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Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

Q.   My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...

A.   8 August 2009: Congrats!!!!!!... (read in full...)

How do I prove to her I'm in it for the long haul?

Q.   So I've never asked a relationship question online, but here goes....I've been dating this girl for two years now. The first year we dated was great. I could not have been happier with another person. She was a very caring person and I would smile ...

A.   27 July 2009: Ask her to move in with u. Turn the tables... (read in full...)

Mixed signals as we're apart

Q.   This is long, I know - please take a moment to read it and let me know your thoughts. So, my ex and I had been together for almost 2 years and the relationship moved very quickly -- we moved in together almost immediately, work together, and ha...

A.   24 July 2009: She might feel like she's losing you. She realizes that she doesn't want anyone else to have you! It probably was too soon when yall talked. She is probably ready now. To me she sounds like it. ... (read in full...)

Mixed signals as we're apart

Q.   This is long, I know - please take a moment to read it and let me know your thoughts. So, my ex and I had been together for almost 2 years and the relationship moved very quickly -- we moved in together almost immediately, work together, and ha...

A.   23 July 2009: Well I would say the girl still likes you no doubt!! I bet the changes you made were the best thing you could have done! She probably offered you candy because she saw that you had changed. It was a simple way to open the door again! You should keep ... (read in full...)

We need a song, but haven't said "I love you" yet. Ideas?

Q.   i just resently started dating this guy and he said we need a song but i cant find one that fits lol. most songs are about love but we havent said i love you so i dont want a song like that. he hates country and rap music and prefers rock. a...

A.   22 July 2009: Colbie calliats nes song called: Fallin for you.... (read in full...)

What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?

Q.   hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...

A.   11 July 2009: Ok cosmetologist speaking!!!!! Use a brown or bronze eyeliner with a golden tint and black mascara!!!!! Good luck... (read in full...)

Condom discomfort

Q.   I've been married about 3 years and my wife and I were each other's first and we have always had natural, naked genital sex. Now she has a medical problem (nothing real serious) and has to go off birth control pills and stay away from other things ...

A.   10 July 2009: Well if condoms are the problem you could have your wife talk to her dr and the iud. Its a implant that the dr puts in your wifes vagina. It protects just like a condom or birth control and it lasts up to 5 years. Its removable if you want to have ... (read in full...)

Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?

Q.   I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...

A.   10 July 2009: Well I think that kids are experimenting younger and younger that's why there shows called 16 and pregnant. Honestly I believe that it depends on what the guy expects and girls what to please their bfs.I think that parents are oblivous to what their ... (read in full...)

He tells me "if it were to become more you would be the first to know"

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. He separated from his wife 4 months ago and he was devestated. We love each other but I am worried that this a rebound relationship for him and he still might love his wife (she left him). I also found out ...

A.   9 July 2009: I agree w/ art! He's playing the field. He wants to keep options open. Sry I've been there leave his behind he will see what he's missin! ... (read in full...)

I constantly feel the need to urinate!

Q.   I know this isnt a relationship question, but my parents are gone until tomorrow and I need some help. Today I woke up and I went to use the bathroom, after I felt alot of discomfort after that lasted about ten seconds. It almost felt like the st...

A.   8 July 2009: Sounds like a uti I've had a couple it sucks... (read in full...)

What do you think of breast implants?

Q.   Well I'm considering a boob job after I lose weight from weight loss surgery. I know I'll probably lose my breasts. I have a d cup but they sag I bet I'll be a small b cup. I want a full c and them to be lifted! I want to know the stories from the ...

A.   5 July 2009: Well maybe I'm really asking about a lift then. I mean if I don't lose them I know I definitely want them lifted. I love my breast and totally fine with them except that I'm 20 and they sag badly!!!! I feel like if you just saw them you'd assume ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with my vagina?

Q.   This is kind of gross but... I noticed the other day that my vagina was a little sore. When I checked it out to see what was up, I noticed these bumps that looked like pimples ready to pop, because they had holes with pus coming out. So I squeezed...

A.   5 July 2009: They could be heat bumps... (read in full...)

Do I have to like oral sex to be lesbian?

Q.   I've looked but never seen this question before. I am a straight woman, but I fantasize about women's breasts, hugging and kissing. But anything below the waist doesn't seem too appealing, especially oral sex. I just can't do that. So how can I ...

A.   5 July 2009: You might even wish that you looked like what woman. Your jealous of her body. Could be!!!... (read in full...)

Do you think my boobs are tiny compared to my body?

Q.   Im 16 years old and Im going to admit it im down right fat. I weigh just a little over 200 lbs, and I feel like I have the smallest boobs on earth for a fat chick, I wear a C40 what do you think?...

A.   3 July 2009: Average size is a 38c. Your fine... (read in full...)

Any baby name ideas that go well with Gerrard?

Q.   Hey everyone, I know you lot are a clever bunch so thinking you could help us out here :) i've been thinking of baby names, and would like to use my late grandfathers name as a middle name, which is Gerrard, but I want it to go with manson, which'll ...

A.   2 July 2009: I like micheal gerrad or gerrad micheal!!!!... (read in full...)

Plucking your eyebrows.... what should I do?

Q.   I need to know what other girls do when you pluck your eye brows... i just sort of 'clean them up' i guess. just plucking the ones around the edge and the next day they look really messy again. should this happen or do i have very fast gr...

A.   1 July 2009: I'm a licensed cosmetologist! I can tell you from what you've posted that you probably wanna follow the three step rule! I would take a darker shade of eyeliner and draw on the shape you want. Do both brows. Make sure you like them. Take a eye ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be with a married career military father?

Q.   Hey all. My question is a career military man with a young daughter a horrible idea? Ok here's the scenerior.... Let's call him brian. Well brian and I met on myspace and became friends he lives an hour away. We've known each other for about a year ...

A.   28 June 2009: He's army it would be a year but last time he deployed he went to georgia the country and got sent home because they were in too grave of danger... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be with a married career military father?

Q.   Hey all. My question is a career military man with a young daughter a horrible idea? Ok here's the scenerior.... Let's call him brian. Well brian and I met on myspace and became friends he lives an hour away. We've known each other for about a year ...

A.   28 June 2009: Even if there not living together and seperated. I mean he came clean about it. I know he hates his wife she cheated on him and had a kid from the other man and convinced brian its his. She's really screw with him and he said I'd rather burn in hell ... (read in full...)

I found an email written by my husband to his ex saying he wanted her bad!

Q.   Couple of months ago I went online to pay my phone bill and I saw that me husband used like 230 text messages, I was wondering whom he is texting to, as he is not a big texter and it was to a same number. He was texting every single day and actually ...

A.   27 June 2009: With today's technology there's so many things you can do to spy without him knowing! I'd tell him and it better stop. But I'd also get a keystroker (which records what is typed and will save it for you!) Also I would get monitors or cameras for the ... (read in full...)

I'm a great guy! Why cant I find love?

Q.   Hi I am a athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone els...

A.   27 June 2009: Wow odd answers but I'll tell you high school life is so hard. And I will tell you most of the people that are your friends won't be after high school. Thoughout collage you'll have so many opportunities with girls and relationships so don't worry ... (read in full...)

Dating for a year, but find her less attractive?

Q.   Dear People I've been dating a woman for 1 year. I love her very much, and I find her extremely attractive. But recently I feel less sexually motivated and I can't determine why. Its like, I don't feel like it, or when we do it, I feel li...

A.   25 June 2009: What about a reconnecting for the weekend with a sex/romantic vacation! No TV or cell phones! Reconnect with each other do a dinner and talk and really relax and de stress! Just an option!!! Hope it helps!... (read in full...)

Why is dating so hard when you're a plus size woman?

Q.   Well I hope someone can relate! Ok I'm a plus size woman. I'm 5 ft 7 inches tall and weight around 290. I'm on the plan with my dr to lose weight before I have weight loss surgery.I'm having the lapband done at the end of the year. I've found dating ...

A.   21 June 2009: Thank you everyone. I know that I'm doing the surgery for me and my health to one day have a child and to make working easier. I know I'll be a knock out (thanks your friend) its hard just going day to day when you know your something special. ... (read in full...)

Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

Q.   My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...

A.   21 June 2009: No honestly I think that's sweet. You were thinking of her. You should send them with a note saying:"I bought these earlier before any of this happened. I wanted to still give them to you! Have fun with them and I'd love to go with you if your up to ... (read in full...)

I just feel like there is someone else out there for me

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. we recently got "engaged" on christmas eve of last year. i'm gonne start off by saying we're both not perfect in anyway shape or form. when we first got together she instantly told me about ...

A.   19 June 2009: Well maybe you need to tell her listen we fight way too much! I love you but as a friend I think I might have gotten that mixed up and maybe we shouldn't be together anymore. That's the vibe I'm getting and that's the way I'd handle it...... ... (read in full...)

Tell her I love her and she should leave him? Or wait 10 years?

Q.   I have an ex who is also my best friend, its been this way for three years now. I have seen her boyfriends come and go, given her advice on which one's were losers and which one's might be good for her-little did she know that all that time, I ...

A.   19 June 2009: Tell her!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

I hate having sex. I would be happy if I wasn't touched at all!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 3 years and before that were together for 5 years. I hate having sex. Sex to me is painful, a waste of time, and unfulfilling. Basically the only reason I do it lately is to make my husband happy (and we don't ...

A.   19 June 2009: You could try to get on the pill it would boost your estrogen which might get you a little more excited about sex! ... (read in full...)

How can our marriage be saved now that I've found out about his mistress?

Q.   Hello I am in my early 40s. One year ago, my husband told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he had been unhappy in our marriage for the last year. He said I didnt support him or love him they way he wanted. I was in total shock - I knew w...

A.   19 June 2009: Well one thing I always think of is if she has stolen a man away from a woman she'll do it again with another guy! 99.5% SURE OF IT! I know that doesn't help but one day he will feel the way you are feeling. You need to be a strong woman and except ... (read in full...)

My wife sends 60 texts a day to this old friend...isn't that a bit much??

Q.   I know there are other answers of similar variety, but I want to include my details to see what others may think. First off, my wife had a crush on this guy when she was in high school. I guess she tried to be with him, but he gave her the "I only ...

A.   19 June 2009: Hey there thanks for doing such great work for our country!!! Ok one odd thing that hits me why does she only have one friend! With all that time spent on her "friend" now why doesn't she spend that time looking for new friends! Personally I think ... (read in full...)

Any advice on sex toys...

Q.   hey guys, i posted a question about learning to 'squirt' for my fella, and a fair few answers came up with try on my own first, which im more than willing to give a go although i can orgasm by myself it takes AGGGGES and i can sometimes get...

A.   18 June 2009: If you wanna get something he might wanna use it could be a cock ring its a rubber or silicone ring that you place at the bottom of the shaft. There are many kinds with clit stimulators and ones with ball stimulation as well as clit. They usually ... (read in full...)

Tips for the best way to be on top?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to be on top when we have sex but i don't know how i go about doing this. do any of you have any tips to help me? ...

A.   18 June 2009: Well I assume that your not a virgin so this will be a little more advanced lol! Try facing him and lean back and grab his ankles for some support move yourself in figure 8s as he rubs your clit. Its very erotic to have him see himself inside you ... (read in full...)

Is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?

Q.   my boyfriend has asked me to have a threesome and im fine with it cos ill try anything once but he wants me to ask one of my friends and im not really confortable with the idea of it being a friend so i was wondering is there any way of finding a ...

A.   17 June 2009: Try adultspace.com... (read in full...)

Is it all about the sex no matter what the circumstances?

Q.   So, I really should know better but I need impartial advice. I met a 31 year old guy May 30th in a bar, through mutual friends. We chatted and he asked me out on a date, later during that night we kissed and returned to his house for more kissing. ...

A.   17 June 2009: That was a hit it and quit it most likely!... (read in full...)

My father is the father of my baby... I'm falling into depression... help!

Q.   i dont really know how to put this, most of you will probably be utterly digusted, and wont even be able to find the right words.. but i really need some advice. about a month ago, my mom was out of town for a business trip. i am a only child ...

A.   15 June 2009: Wow sweetie I'm so thankful that you have turned here!!! First things first... You need to realize that you didn't want to have sex with your dad! I would weigh your options at plan parenthood! You need to find the risks of deformities that would be ... (read in full...)

How can I get over my erection phobia?

Q.   This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her ...

A.   10 June 2009: She probably didn't know what you were going to do when you wanted to give her oral or she might have been nervous! Just relax!!!! ... (read in full...)

Known him a long time, drove to see him, great time, now back home, he does not initate contact, what are your thoughts?

Q.   I've known this guy since middle school (We are in our early twenties now) but we had only kept in contact through facebook. We decided to meet up and after a few failed attempts (once my fault, once his) I drove to see him. It was really casual, ...

A.   10 June 2009: I'm kinda in your same situtation so this the advice I can give!!! The rule in the situtation is if he isn't calling he isn't interested in dating you or he would have already!!! Don't ask someone and see if there's an exception and hope that it ... (read in full...)

My career?

Q.   in college, i would like to major in art. when i'm older, i would like to work at disney world and design the scenery around the rides, (not architecture, like paint it or flowers) or make and paint the signs for the rides..and put like make up on ...

A.   10 June 2009: For makeup things you need a cosmetology license!!! ... (read in full...)

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