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... Send *obbyjo a private message | | | *obbyjo's profile:Hi im Bobbyjo, Im 29 years old from South England. I work full time for government but have just finshed a counselling course at college.
Ive had alot of experience with helping my friends with breakups, my familys divorce, my friends sexual hang-ups and also my own problems. And Ive had more than my fair share of that!
Im currently single living with my 2 friends (who are also single) and havent had a relationship for over a year now and am very happy just the way things are. |
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My looks scare peple, how do I get people to accept me for who I am?
Q. Dear Friends. I'm keeping this short, so just multiply everything I say by 35 years and you'll understand how I feel about this problem. I have Cerebral Palsy. How this comes out in me is in my face, I look like a reject from one of Freddy...
A. 26 April 2006: Im so sorry to hear what you have to go through each day, but I have to agree with Chewabaca - there are other people all over the world who will accept you for who you are and by travelling and meeting new people I am sure you will soon gain the ... (read in full...)
Afraid to approach guys for dates...not sure if I can handle the rejection.
Q. When I was in my teens I was not afraid to ask guys out and if they said no, it didn't really bother me or hurt me. Now after a few years and a few relationships in which I didn't make the first move, I find myself wanting to ask someone out but I ...
A. 5 December 2005: When you see a guy you like, its always best to find a little bit out about him first. I dont mean stalking the man just finding out little bits of info so you know the best way to approach him. Find out if he has a girlfriend or not first, find out ... (read in full...)
Should my friend's ex and I be together?
Q. Hi. My friend split up with his girlfriend. The other dy, i went with my other friend to see his girlfriend, and my other friends ex was there. We got talking, and we got on really well. It ended in nus kissing, and now i feel bad because i think ...
A. 5 December 2005: At the end of the day you have to think about your own happiness. Your friend and this girl split up because they were not happy together, for whatever reason, and as she is now single your friend has no right to be angry with you over it. But it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 4 years doesn't show he cares. Now I'm getting interested in someone else!
Q. I have had a boyfriend for the last 4 years. I love him and he says he loves me. But he never shows me any commitment. He works on the oilrigs so we do not see each other that much. He never rings me when he is away and when he is home he goes str...
A. 1 December 2005: You really need to get rid of your boyfriend, if thats what you can call him. No respecting, loving boyfriend who genuinely cares for you would make you walk 3 miles to see him when he could easily come and pick you up. It seems that because he ... (read in full...)
Need more advice! My teen son still insists on marrying his 52 year old girlfriend and the police can't do anything!
Q. Thank you for all your help so far as regards my problem. Yet my 16-year-old son still wants to marry this 52-year-old woman. I contacted the police but they can't do anything about it apparently. My wife is worried about our son. What kinds o...
A. 1 December 2005: Unfortunately, the police cannot do anything when the child is 16 and over. I believe that this relationship will not last. Your son, and this woman, are both facing huge physical and mental changes in their lives. Your son will grow into a man and ... (read in full...)
I didn't do anything wrong. My girlfriend says she just doesn't feel the same...
Q. My girlfriend doesn't want me anymore. I didn't do anything bad. She just doesn't feel the same anymore. I'm having a hard time letting here go. In fact, I don't want to let go of her. It feels so hard for me. I really want to be with her. I just l...
A. 30 November 2005: It might be hard but dont get into a row with her. You may be feeling frustrated at the moment but perstering her really will push her away even further. Let her go, then dont call her, talk about her or even think about her. Maybe in a couple of ... (read in full...)
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