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writes:This guy I met on the internet I really like and we are trying a long distance relationship but I added him as a friend to facebook and I saw that he was in a relationship with some other girl. We have been long distance dating since September and I don't know what to do because I really like this guy a lot. But after he accepted my friend request on facebook he changed his profile so that it says he listed as single then he no longer listed as single. I have no clue what to do or say to him, please help.
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Well if your cheking in this im going to tell you some guys and girls dont like to be hit on on those things take my space i got down im married and im single and that or he may be hiding a girl in long distance there has to be lots of trust and i should know had one for a while but we did each other but my point is trust your gut not your heart but as i say love cant cause you any pain its all in your brain
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reader, vero05  +, writes (14 April 2007):
talk to him and make sure he is single, if his not forget him.
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reader, penta +, writes (14 April 2007):
 First, has he ever said he was dating only you? He may assume that while you're in different locales you're allowed to date other people. Decide if you're okay with that.
THEN talk to him about what you saw. Make him own it. If he told you he was committed to you you've caught him "stretching" the truth, I'd walk away. If he never told promised to be with you only and that's what you want, you should press for that now.
As for the single thing -- how often does he update his profile? Maybe he just didn't think about it.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 This is very suspiscious and id be careful where you tred with this one. Ask him out straight that you saw what his profile said and you want some answers, see how fast he can come up with an excuse, if he stutters or there are any 'errs' in his words then something is going on. You can always tell if someone is lying so ask him, but i advice you not to get your hopes up on this relationship it sounds too risky, like sooner or later your bound to get hurt.
hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): I believe that if this guy cannot be truthful from the beginning over a computer, he will not be able to be truthful in person. You don't want to share your boyfriend with another woman, and he was extremely disrespectful to not inform you of this other girl. Trust is an important factor in a relationship and you might not be able to trust him. Use your best judgement and it will save you alot of hurt in the end.
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