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female
age
30-35,
*uverlee
writes:I am in desperate help here. How can i get men to notice me... men that don't just want to get in my pants. I just got out of a relationship and i thought it was going somewhere, and then a week ago he says, "i know you love me" ((never told him though)) "but i feel like i'm missing something... it's not you... and i dont know what it is..." We're friends as of now ((without benefits)) and i'm really lonely... but i don't know how to get guys to notice me, and it doesn't help since i have a low self esteem, i'm shy, and i'm over-weight.. so can anyone help me?
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reader, audie  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 as women we all have issues with our bodies but it doesn't mean we aren't beautiful. you just need to be yuorself and if someone likes you they'll like you 4 you. meanwhile just have fun the best relationships sort of just sneak up on us when we arent looking.
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 well self esteem is the first thing you gotta work on, because it's confidence that men are attracted to!
Have you ever thought of doing something like taking a dance class? It's a great social skill, great exercise, and it teaches you to be confident! You could go with a girlfriend if you're nervous. Another idea might be taking a martial arts class. Again, great exercise, a huge boost to your self esteem, and an excellent male to female ratio ^_^
You really don't need to worry so much about your weight. Most women have body issues, but guys are attracted to all sorts of shapes and sizes. Try to think of your curves as sexy!
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