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My boyfriend had cheated and lies to me! But I don't want to loose him!

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Question - (13 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2007)
A female Australia age 41-50, *itzy writes:

my boyfriend of 3 years has cheated on me and he is always lying about it and he has been on the internet trying to hook up and goes on the adult sites i have confronted him about it and he keeps lying,i cant stand the pain and i dont want to lose him what am i to do?

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A female reader, Bailey J United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

Bailey J agony auntI know how you feel. My ex cheated on me. I forgave him and are relationship went down hill from there. you see he committed the ultimate crime in a relationship and i forgave him. Because i forgave him, he thought he could do anything and i would just let it go. I think you need to seriously think about what you want from a relationship. is it someone who cheats on you or is it someone who will love you and never hurt you in a million years. There are billions of men in this world, your boyfriend is not the only guy on the planet. you don’t have to put up with it. Give him an no choice. Stop the internet shit, stop the cheating or I’ll leave. If he doesn’t change give him the boot.

Good Luck

Bailey J

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A female reader, seacutiepie Australia +, writes (13 March 2007):

I hate to say it, but are you sleeping ok? knowing he is doing this to you. Because i shore would not be sleeping. This is where you need to make a choice. Are you better than that? Do you deserve better than that? Is it fair what he is doing to you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

Two words "dump him". If your boyfriend has cheated on you and lies then he obviously doesnt not respect you, so why do you allow yourself to be treated that way. You are worth more than that and deserve to be treated with some respect. Dont blame yourself for what he is doing, just move on without him and become a happier person, and you will find somebody who will treat you right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

YOU ARE STILL WITH HIM!!!???? He is your boyfriend of 3 years and he has cheated on you, why are you still with him. I would of kicked him to the gutter where he belongs. Sorry but that is not love, he cannot care for you if he does things like that.

Take care

xx

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