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He is blaming me for everything and not seeing what he did wrong! . How can I make him ses that he is at fault too and not only me?

Q.   My ex and I were suppose to be working things out. He told me to seek for anger management help. So I actually went out to buy health insurance on my on cause I have none through my employer. So last weekend we spend together and had a great one ...

A.   25 April 2007: listen my sister came home from a bad marrige and ran stright to me she has a 5 year old son name chance and i have always told him that it wasnt hes fault and you got to remind your son that no mater what you love him and just do what your heart ... (read in full...)

She cheated on me and we broke up! So tell me...why on earth does she call me every single week?

Q.   We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave...

A.   24 April 2007: change your number tell her to leave you alone you dont want anyone like her in your life and thats really what u need. lots of luck hun xxxooo... (read in full...)

He is blaming me for everything and not seeing what he did wrong! . How can I make him ses that he is at fault too and not only me?

Q.   My ex and I were suppose to be working things out. He told me to seek for anger management help. So I actually went out to buy health insurance on my on cause I have none through my employer. So last weekend we spend together and had a great one ...

A.   24 April 2007: really give him time and just be ready to take the worse. may be u should tell him you want to get away with out him and think. some guys think they can say any thing and as long s you love him you'll be there well you got to tell him your hearts in ... (read in full...)

Ladies, what sort of birth control (besides condoms) do you use?

Q.   I am 18 years old and in a relationship that is starting to turn very serious. I am making an appointment with my University’s health office to get myself some sort of birth control, but I’m unsure of what I should get. My school offers : the ...

A.   24 April 2007: frist my sis got pregnate on the depo. and i was on the pill and i kept for getting to take it snd even thow every one is differnt i got mood swings and i was emotional but then i triend the patch and it made me sick and then finally the ring and it ... (read in full...)

My new partner is very well endowed. Will he hurt me?

Q.   im not that experienced in the sexual intercourse department and me and my new partner are still in the exploring stage of our relationship my problem is that he is very well endowed and lagre in width aswell as length im scared it will hurt when we ...

A.   24 April 2007: well take it slow and when it starts to hurt let him know and try something eles intill you comfortable. im sure he'll understand if he loves you but hang in there ... (read in full...)

I'm 16, and he's 26. We're worried about this.

Q.   i'm 16 and am so attracted to someone but he is 26 what should i do he also likes me but he is worried what people are going to say. we have talked about this but have never even kissed because he is worried so i want your opinions on if you think ...

A.   23 April 2007: well hi my sister was in the same situation she was 16 when she met her husban that was 26 and the ten year apart was hard but they got 2 children and live together and there just 21 and 31 now but i believe she missed out on alot but they really ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to cheer my guy up or will I just have to get used to feeling so useless?

Q.   Im not sure what to do about a situation with my fiance. He is a really really great guy, very loving kind and caring and always treating me to nice things when he can. When we first got together he was so much fun and i loved spending time with ...

A.   22 April 2007: gosh my relationship has been thru alot but hey you do love him so it will be ok; my fiance went thru depression and he got real bad were nothing was good enough he was mean to me and just emotionally numb i helped him thru it the best way i can i ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is inconsistent to what he says to me and how he acts.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost 3 years wanted some space. It was really almost impossible for me to give it to him because it really hurt me. This past weekend something bad happened to me and he said that because of that he realized how much he loved me. ...

A.   22 April 2007: girl god do i know how you feel just take a deep breath my fiance did the same to me and now still trien to work things out but look he may be stressed out yeah trust me we can do that and it hurts worse than you know but besides my fiance said he ... (read in full...)

My ex bf turned really nasty with me when I told him I wanted him back! How do I fix this..I miss him so much!

Q.   I have been broken up with my ex for almost 6 months now and we havent been in much contact - it was quite a bad break up. We had been together for almost 2 years and it was very on and off - he is 29 and I am 26. I have made an effort to move on ...

A.   22 April 2007: listen take a deep breath let me tell you what im going thru and i got it all figuard out now but me and my fiace broke up in bad conditons and after a month he sent me and text and i had to beg him to call me and when i got him on the phone he was ... (read in full...)

I did anal sex with him and now he doesn't want to marry me because he thinks I did this, in my past?

Q.   I have been engaged for 6 months. In the arab world, we tend not to get sexually active until after marriage. My fiancee and I had anal sex. He now wants to rethink our relationship because he thinks that I did this in the past with other men. I ...

A.   22 April 2007: sounds like to me he thinks your not what hes looking for which he really needs to get a reality check on life and you need to better your self and let him know that you did it because you loved him and if he doesnt believe you than bye and if he ... (read in full...)

Hubby masturbates 2 times a week. I'm lucky if I get 'it' once a month! What is causing this?

Q.   I asked my husband how often he masturbates, and he said a couple times a week. Yet, I'm lucky if we have sex once a month. He says it is not me, but what else could it be?...

A.   22 April 2007: well my fiance and me used to have sex all the time then he wouldnt want it and i found out that he was masterbating like twice a day and he said it wasnt me and that he was just stressed out and that it was easier than asking me for sex well we had ... (read in full...)

His excuse for these emotional affairs, is that he likes to feel wanted!! What should I do, he hasnt slept with them so its not a real affair right ?

Q.   I need help to figure out what to do about my fiance having an emotional affair. We have been together for 3yrs and have a daughter. I found out that he had been talking to another girl and that they had sent naked pix to each others phones. He ...

A.   14 April 2007: If you read this leave him thats what i did with my ex YOU dont deserve that at all my ex told me it was the past leave it alone then he left me saying nothing last forever so get out and find you some one that has respect for you you deserve it ... (read in full...)

I feel tired and have breast tenderness, but no period due to this pill I take. Am i pregnant?

Q.   I just started taking a birth control pill that is supposed to give you 4 periods a year. In the first week, I had sex with my boyfriend - and yes, we did use a condom. It's 3 weeks into this birth control stuff and I'm feeling tired all the time ...

A.   14 April 2007: hey im going to tell you STOP the pills i had started taking pills like that and i got pregnate and it just got nastey you should try something differnt because trust me its messing up your body snd just so you know if you dont bleed than you dont ... (read in full...)

I like him a lot, but he has a gf! What should I do?

Q.   This guy I met on the internet I really like and we are trying a long distance relationship but I added him as a friend to facebook and I saw that he was in a relationship with some other girl. We have been long distance dating since September and I ...

A.   14 April 2007: Well if your cheking in this im going to tell you some guys and girls dont like to be hit on on those things take my space i got down im married and im single and that or he may be hiding a girl in long distance there has to be lots of trust and i ... (read in full...)

Been seeing a married man for 15 years, but cant get over the guilt that his wife may have heard a voicemail message!

Q.   i am in therapy trying to get over a relationship i have had with a married man for the past fifteen years. we actually broke it off (i did as i always did) a year ago but started speaking again this year. i became very threatened by a friendship ...

A.   14 April 2007: Well im not going to judge and i hope you dont think i am but shouldnt you have more guilt over the relationship between you two than a voice message plus you don't need him and if she found out she deserved to i found out a month ago the 16th that ... (read in full...)

We broke up, her new guy just treats her like his slave, shes too kind for that, I still love her what should I do ?

Q.   I have had a girlfriend for eight months, but sadly we broke up not too long ago. I loved her and she loved me. That was clear. We laughed all the time and helped each other through hard times. Then, someone else came into the picture. He guil...

A.   14 April 2007: If she really loved you than she wouldn't have left you for him and i think if she was unhappy than she would have at least tried to get out of it or talk to someone about it. Have you thought she might be happy and you only see her as sad because ... (read in full...)

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