6 months later after I break up I'm still dreaming of him

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Question - (10 April 2011)

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A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So you have to know the background to this...last October so about 6 months ago this guy and I "broke up" it was a really bad one.. And I realize it was my fault. Although I keep saying I'm over him I keep dreaming of him. and when I awake from those dreams I am so tempted to reach out and contact him but I know it's a bad idea so I stop myself, and I doubt he even wants to speak. I miss him so much. I don't know what to do..help?

(p.s. I'm a 16 year old girl and he's 18 and moved away for school across the country (another reason for the breakup) even though I'm young and you may say I know nothing about love. I think I really do love this guy because not a single guy has made me forget about him.)

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A female reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (11 April 2011):

I think sending a friend requests or talking again will do no harm. But if you you will be tempted to talk again and might just hurt yourself knowing you cant have him or what not. So it may work out in a positive way or negative. Your choice. Good luck. :]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011):

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What if I added him on Facebook again? Like he deleted me back when we broke up...should I send him a friend request and see what happens???

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A female reader, Anonymous711 +, writes (10 April 2011):

Okay, its natural to miss him, if you were really supposed to be together you would make things work even with him moving and everything, it would be more exciting to see eachover. Think about it and think of the postives and negatives, why did you really break up? if it was just because he moved then try and work things out if you think there is a chance, believe in yourself !:) If there were quite a few reasons why you broke up, maybe you should leave it. If you want to see him but not know on purpose, 'accidently' bump into him. Good luck

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A female reader, Anonymous711 +, writes (10 April 2011):

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A female reader, Anonymous711 +, writes (10 April 2011):

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011):

You probably won't forget him, that doesn't mean you should get back with him, you said yourself its a bad idea. Keep listening to yourself, in time you will stop missing him.

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A female reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (10 April 2011):

I know what you mean but since there have been numerous reasons for this break up you should just forget it. Theres a guy I was with a year ago and till this day I want to contact him and still think about him. But theres nothing you can do but try and forget and move on with your life. theres going to be other guys. You just have to make the best of it. Good luck. :]

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A male reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 April 2011):

This happens, don't worry.

Since you know that trying to be with him again is a bad idea, my advice is that you don't do it.

Someone else will come who will make you want to be with him, not with the former guy.

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