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writes:my boyfriend dumped me yesterday. we've bin on and of for the past year. he says its because im too childish (im 16, hes 19) and because i dont know him anymore! but because he wont let me. we had sex three times and each time afterwards i would srtess about being pregnant. he said this was another reason. he broke up with me over chat and then texted me saying he doesnt want me to hate him he just needs time to think about us and it wasnt fair if we stayed together just because i loved him. and i really do love him. i just dont know what to do about all this
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (14 March 2007):
Well he is a little bit older than you - he might have just said that he felt that perhaps he should go out with someone his old age - the fact that he said you were "childish" just shows that he is NOT ADEPT with word and NOT VERY CARING in how he expresses himself.
As the other aunts have said, you MUST take precautions when having sex, both to avoid pregnancy and to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. It is best to go on the pill AND use condoms. Make sure you do this if you have sex with someone else, and DO NOT have sex with them otherwise.
In terms of what to do, sadly there is nothing for you to do, other than to let time take its course and to get over him. He doesn't sound good enough for you anyway! Go out with your friends and have some fun without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): You are who you are so don't let this boy put you down anymore. You have had a lucky escape, if he is going to put you down now then what would he be like in the future. Childish, but you are a child (sorry, but i wish i was 16!!!) Enjoy your youth and stop being in a hurry to be an adult, it is bad enough once you get there! Never, ever listen to someone who puts you down and calls you childish. Walk away with your head held high, silly old man!!!
The pregnancy thing, well, in future make sure you have some birth control, or make the bloke wear a condom or you are not having sex. Be strong! it is your body and your life, you only get one go at this!!! Make it the best life ever.
Take care
xx
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Hello. The pregnant thing, if your ready to have sexual intercourse you need to visit your doctor and get some birth control. You need to take this correctly. When you do have sex you won’t be stressing about being pregnant. As for the rest, tell your (ex) b/f he met you as you are and you wont change yourself for him or anyone else. Never change yourself to make someone else happy.
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