I get depressed about my "small" boobs...
Q. im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...
A. 16 June 2008: I don't know much about female growth spurts.
But for what it's worth breast size really doesn't matter that much to guys, not to guys who are looking for anything more than a hookup, and even then they'd have to be shallow.
I even have one fr... (read in full...)
What's an overly clingy girlfriend?
Q. how do u define a clingy gf? i was simply telling my bf how much he meant to me and saying things like your the only person that will ever mean anything to me, ur the last thing i think of when i go to sleep and who i think of when i wake up and he...
A. 16 June 2008: Amount of time into the relationship is the main thing.
If you said that after a month or something I'd feel a bit creeped out, but if you guys have been going out for a long time, he shouldn't hav gotten creeped out at all.
Also, he coul... (read in full...)
I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!
Q. I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...
A. 11 April 2008: Well there's no way to handle it without disappointing him.
He's being totally unrealistic and should expect disappointment.
If he's saying he loves you already, after only a week, and is expecting you to say you love him back, maybe it's not a... (read in full...)
I'm 14, my girlfriend is 15 and pregnant, we need some advice please.
Q. Hi i'm 14 and my girlfreind (15) is pregnant. We havn't told our parents because we're worried about how they will react. We don't know what we should do but we are definitely keeping the baby. Help us, what should we do?????...
A. 7 April 2008: Tell your parents, do it together, that'll show you're being mature about it.
There's no point in hiding it from your folks, soon enough they'll notice.... (read in full...)
I'm concerned at what my fiancee may get up to at his bachelor party?
Q. My boyfriend and I are getting married, and last night the bachelor/bachelorette party topic came up... I don't want a male stripper, because I don't find them exciting, actually, they gross me out a little bit. On the other hand I'm sure he woul...
A. 6 April 2008: That's cheating for sure.
I don't think the stripper is a big deal, but if she makes him orgasm that's taking it too far.
You should just talk him into having a stripper dance around with no physical contact.... (read in full...)
What would my sexuality be considered as?
Q. I am male and married. However when I was 15 years old I had a "relationship" with another 15 year old boy for about 6 months. We did mutual masturbation, oral and some anal sex. As far as I know, no one knows about our "relationship". I enjoyed it, ...
A. 2 April 2008: Well, if you stopped having feelings when the relationship ended I think you'd be classed as bi-curious.
But if the idea of it all still turns you on then I think that makes you bisexual.... (read in full...)
He made me "do it" and I wasn't ready...
Q. dear cupids. I've got a real problem! I'm in a bad situation but I feel like I've caused it myself :S I have been *seeing* this guy, (a friend of my brother) who is aged 18, for 9 months, I am 15, 16 in May, and he is my *first love*, he's ...
A. 2 April 2008: This will sound rough, he's in the relationship for sex and nothing else.
I'm not a virgin, but if I was dating a virgin, I wouldn't get such an urge to have sex that I'd drag her into a public washroom and take her virginity.
Your boyfrien... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage?
Q. Sex before marrige? ...
A. 2 April 2008: If you're Christian and stand by your beliefs after marriage.
Personally I'm not Christian, I lost mine at 17, don't regret it. In my opinion it's better to go before marriage.
I don't buy into that whole "virginity is a gift" junk, you don't ... (read in full...)
I want sex without putting in the work like listening, talking, etc.....what do you think?
Q. I'm 21 years old, single and I know a couple of girls I could be dating right now. The thing is, I'm only looking for sex at this point of my life :D I'm not interested in spending time listening to her, hanging out, etc. All I want to do with ...
A. 1 April 2008: Lusty middle aged women, or a hooker, or a party and seek out a girl who's looking for a piece of fun. Any of those will do. [Moderator's note: The risks of diseases increase in such circumstances! Much care!] ... (read in full...)
I want more than this friend with benefits, should I break it up?
Q. K so, I'm with a girl atm, well, we arn't dating or anything, we're more like friends with benefits. Anyways, we talk for a couple hours a day on the phone, we get along great, and I was planning on asking her out, but as it turns out she's got ...
A. 28 March 2008: I don't think I'm going to talk it it out, I'm not too sure.
The last two days now she's lied to me about what she's been doing, yesterday she said she slept all night, when her name on msn said she had gone out with some guy.
Tonight she t... (read in full...)
I want more than this friend with benefits, should I break it up?
Q. K so, I'm with a girl atm, well, we arn't dating or anything, we're more like friends with benefits. Anyways, we talk for a couple hours a day on the phone, we get along great, and I was planning on asking her out, but as it turns out she's got ...
A. 28 March 2008: Sounds like good enough advice to me.
Almost like weening yourself off cigarettes by cutting down on them, that's a terrible analogy. But I think I'll do just that.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!
Q. I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that ...
A. 28 March 2008: I doubt he'd dump you, even shallow guys don't make that big a deal over breast size.
And if he does, think of it this way, any guy who would dump you because your breasts arn't big enough isn't worth having around anyways.... (read in full...)
I want him to chase me
Q. "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I ...
A. 20 March 2008: I've never wanted to "chase" after a girl, I'd be much happier if she came to me.
But ust give him hints, and he will follow. ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit disturbed about some clips I've seen in my boyfriend's computer...
Q. I'm a bit disturbed about some clips I've seen in my boyfriend's computer. The setting is in the shower after a seven a side tag rugby match between men and adolescent boys and women, they're all taking a shower together but wearing underpants and ...
A. 19 March 2008: The boys being there is a bit strange, it sounds like you've stumbled upon a porn video on his computer.
If there's children involved in the tape you need to question him, he could have problems, but if it's just a run of the mill porn you happ... (read in full...)
No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...
A. 19 March 2008: Simple, he started smoking around the same time he started getting stressed out right?
The stress is probably causing his mood swings, marijuana cannot cause aggresive behaviour. If he's yelling at you that's purely stress, and if he gets mad when... (read in full...)
Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!
Q. Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??...
A. 19 March 2008: Mizz is right, sex is sex, even with a condom you can still get pregnant, but if you do decide to make a really bad choice and have sex at 12 make sure you use protection.... (read in full...)
He has genital warts! Should I be suspicious? He said it was from the girl before me....
Q. Hi Im absolutely devasted im 30 years of age and had been your typical "Briget Jones" for three years, then a year and a half ago I met my perfect boyfriend a true gentleman not like the usual bad boys I would date.A very shy gentle man. I really r...
A. 19 March 2008: If he wants actions not words, maybe he feels you're disgusted by him because of the warts.
He might be expecting you to show him how much you love him, but with warts around that's probably not a good idea.
But you really should get mad a... (read in full...)
I want to try alcohol! Will I become an alcoholic?
Q. I've never really drank alcohol before, but for some reason now I want to try it. In the past, I've only had a few sips. I never want to become an alcoholic, so I'm put off drinking it incase I like it a bit too much! Am I being stupid? How to you ...
A. 17 March 2008: I've been drinking a few times a week since I was 14, I'm 17 now, never got addicted.
It is very fun though, so if you do it after a while your weekends might start to feel incomplete without it. But personally I don't get cravings for it, I ne... (read in full...)
He lies about porn, can I trust him?
Q. I am currently with my bf of 6 months, we're living together already and although 6 months may not seem that long, it's like we've known each other for years. He was my first everything really and have given up allot to be with him properly. I am ...
A. 17 March 2008: He's lying because he doesn't want you to feel ugly, it may not make sense to you, but being a guy I may do the same thing for that very reason.
The way he sees it is if he admits he watches porn you'll get offended and think he'd rather look at ... (read in full...)
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