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writes:so me and this guy have talking about sex for a while.. we're practically together. we were both virgins. but anyways i decided to let it go on.. he used protection and stuff and he fingered me good before.. and then he stuck his part in me and it hurt really bad, i don't even have any idea how far it went in. but it hurt really bad, so i had to stop him. does this mean i'm not a virgin anymore? or what.. i'm gonna talk to him about it eventually but i want to know what you think.. why did it hurt so bad? is it ever going to feel good? did i lose my virginity? i'm not a stupid little kid i'm just curious. thanks xx
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reader, ConcernedGirl  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 I lost my virginity 2 weeks ago, and it hurt me too (im 15 btw).
Yes you did lose your virginity, it gets better if you carry on, and it might still hurt the next couple of times you try. But over time your body will get used to it and it will start to feel really good. If you're gonna continue to have sex, make sure you use protection every time, and even try to get a backup (e.g the pill) just incase.
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reader, B-NaneR  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Well, sorry to say this but if you dont know why it hurt then you really shouldnt be having sex and you are pretty young. It hurt because you were a vergin and it is normal for the first couple times atleast to hurt because your hymen was (depending if the penis did penetrate you) broken or was about to brake. If it penetrated you than no you're not a vergin. There is no rush for sex, but i know that it is going to happen again adn when it does please use protection, i just got over a pregnancy scare and i did use protection, it just broke unfortunatly, luckly she was on the pill. so you can never be too careful
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): It hurt because it was the first time. You and were probably just nervous. Fingering doesnt have anything to do with getting you ready. Tell him to go slower next time! It will feel better as time goes by. And I would say no, you are not a virgin. But you can look at it however you want. Just keep being safe!
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reader, batfink +, writes (2 June 2008):
Well from the sound of it you're not a virgin any more. What you felt was your hymen breaking and that can be painful, I have to say that you are far to young to be having sex from the age on your profile. The legal age for sex is 16 and anyone having sex with you is breaking the law. I know you're not a stupid little kid but you just took a massive step into adulthood. Are you sure you took it with the right person, please don't fuck up the rest of your life. I have had too many mates have kids while they were like 12 or 13 and been fucked up for the rest of their life because of it.
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