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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been broken up with my ex for almost 6 months now and we havent been in much contact - it was quite a bad break up. We had been together for almost 2 years and it was very on and off - he is 29 and I am 26. I have made an effort to move on and I am really busy with friends and work and feeling happy again, but I would like him to be a part of my life again. I have tried to get back in touch with him because I still have very strong feelings for him. He has responded with a really nice text saying that he was thinking about me and hoping I was well, then when I responded to him the next day saying how much I missed him, he turned nasty very suddenly and he is so angry at me, saying things i know he doesnt mean - i.e. I am evil and that I got to him and that it was an error in judgement to be involved with me. He is saying awful things with such venom, such as I am and I know that isnt how he really feels - I think he must still care to be this angry, but maybe I am wrong. I know that if we could talk it might make things a bit better, even if it ends that we dont get back together, it would be nice to talk about things that are obviously bothering us and making us think the worst. But - he wont talk to me! He is now ignoring me again, I have no idea what is going through his mind... I would love some advice as to how I can try to fix this as I miss him so very much. Thank you
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (22 April 2007):
 listen take a deep breath let me tell you what im going thru and i got it all figuard out now but me and my fiace broke up in bad conditons and after a month he sent me and text and i had to beg him to call me and when i got him on the phone he was very cold to me after i said i love you and want this to work and even thow he said no i pushed where i shouldnt have and we got back together but he was still cold to me and wanted to hind me from hes family because they hated me and since he moved back in with hes mom to help her thru her hard tim i got maybe a couple text messages a day and then hes phone got shut off and hes getting a new one but he doesnt seem like he use to but my advise is to take it slow and ask if you two can be friends and then take it from there and let him come to you he might be still hurting you see my fiance wasnt the one hurting it was me and i still cry even thow were together and if all goes bad than move on thats wat im about to do but good luck i know how you feel
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