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My new partner is very well endowed. Will he hurt me?

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Question - (23 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

im not that experienced in the sexual intercourse department and me and my new partner are still in the exploring stage of our relationship my problem is that he is very well endowed and lagre in width aswell as length im scared it will hurt when we have sex any advice??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

I have the same "problem" with my girlfriend. She just has me go really slowly at first, I guess until things get a little loosened up. Also, have him not go so deep. From what I understand, most women don't like having their cervix pounded on. Plus, if he goes in slow, there is a small area beyond your cervix... I forget whats its called. But, my girlfriend likes stimulation there, so perhaps you would?

Enjoy :)

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A female reader, beautifulllove United States +, writes (24 April 2007):

beautifulllove agony auntwell take it slow and when it starts to hurt let him know and try something eles intill you comfortable. im sure he'll understand if he loves you but hang in there

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

Hey weve all been there. Try to relax as much as you can and use a lubericant if possible. The more relazed you are the easier it'll be. Try to get him to start off slow also helps,or you could be on top so you control the speed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

take things SLOWLY and you will be fine. ensure you are fully aroused and use plenty of lubrication. that way you cant go wrong. experiment with different positions until you find the ones that are best for you both. dont be afraid to talk to your new man about your fears. he wouldnt want to hurt you so he will be happy to take his time. i bet he will rather enjoy it too, lol. remember the female vagina is capable of stretching far enough to give birth so its ok for a man to be large. good luck.

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