always seem to get the attention from men and I have pale skin and I often go unnoticed....
A. 1 April 2006: HEY CHEER UP IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.THERE ARE PENTY OF PALE PEOPLE OUT THERE AND PLENTY DARK PEOPLE.WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T USE THE SUNBEDS BUT A THING YOU CAN DO IS GET SOME FOUNDATION AND USE THAT IT WORKS A TREAT.THE BEST TO USE IS THE CREAM ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!
Q. I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)...
A. 31 March 2006: YOU ARE FAR FAR FAR TO YOUNG TO BE HAVING A BABY.I AM GLAD TO HEAR YOU USED SOMETHING BUT THEY ARN'T 100 PERCENT.I HAVE TO AGREE WITH ASK PHOEBE IT WILL AFFECT YOUR LIFE IF YOU KEEP IT.AND PLEASE LET YOUR PARENTS KNOW HAS THEY WILL BE DEVISTIATED IF ... (read in full...)
She's chatting to her ex again. But I like him. But she's soooo beautiful! What will happen?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this friend. Let's just call her B. B and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We love each other like sisters, and she's one of those people that I'll be totally sad to leave when high-school grad...
A. 31 March 2006: Well you shouldn't really bother.She isn't dating him or anything is she?Just go for it and explain to your freind that you like him.Mabe he likes you or mabe he doesn't but don't break you relationship up between your freind over a crush.Hope it ... (read in full...)
She used to be a swallow!
Q. My g.f used to swallow after Oral sex. Now, she wont. She jumps up and runs to the bathroom and then i hear her spitting. I could understand if she never did that before. But SHE HAS!. ...
A. 31 March 2006: What do you expect?She proberly accidently swallowed it before or mabe she was trying a new way.But now she's relised that she doesn't like it and thats why she spat it out.She proberly doesn't mean anything by this so don't worry and be grateful ... (read in full...)
Does she fancy me??
Q. Hi guys! Wondered what you think to this. There's a girl I work with and we get on really well. I'm not usually one to get involved with people I work with but she seems different to all the rest. There have been quite a few times where I think that ...
A. 31 March 2006: I think this woman has the hots for you.Go for it whats the worst that can happen?she says no.Just ask her if she's single or not then take it from there.Then if she's in a relationship you know not to flirt anymore but don't ask her in a flirty way ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 31 March 2006: Glad that you decided what to do:)... (read in full...)
I called a break and now I want him back, how do I go about it?
Q. I got this problem. I dated this guy for almost 5 years and recently i thought i had feelings for another guy so, we took a break. But it turns out i didn't have feelings for that other guy it was the same guy all along. I love him more then ...
A. 31 March 2006: If you both feel the same then go for it.But first are you still in a relationship with the other man?if so explain how you want to break up then you are free to date who you like but pease don't cheat on him as remember you chose him over your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to aggrevate me about my breasts, why does he do this?
Q. my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs. will make jokes about my breasts. saying they are little and all, but then when I try to ignore it he will make another joke, then it bothers me and he will apologize and say he is just joking and that my breasts are ...
A. 30 March 2006: I don't mean to upset you saying this as this is what i think.But it seems to me that the things he says about your breast being small are what he really feels but he appologises then you won't relise what he is doing and ditch him.... (read in full...)
Mum doesn't want me to have a boyfriend, and she can't tell that my boy-mates are just my friends!
Q. My mum is really old fashioned and doesn't want me to have a boyfriend or even have anything to do with boys. But my two best friends at school are boys. I don't fancy them or have any physical attraction to them. They are just friends, although we ...
A. 30 March 2006: Your mum is living in the past.Nowerdays when you have a boy as a freind it dosen't mean you fancy them.But your mum see's it has wrong and you musn't do it.How are you ever going to find a boyfreind if you are never allowed near them?.I am not tell... (read in full...)
Been chatting and emailling with a girl... What's a good time to ask her to dinner?
Q. I met a girl on the internet recently, and we have been emailing back and forth for the last few weeks. We have this thing going where we ask the other person 20 questions with each email, and then they answer them and send 20 of their own when they ...
A. 30 March 2006: First of all whats the age gap?If it is O.T.T. then don't bother with it but if you are the same age then go for it.You know enough about each other so the next thing is to meet up.But don't be surprised when you meet if she's not what you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with facial hair can any one help!
Q. At what age should i be looking to shave at as im 14 and already I have facial hair. what should i do please help asap...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey don't fret.Shaving accures through all different ages. But only shave when you feel ready don't just shave for the sake of it like d4u04 said it grows back faster and thicker.Good luck with this.... (read in full...)
I slept with someone else...do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two and half years and I love him very much. But this weekend I went to see my friend and I slept with another guy. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I feel that I need to tell him ...
A. 29 March 2006: The shortest answer i can give you is YES! tell him as you will alway feel gulity about this.... (read in full...)
Is getting tanned the way to get attention from the guys?
Q. A question for the men: do you prefer women who are pale or women who are tanned? I ask becuase I find that women with tans always seem to get the attention from men and I have pale skin and I often go unnoticed....
A. 29 March 2006: If you want a tan use creams ect.Don't go on the sunbeds as they can seriously damage your skin.... (read in full...)
How do I end this friendship!?
Q. Hey people, When you truely know a friendship is over how would you address it..been having problems with my best mate and i know that we are too different and this mate always accuse me off always talking about her..i know i don't mak...
A. 29 March 2006: Tell her to her face.You can't keep pretending that you like each other.Tell her and try not to feel to gulity.Or you could ring her,email her or simply leave a letter.But don't leave it any onger as it will get harder and harder.... (read in full...)
I feel torn between moving on or staying put, please help!
Q. hey. Have been goin out with my boyfriend the past 2 and a half years. Lately i have been having feelings for another male. I sometimes think i need to be single for a while but I am afraid my boyfriend will move on and meet someone and I will reg...
A. 29 March 2006: You want to break this happy relationship up for a fancy crush?It's very hard now to find a decent man so if i was you i would keep hold of him and don't break up.If you did do for a while don't be surprised if he has been snatched by other girls.He ... (read in full...)
His family is abusive towards me and he don't do anything about it. What should I do?
Q. I have been living with my fiance (of 1 yr only) for the past 4 years. Same age but I was married with 2 children. His family does not accept me, verbally and physically abused me already. He has done nothing. I am not allowed to any functions etc. ...
A. 29 March 2006: He his hurting you phsically?Get out of this relationship.It's clear to me that he cares about his family and not you when they are around.Don't expect him to change has "A leopard never changes it's spots"Work out what you want from him.Do you love ... (read in full...)
I'm almost ready to come out as bi, but I'm still married, any advice!?
Q. hi there, I am 32 married with 2 kids, but I have a VERY big problem..I'm fairly new to the area we live and have struck up several friendships with new woman but with one this is very different, I have fallen in love with her in a BIG way..This ...
A. 29 March 2006: You are married so first of all you have t explain to our husband on what you feel.If you feel for a wom whom you only know to be your feind you will be throwing it all away for a crush.Mabe you feel that you want to try a new sex well tell your ... (read in full...)
I met a man, but he's married!
Q. I met a man a little over a week ago when I was at a club last weekend. I noticed him from across the room and one of my friends went over to him and he came over to our table. We ended up really hitting it off it was amazing and I think at that ...
A. 29 March 2006: Stear clear of this man.He his married after all.Also he says he never cheated.Well why does he want to be with you?He his a married man and you would destroy his marrage.Even
though he says it is going bad you shouldn't be the one to cause it go a... (read in full...)
Snogging advice sought...
Q. I have never snogged a boy and I am 14. I have recently got with this boy and for once I know we are going to stay together for a while. The only problem is I don't know how to snog someone. Plzzzzzz help me ...
A. 28 March 2006: Well i have only snogged a lad once or twice but all you have to do is follow this lad lead.You should also tell him your situatoin then he doesn't ask to much of you.I understand that you will be embarrassed talking to him so you can easly check ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if the guy I'm interested in is interested back!
Q. Dear Cupid, I started a new job 4 months ago, and I met the man who I was instantly interested in. I asked somebody who knew him if he was single, and she was hesitating but she said that he was not, that it looks like things have worked out for ...
A. 28 March 2006: I think this lad fancy's you but doesn't want to be with you.I think he wants you both to be freinds so that he can see you everyday but in a different way.Go with this lad to the cinema or were ever he wishes to go.Don't do anything with this lad ... (read in full...)
With my first boyfriend, and I want to be a better kisser!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over a month and I really really like him. The problem is, I'm not confident at all! As I've had no experience with kissing before, I don't know what to do. I know this sounds really stupid, but I'm being 100% ...
A. 28 March 2006: Well being 13 i am no expert but i have snogged lads once or twice before.Has he kissed before?If he has you could explain to him your problem and mabe he could help you. Also all you have to do is open your mouth slightly and follow his lead.Also ... (read in full...)
It hurt when my BF said my "problems" would have finished our relationship. I don't know how to react to that!
Q. Hi, I've been very depressed for a long time, about 3 to 4 years. I told my bf of 2 years about it and sometimes talk to him about it, yet I find it diffcult because he makes me feel bad because I am depressed. Anyway he told me that if I was no...
A. 28 March 2006: I think he really loves you but he can't cope with all the depression he has feelings and he feels depressed at times to.You need to see a doctor were they can give you medication for stress.PLease don't let this minor thing come between your ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be pregant even though my bf didn't cum??
Q. Hey, I'm 16 and me and my 19 year old bf had unprotected sex yesterday. Even though he never actually cums he was about to yesterday and he had to stop because of it anyway even tho he didn't cum I am just wonderring if I could still be pregnant? Is ...
A. 28 March 2006: How do you for sure he didn't cum? You should go to the doctors just to be sure.In future times PLease use a condom as anything is possible.... (read in full...)
I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?
Q. I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in ...
A. 28 March 2006: So you've been stringing him along for 22years?I don't think so.You must have some sort of physical attraction to this man or you wouldn't of stayed in this realtionship so long.If your not happy with him then don't continue this relationship as it ... (read in full...)
On all his online profiles he lists himself as single!
Q. Hi, i'm a 20 years old and in need of some unbiased advice. My bf and i have been going out for 2 and half years, we're both in university. We only have small disagreements and i think that we still have a strong relationship. However the other day ...
A. 28 March 2006: So what if you were looking.No matter how you found it you found it didn't you?To me it seems that he wants to be with one of the gorgeous fake girls on the internet who won't ever be reality.You should ditch this guy he's not worth your ... (read in full...)
Snogging...how do you do that? Advice needed.
Q. please help i dont know how to snog someone and i have never done it before but i really want to can u help me ?...
A. 28 March 2006: I am only young myself and have only snogged someone once or twice.But all you need to do is open your mouth slightly and move with the other person.Try telling the person you are with that you have never done it before and they should help you ... (read in full...)
She admitted she has kissed other guys, what am I to do about this?
Q. I went out with my girlfriend the other night and we got chatting to a couple of guys whilst we were out, we ended up going to a club with them and I saw one of the guys come out of the toilet walk up to my gf and kiss her. I hit the guy a few times ...
A. 28 March 2006: She was possibly drunk when this happened at the pub.I also relise that she stayed at this persons house has she was scared how you would react.You really should be glad that she addmitted to you about the other men trying to kiss her.You also knew ... (read in full...)
Help! My mom hates my bf...should I leave him or try to make it work out?
Q. Hi i am having a problem....my mother hates my boyfreind of nine months and so she has baned me from talking to himm she took my cell phone and everything eles away she also pulled me out of school...should i leave him or stay with him and try ...
A. 28 March 2006: Your mum is being pathetic.She is probery just jelous as your now giving your love to someone else.I think you should let it settle with your mum but make sure you make this clear to your boyfreind as he will think your ignoring him.Spend a bit of ... (read in full...)
His porn addiction and his lying about it is getting to me..should i dump him?
Q. My boyfriend has a problem, everytime I go to work he looks at pornography numerous times during the day. I have asked him to stop or be less frequent as it bothers me and every month I find it again. He has started deleting everything off the ...
A. 27 March 2006: No definatly not.If this is the only thing wrong with your realtionship than it is not a problem.It is common for a man to look at porn it is nothing unusual.He only lies has he is possibly embarrased has you have found out.Many men don't like to ... (read in full...)
Does she really like me or am I just a "security blanket" for when she misses her boyfriend?
Q. Do I have a chance? Hello, I'm 18 years old and i have this friend (a girl) and i think she likes me, but im not sure. The only reason im unsure is because she has a boyfriend, but he lives in another state. They do talk on the phone, and h...
A. 27 March 2006: I think this girl uses you has a blanket.I don't mean to hurt your feelings but that is just my opiion.If she is telling this person in anouther state that she loves them and he his travelling to see her once a month there must be something there ... (read in full...)
My Ex was very emotionless, she didn't even cry about our breakup! Should I let her know what I think?
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and she showed very little emotion over it. She really isn't much of an emotional person, and I think it's something to do with her past. Her and her ex boyfriend suffered a miscarriage about 4 y...
A. 27 March 2006: It's not your choice weather she see's a counciler after all she may not want the past dragging up.Also she would of wanted to cry but she is a person who dosen't show her emotions to the people. she proberly thought you wern't worth crying in front ... (read in full...)
He says our seeing eachother has to be a secret, what's this about?
Q. met this guy, was kissing him for a week,really nice but then he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend however said he still wanted to remain friends which was good because we are in the same circle of friends. but now we are still texting ...
A. 27 March 2006: This guy and you should not be staying at each others house,especially in his bed.He his your ex and he as a new girlfreind which means he should be spending as much time with her as possible to build a strong relationship.Do you still like this guy ... (read in full...)
I don't feel attracted to him physically, but he treats me well. What should I do?
Q. I met a guy on the train 2 years ago who is 26, i am 27. We get on great and i do feel very connected to him in a lot of important ways except sexualy. I do fancy him but one of the reasons we split was because i never wanted sex, i was fine whe...
A. 27 March 2006: He says he will treat you well but could he just be saying this to get you back. He use to treat you badly so what makes you think he won't go back to his old ways. Like the old saying "a leopard never changes it's spots". Some relationships last ... (read in full...)
I have a different discharge the day after I have sex.....
Q. When i have sex, the next day i have a funny colour discharge. is this normal?...
A. 27 March 2006: This doesn't sound normal to me.Maybe it is an allergic reaction to the condom you are using or an infection.Go to the doctors,they know best.Good luck with this.... (read in full...)
He keeps letting me down and going with his mates instead! What am I supposed to do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and up until lately things have been fantastic, the problem is he keeps letting me down with our plans for a night out with his mates. We make arrangements then as soon as he gets a sniff of the pub he ...
A. 27 March 2006: Of course your not being selfish.He his the one who is being selfish.Spending his savings when he has promised to take you out and arranging dates with you ,but as soon as his mates call he is gone as quick as a flash.You have given him enough ... (read in full...)
Could his attitude towards me be because of our age gap?
Q. weve been together for 3 yrs,.i dont understand his attitude towards me sometimes he likes me sometimes he dont..his 45 yrs of age and im only 21,,but i do loved him,.but his always holding back,.because of our age gap.....
A. 27 March 2006: I don't think this is lightly as you have been together 3 years already.Could there be something happening in his life which you don't see?Then talk to him and tell him how you feel,explain that you won't be his doormat.This relation ship is ... (read in full...)
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