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28 May 2009: why wait? thats what everyone is asking. in this world virgins have become an endangered species and are fast becoming extinct. waiting for marriage is now outdated. i wonder why. in the begining sex was a celebration of love between two people who ...
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I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?
Q. Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...
A. 16 February 2009: you are still too young and clearly not ready for sex. you need to mature and be in a mature healthy relationship. i think you should wait till you get married (less complications). i'm waiting and i'm glad i made that decision. dont rush cause all ... (read in full...)
He's always busy! Should I end the relationship?
Q. l am thinking of ending my relationship with my b\f of 6weeks but need advice because l don't want to regret it later. am thinking of calling it quits because he is always busy and doesn't have time for me. we work at the same company but at times...
A. 12 February 2009: i dont think it would be fair on both of u if u jus ended things. i'm assuming that you knew about the nature of his job be4 u hooked up. if thats the case then you need to reach a compromise. talk to him about it and ask him to make time for you at ... (read in full...)
How can I not fall for him?
Q. Hi! I guess I get easily emotionally attached to people because I kissed a player type guy at a party and now he is all I think about. While we were kissing, he kept touching my boobs and put my hand down his pants. I knew that I really shouldnt ...
A. 11 February 2009: frankly speaking you can do without such a person in your life. all he wanted was a one night stand and if you hook up with him thats all it can ever amount to. from what i gather you want more so look elsewhere coz you definately arent going to get ... (read in full...)
Fooled around with a married man what do I do?
Q. There's this really cute guy at my work that we flirt with each other a lot. Anyway we made out and did others things at his place. To a very long story short I found out hes married and of course he didn't tell me and I completely regart it. Does ...
A. 11 February 2009: u arent a slut coz u didnt know he was married. but now u know its up to u to do the right thing. if he wants to destroy his marriage- thats his choice just dont help him. make it crystal clear you dont want him and stay away. you'll get a man who ... (read in full...)
Terrified to ask her out in case she says no and it ruins our friendship.
Q. I have a few questions... I have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. We have alot in common and I have the sense that she likes me too. She is always giving me random hugs and whatnot so I think it's time to ask ...
A. 10 February 2009: Man what i advise you is that you should find a time that you go out and that will be the right time to tell her whats from your heart .coz man you just doing no good or justice to your self better you know the truth whist you got time problabily ... (read in full...)
He says I'm a deep thinker and wants to see more of my personality
Q. I have a huge crush on this guy i think he might like me too but i don't know. He's rather friendly to most people (smiling, joking, etc.) so it probably isn't anything special that he's nice to me and smiles at me in the hallway...but he told me ...
A. 9 February 2009: i think he definitely likes you. my b/f and i started out in a similar scenario. he was always being friendly and trying to make conversation. he's a people person but he always paid extra attention to me. i gradually opened up to him and now we ... (read in full...)
I have a hard time getting boyfriends because I'm in a wheelchair
Q. ok, i have a hard time getting boyfriends...or even guys to like me becuz im in a wheelchair. i feel really left out alot becuz all my friends are dating. i've tried dating websites, chat rooms..i dunno what to do ne more...and my friends say they ...
A. 9 February 2009: being in awheelchair dsnt mean a thing luv. just be yourself and who knows after getting to know you someone might genuinely like you.its the person inside that matters. dont be in a rush to find love i think you should let it find you. warning- ... (read in full...)
No sex until marriage? Does anyone believe in that?
Q. do any of you guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE?? sorry i kinda messed up in that other question...I meant to say if u guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE....DO U THINK IT'S A LOAD OF BULL OR WHAT??...
A. 5 February 2009: i'm personally saving myself but that doesnt mean you should do the same. when you have sex you are giving a part of yourself to the othr person- a part that you cant ever get back so its important to know why you are doing it. if you are totally ... (read in full...)
Should I give in and have this abortion?
Q. right here goes im 21 years old im pregnant and facing one of the hardest desicions i think il ever have to make......my partner of 5 years and my 2 year old daughters dad has informed me he doesnt want another chid and wants me to have a aborti...
A. 2 February 2009: you should realy sit down and talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel. at the end of the day its you who'll have to deal with your conscience. this is a very serious issue which might leave you scarred both emotionally and ... (read in full...)
How do I impress her without looking like a dork??
Q. I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at ...
A. 27 January 2009: the best advice i can give you is be yourself coz i knw from experience that the harder u try to impress someone the more likely u are to come accross dorky. if she doesnt like you for who you realy are then she might not be the girl for you. i'm ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to wait a little longer.
Q. Hi, I'm in love with this amazing guy and we've been dating for almost 2 years now. He loves me and he wants to marry me. I also want to spend the rest of my life with him but there's one problem. I don't think he's financially stable enough yet. ...
A. 27 January 2009: thanx you guys, will try and do what you said. I'm just praying it won't be a mistake.... (read in full...)
How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??
Q. I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too......
A. 27 January 2009: hi, i used to feel just the same way at some poimt in my life. even contemplated suicide but realised that wasnt a way out. sometimes we just need to focus on the little things- lyk be glad you're alive and be thankful for the things you usualy take ... (read in full...)
How can I get men to notice me?
Q. I am in desperate help here. How can i get men to notice me... men that don't just want to get in my pants. I just got out of a relationship and i thought it was going somewhere, and then a week ago he says, "i know you love me" ((never told him ...
A. 19 January 2009: as women we all have issues with our bodies but it doesn't mean we aren't beautiful. you just need to be yuorself and if someone likes you they'll like you 4 you. meanwhile just have fun the best relationships sort of just sneak up on us when we ... (read in full...)
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