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writes:Okay, so im in Highschool and we have the homecoming dance comming up soon. There is this guy that I like, and want to go with. Should I ask him if hes going and kind of bring up the fact that I want to go with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, scullyfbi +, writes (25 September 2010):
Yes.
Be Casual and friendly. Don't talk it up with your other friends.
You say something like---- "I think it would be a nice thing if we went to the homecoming together".
Let it got from there. You will find out whether he agrees--- or not. and don't take things hard if not. It will not be a reflection on you.
But at your ages many guys are scared to death of girls its the rejection thing so it is ok to make the oportunity happen to talk about an event like that without pressure. Plus, if you just bring it up--- well the pressure is off for him isn't it, and the worst case is it doesn't work out and you can move on-- at least for now.........
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (25 September 2010):
yes,just say whats up im going to home comming do you want to go with me its thats simple stop being shy..lol :) good luck or ask him over the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): i think you should probably just bring it up casually. ask if he's going. if he says yes, ask who he's taking. if he says no one, then mention you aren't going with anyone either, and ask if it's cool if you go together. if he says no or says he's going with someone, don't get discouraged and say something like 'that's cool' or 'awesome.' kinda play it off if you will. just keep talking to him and say something like 'i'll see you there.' and smile! good luck.
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