I want to go down on him, but I can't for some reason
Q. i want to go down on my boyfriend for the first time but everytime i try i get nervous and chicken out. i want to do it for him because hes gone down on me beofre. is there any method or something i can use to make it easier for me. besides drinking ...
A. 23 August 2010: Don't be scared. There's really no reason to be nervous, he'll just be hella happy you're going down on him in the first place :D. He'll be too busy feeling good, he won't be judging you or thinking about anything else that may be running through ... (read in full...)
How do I fix the impossible?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. We love each other so much. But I dont really feel a connection with him anymore. This is because its impossible to have a converstation with. Just sitting around and having a ...
A. 23 August 2010: Have you asked him about whether he's reciprocating the same emotions you're feeling? That perhaps he too feels that there is a connection lost between you two? Talk to him about it, communication is key in any relationship, and tell him you don't ... (read in full...)
Heart broken and need some serious advice
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years we are both 29. This is the first serious relationship for both and he is also my first. he just broke up with me for the second time for the same reason there is a feeling missing and he cant explain ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's rare that something gets to me this much, but it literally broke my heart reading what you had written. I'm deeply sorry you have to go through this ... *hugs*.
Fact is, he may love you, of that there is no doubt. I'm sure he cares about yo... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: I agree with jmtmj. I work at a corner store, and it's my job (in my opinion) to be as nice and as sociable as possible, and to feign (although not always) interest in people's lives. Some customers get the wrong impression and think I'm coming onto ... (read in full...)
He was looking for a fling, but I can't get him off my mind
Q. Hi, Went to a conference in Hawaii and met another professional who lives in another country. We really hit it off in just 3-4 days and spent a lot of time together. I felt we connected at a deep level. Very aggressive about wanting to have sex and ...
A. 23 August 2010: As you said, he was looking for a fling, he probably thought nothing more of it. I think you should get him off your brain, take some time to heal from your divorce, and then move onto someone else ... but definitely not him. He lives in another ... (read in full...)
My baby's father left because of my mom!
Q. I need some advice. I'm a 22 year old with a 4 month old son. I recently split up with the father of 3 years (we split up 5 times within those years) but we kept trying at our relationship because the only problem we had was my family didn't like ...
A. 23 August 2010: Your mother and family might be making some unfair assumptions about him or regarding your relationship, however if he was really in it for the long haul, he'd find a way to try to make your mother see a different side of him. You have to realize ... (read in full...)
Why can't I let my ex go? should I give this new guy a shot, or do I leave both of them alone?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of a year and a half 2 months ago because we live in different countries and the distance/trust was becoming too hard to handle. We had a good relationship, but we never trusted each other because of the distance and ...
A. 23 August 2010: If you guys don’t have trust, then you don’t have a relationship. You guys are gonna be constantly driving each other up the wall wondering what the other one might’ve done, you are never gonna believe each other, and ultimately you will never be ... (read in full...)
Police wife, I am considering divorce!
Q. Police wife. I am considering divorce. His job is killing our marriage. We work opposite schedules. Did I mention we are newly weds? Only two months. I lived with him a year-and-half before married, and he was with a different department and worked ...
A. 23 August 2010:
If both of you mutually wanted to spend time together, you would do whatever it takes to work around each other’s schedules to squeeze in as much time as possible to be together, but that’s only if your each other’s (top) priority.
As for hi... (read in full...)
Should I start to wear make-up or do I just forget about it?
Q. Not sure how to word this question...basically I'm 16 and I've never worn make-up. Does that mean it's too late to start? I have no knowledge of how to apply make-up the right way. I know that if I one day decide to suddenly start wearing it, people ...
A. 23 August 2010: I only started wearing makeup when I was about 16 too. I started off with really simple things, like putting on eyeliner, nothing too elaborate like blending with eyeshadow, or anything like that. That I learned to do progressively to more at ease I ... (read in full...)
I love her and she loves me but she's dating my friend!
Q. Sooo Ive known this girl for 11 years now and ive always had a thing for her. Time went by and eventually she started dating my best friend. he treats her like crap and all i can do is watch. He recently cheated and i told her what happened. i ...
A. 11 August 2010: First off, you don't truly know a person until you're with them. She may be 'everything you've ever wanted', but you could only be enamored by the idea of her that you have in your head.
Secondly, it is her decision who she wants to be with. It... (read in full...)
I kissed another guy! Help!
Q. recentally i had a campout with some friends, earlier in the day my boyfriends cusion told me that he had feelings for me, then later that night we kissed. my boyfriend found out and we had a massive argument and broke up but then he took me back ...
A. 11 August 2010: Do you really think your boyfriend's cousin pledges more allegiance to you than to him? I wouldn't be surprised if your boyfriend had sent your cousin out to see if you would cheat on him by the sounds of it. It's a bit of a stretch as I don't know ... (read in full...)
I can't remember my childhood!
Q. Don't know where to start but ill start with I don't remember anything about my childhood.. and when I try to remember I get this bad feeling type of deal.. I know I had my far share of bad things my best friend got tooken away and my great grandma ...
A. 11 August 2010: When someone goes through something very traumatizing (especially at a young age), it can happen that they forget the entire event, or details no matter how important or minute they may be.
I find it a bit strange that no one is shedding some lig... (read in full...)
Is her preference for married men and casual attitude towards affairs a red flag?
Q. My girlfriend has been with predominantly married men in her past. All of her relationships prior to me were FWB. The guy she lost her virginity to was married, the next was single, but she did him while she was still with the first. The third was ...
A. 11 August 2010: I don't think that these are good signs at all. It scares me a bit that she goes specifically after married men, which indicates to me that perhaps she thrives on the 'accomplishment' of taking someone's man from them, which may feed some huge sense ... (read in full...)
Why do women find "bad boys" so attractive?
Q. This is a question aimed at women (however, men are just as welcome to reply) Why do girls choose the bad boys? I mean why do you pick those that treat you like shit and play/cheat on you then those that respect and are honest to you? One th...
A. 2 August 2010: I've always fallen for 'bad boys', but that's because I'm a 'bad girl' myself. But in the end, these are all just petty labels. I know this, because despite me being a 'bad girl', I'm quite possibly the nicest, most compassionate, giving and caring ... (read in full...)
Why does it seem that when a relationship is nearing the end men tend to say things that make it seem like they would die if you broke up with them?
Q. There has been some tension in my relationship with my boyfriend a, we have been disagreeing a lot lately about various things, so much so that I have considered ending the relationship. I care about him deeply, but I don’t think things will work ...
A. 27 July 2010: I myself have never contemplated suicide, threatened to commit suicide or do or say things that would imply that I was turning suicidal as a result of a relationship that was ending, so I couldn't tell you exactly ... however, I have had guys tell ... (read in full...)
Can I believe what he said while drunk?
Q. Just a quick question. Do men speak the truth when they're under the influence of alcohol? A friend of mine admitted that he liked me, but I'm not sure whether to take it seriously or not. ...
A. 27 July 2010: It's impossible to narrow it down to what he truly meant. Every individual is different, and consequently, everyone reacts differently to certain things. Some people are more likely to tell the truth when inebriated, while others will just spew out ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me?
Q. i'm in love with this boy and he claims he loves me back but he is the player type and i think he says this to any girl he trying to get with at the moment . ( he's liked me for 3 years ) but still i don't know whether to believe him or not . any ...
A. 26 July 2010: You should definitely not get involved with this boy. He will most likely use you and leave you broken just as he has every other girl he's been with. A player is a player -- they're only in this for their own benefit. He's more than likely using ... (read in full...)
Help my heart catch up with reality. Please.
Q. Wow, it's weird to call him my ex. We were together 4.5 years ( just after I turned 18) and I loved him so much. I still do. We broke up in march. 2 days after I found him in bed with someone else. " we were only kissing, no sex..." does not matter. ...
A. 26 July 2010: First off, this guy is definitely not worth your time. The fact that he was cheating on you, and then was trying to minimize the damage done by saying they were only cheating (which, even if they were only kissing doesn't change the fact that he was ... (read in full...)
Still in love with her despite my broken heart.....
Q. My girl had been talk to a guy for the pass 2years and said its just her friend. i dont mind it at all but he texts her and calls her a lot i ask iher if is something going on between them she said no. Until today she told me she has stong feelings ...
A. 26 July 2010: Man. Personally, if I was in your situation and my boyfriend had done this to me, I would kick his a s s to the moon and back! The whole 'we were both drunk' excuse is totally lame and complete BS most of the time. There is hardly any excuse for ... (read in full...)
How should I approach this man?
Q. there is this man that works in a shop i go in. whenever i go in he says hello and smiles at me and comes over to me. my friend says it is obvious he likes me. i dont really know him and we havent talked much. but one time we did, he talked a lot ...
A. 26 July 2010: Whenever you have a night off and happen to bump into him, ask him when he finishes his shift and if he has any plans. Don't make yourself out to seem too needy or anything like that. If he declines because he does actually have plans, but he's ... (read in full...)
She refused to stop seeing her ex and sending him flirty texts and "I love you"s. I'm heart broken.
Q. Hey everyone Me and girlfriend broke up after about a year of dating and i am still madly in love with her and I would give the world for and I would fight to my dying breathe to keep her safe and i feel completely heart broken to the point where I ...
A. 25 July 2010: She is being extremely selfish. She is clearly manipulating your feelings for her and has you totally wrapped around her finger. She is making you suffer and from the looks of it, she couldn't give two s h i t s about it. She is definitely still... (read in full...)
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