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My name is Bailey I live in the UK with my partner and two cats. I'm an out going bubbly girl who adores life. I’ve been through times where I thought I’d never smile again, but I got through them and here I am offering advice to the best of my knowledge in hopes it will help others in their time of need.
Any advice I give is only my opinion... I just hope it sheds light on your situation and helps a little if not a lot. I know with the best of you that life can be hard and the people around us can’t always understand what where going through and only a stranger’s advice gives hope. So if anybody needs a shoulder, I’m here ?
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Why does she always agree to meet up and then never show!?
Q. dear readers im currently having a problem with a girl. i met her online and we talk when ever shes on and also talk to her on the phone aswell. i have asked her to meet up with her and she goes yes but then never shows up and comes up with ex...
A. 19 March 2007: Don’t put all your eggs in one basket honey. Don’t let anyone put you down for the way you look. You are you and you should be proud of that. So you haven’t found the right girl yet, trust me she's out there its just a matter of waiting.
For t... (read in full...)
Shes 19, had at least 15 sexual partners, I think shes easy and this bothers me, is it worth sticking at a relationship ?
Q. hi im 21 and have been going out with my GF(19) for about 4 months now. I really like her personality and i think she is a great person. However she has had sex/"done stuff" with 15 other guys and its really killing me. Most of these were one night ...
A. 19 March 2007: Hello. Your GF’s past sexual partners has nothing to do with you. Just because she’s had some one night stands it doesn’t make her easy. It the typical scenario a guy sleeps with 10 girls and he's a king, a girl does the same and she's easy.
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Why does she always agree to meet up and then never show!?
Q. dear readers im currently having a problem with a girl. i met her online and we talk when ever shes on and also talk to her on the phone aswell. i have asked her to meet up with her and she goes yes but then never shows up and comes up with ex...
A. 19 March 2007: I think maybe it’s because you met on line. She maybe thinking of the dangers of meeting up with someone you have met on the internet or she could have told some lies, such as the way she looks or what kind of person and family she is from. She ... (read in full...)
I am 16, my fiancee is 15, we've been together since we were 6 and want to get married as soon as possible!
Q. i am 16 years old. my fiancee is 15 and we have been together since we were 6. i want to get around the parental thing so that we can get married asap!! is there any possible way i can get around that??...
A. 15 March 2007: Being together from the age of 6 doesn’t mean much. I say this because you are way to young at that age to even know what a relationship is let along love. You are both still very young to be getting marred. When your with somebody and you love them ... (read in full...)
Our son died, and he asked his ex to get back with him!! Its a year on and I cant get past it!!!
Q. Hi, I got together with my boyfriend about a year and 4 months ago. We met through family. When I met him I thought he was the perfect person I had ever met. I knew it was my time to be happy. Since my ex boyfriend 4 years earlier treated ...
A. 14 March 2007: Thank you very much for your understanding. Not a day goes by when i don t thikn of Bailey. There is so much missing in me now and i cant find the happy girl i used to be. I want to be a mother so much but not with my boyfriend. He says he's so ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a boy says he likes you yet only acts like it when we are alone?
Q. Helooo!, what does it mean when a boy says that he likes you, but only acts like it when we are alone ...? i really REALLY like this boy! we haev done some things together, but when we are at school he doesnt act like he likes me and then suddenly ...
A. 14 March 2007: Boy are inmature. He's probably scared of what his friends will say. Tell him, ' tell everyone about me and you!' Or there will be no me and you!!! Dont let him hold all the cards. ... (read in full...)
How can I find a male figure that my child and I can depend on?
Q. I am pregnant (as you may have gurssed by the name) and i don't really know the father. In fact, i was stupid enough to get in the car with a complete stranger. I was worried about finding a father figure for my child, as i dont want him or her ...
A. 14 March 2007: Dont look,when the time is right, Mr Right will come along. All you children need is you, be the best mother you can and your children will be fine. When you least expect it the right man will come a long at the right time.
Take Care
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My sister's marriage is over-so how do I show some support and help towards her?
Q. I just learned yesturday that my sister is having problems in her marriage. Her husband has medical issues, but has become addicted to the pain medication. He lost his job a while ago (not due to the drugs), but my sister has been the main income ...
A. 14 March 2007: Hello
All you can do is be there for her. Try your best to be understanding,try and help out with your sisters child, that will take alot of pressure off her. and support her as much as you can. If she knows your there that will make some of her p... (read in full...)
Please could you tell me how I stop these dreams and feelings and how I get on with my life without him in my head.
Q. Hello. I’ve been broken up with my ex-boyfriend for 4 years now. He was my first love and to be completely honest I have never fallen out of love with him. We had a load of relationship problems from fighting, arguing etc. He cheated on me with ...
A. 14 March 2007: Thhank You all for your time in replying to my dilemma. I just need to stop thinking about him and move on. My current boyfriend is simler to my ex so that might be it. I dont know. ... (read in full...)
Married 8 months an now when he drinks, he's mentally abusive! What should I do?
Q. i dont even know where to start because im soo confused. my husband and i have been married for about 8 months. when things are good they are awesome! but lately his mood has been rocky, one week he is soo sweet and nice and loving, then he starts ...
A. 14 March 2007: Ok to me he seems to be controlling. Nothing good comes from this kind of relationship. He's trying to control you by saying he wants a divorce. No normal adult would want a divorce over that.
What you need to do is tell him to stop calling ... (read in full...)
I belong to an asian culture. Is it true in the west, you can have sex with anyone you want?
Q. I belong to asian culture and i have this mindset about West that you are free to do whatever you want there. Meaning you can have sex with anyone you want to, if both are ready. Is this true? ...
A. 14 March 2007: In the UK, we have what you call Free Will. It means as a person you make your own choices about you own life. In some cases this is a good thing and others it can be a bad thing. I do believe that everyone should be able to make there own choices ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date a girl who didnt like oral sex?
Q. Guys, would you date a girl who didnt like oral sex?? I hate giving guys oral sex, its a massive turn off for me (Im actually not a fan of recieving it either) but my guy friends were talking the other day and said they could never date a girl who ...
A. 14 March 2007: I think it’s up to you if you like it or not. Its a personal choice. Find the reasons why you don’t like it and them compromise from there. Personaly you must be doing it with the wrong guy, it’s the best part about sex! (it last longer lol) ... (read in full...)
How do you know when your truely in love with someone?
Q. How do you know when your truely in love with someone? Ive thought ive been in love bout 4 times (alot for someone my age (20) i know) but then after the relationship has ended or something, ive realised it wasnt love. I think ive fallen in love ...
A. 14 March 2007: I don’t know. All I know is that when I’m truly in love, i know I’m in love (no questions asked) Loves a funny thing, but above everything, when your in love you know it. It hits you like a ton of bricks. You find yourself feeling nothing else ... (read in full...)
My bf is going to marry the girl he got pregnant. I'm hurt..advice needed!
Q. hi I was in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and he got another female pregnant the girl knew we were together but she didnt care and they went on with this now i think he is going to marry her this is heartbreaking for me because i was ...
A. 14 March 2007: He's a complete waste of your time. He's cheated on you with her and got her pregnant. Don’t be involved in that honey, just think yourself looky you didn’t end up pregnant to him. I promise you now he will do the same to her, as he's done to you. ... (read in full...)
I think he still loves me but he disagrees! How do I get over him?
Q. uhm hi everyone, i really need someone talk to me now. I broke up with him like 2 months already. I still love him and i cant get over it, and i feel like he still love me too, i give him a chance to come back but he disagree, i really want him ...
A. 14 March 2007: Hello…. Everyone has been where you are now. You can’t make someone love you honey, and why would you want too? I know its hard and it hurts like hell, but be strong, as the saying goes…. There's plenty of fish in the sea!! ... (read in full...)
He dumped me because he said I was too childish!
Q. my boyfriend dumped me yesterday. we've bin on and of for the past year. he says its because im too childish (im 16, hes 19) and because i dont know him anymore! but because he wont let me. we had sex three times and each time afterwards i would ...
A. 14 March 2007: Hello. The pregnant thing, if your ready to have sexual intercourse you need to visit your doctor and get some birth control. You need to take this correctly. When you do have sex you won’t be stressing about being pregnant. As for the rest, tell ... (read in full...)
I find it insulting that my gf still does things with her ex bf! How do I handle this?
Q. I finally got my life on the right track and have had a steady and stable girlfriend for the last 2.5 months. I think she is the one. However, she is still in contact with her ex-boyfriend, who also happens to be her mechanic and is one of her good ...
A. 14 March 2007: Hello, my name is Bailey. I don’t think your wrong in worrying about your girlfriend going to the movies with her ex-boyfriend. That is completely out of order. When you break up with someone your supposed to move on, you cant ever be friends with ... (read in full...)
Are there any girls in my situation who love their ex and are willing
Q. Hello again. I know that I've got a lot of support from everyone here. But I wanted to know if there were anyother girls in my situation. Someone to talk to. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We just decided to take a break because he's ...
A. 13 March 2007: Hello. I've been with my boyfriend now for just over a year. When we first got together he still loved his ex girlfriend, BUT NEVER TOLD ME THIS) anyway as months passed he was txting he and asking her to get back with him. He was telling me that he ... (read in full...)
I'm kissing and spending time with my mates girlfriend... !
Q. About a year ago one of my best friends went behind my back with a girl I really liked. I was so hurt that I didnt talk to him for about 9 months. We have made up now and he has gone travelling for the next 3 months. Meanwhile I'm spending alot of...
A. 13 March 2007: Because he did it to you, he'll think you’re trying to get him back for what he did. That will just cause pain and your friendship will probably end. I would tell this girl to decide if she want to be with your friend or not. If she breaks up with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had cheated and lies to me! But I don't want to loose him!
Q. my boyfriend of 3 years has cheated on me and he is always lying about it and he has been on the internet trying to hook up and goes on the adult sites i have confronted him about it and he keeps lying,i cant stand the pain and i dont want to lose ...
A. 13 March 2007: I know how you feel. My ex cheated on me. I forgave him and are relationship went down hill from there. you see he committed the ultimate crime in a relationship and i forgave him. Because i forgave him, he thought he could do anything and i would ... (read in full...)
How can you make your EX-boyfriend interested in you again?
Q. How can you make you ex-boyfriend intersted in you again without making it obvious? He acts like he still likes me, but is also interested in other girls.... but when I try to talk to other guys he gets all nervous and then tries to make me scared ...
A. 12 March 2007: I don’t think you can. Once someone has made there mind up that’s it. When i have broken up with boyfriends I’ve gotten really dressed up and gone somewhere i know they will be. When there, i act like I haven't seen them while smiling and laugh with ... (read in full...)
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