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writes: should i get rid of him? i think this guy is messing me around. he tells me first that he likes me and i like him too. so yesterday we get together and he tells me he wants a relationship. so i said yes and then he text me yesterday saying that he doesn't want to jump into anything to quick.which is fair enough. so we arranged to meet the next day at his place and i went round there and he wasn't in! is he messing me around or am i just over reacting? help!!!!
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reader, StarNews +, writes (8 March 2006):
 He is flakey, unstable, indecisive, and a game player. If you stop all communication with him, he will fade...the flakes always do.
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reader, ask phoebe  +, writes (7 March 2006):
 yes, totally you should get rid of him. he's just playing with you and stringing you along. You deserve someone better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006):
An added note: You are not over-reacting, dear. I get a sense you don’t want to be toyed with. No one does. Ditch him and if he comes back to you asking why? Be frank with him. He could've made the clear choice to show his maturity, dependability and respect for you... by calling and letting you know 'what had happened and why he wasn't at home' when you arrived. With all the communication and electronic wizardry (computers, e-mails, messenger, cell phone, text messaging, faxes, phonecalls etc) there simply was no 'excuse to bail out on the pre-determined date he had with you'without letting you know why. Did he call you back after the fact, to tell you "why" he wasn't there? If not-all the more reason to ditch him. He stood you up.
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reader, DreamMaster  +, writes (7 March 2006):
 I think you are over reacting (possibly on the verge of being a bit possesive)
Maybe you should have arranged a time?
You should play this very cool, he is just testing the waters, and if you are all possessive and clingy already he will run a mile,
Tell him you dont want to jump into anything too quick either, and let it build up that way,
If you DID arrange a time, then i would be a bit pissed off yes, and find out what his explanation was (maybe it was a good explanation?).
If he just went out because he couldnt be bothered seeing you then yeah, get rid of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): Yes, absolutely...get rid of him. He doesn't know what he wants...do you need this grief? Find someone who is more mature and you can depend on. Ditch him.
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