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Oceanic815
writes:"Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I dont want to scare him off. Please tell me all that you know about attracting a specific man that youre interested in. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Be highly visual to him and get inside his world.
Be involved with what he is doing , his activities or his hobbies.
Try talking to him more often.
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 In my experience, the best thing to do is make friends with him, let him get to know you as part of a circle of friends and make him feel close to you by asking his opinion and advice about stuff... like school assignements, for instance! Listen to him when he speaks to you and don't flirt in an obvious way, but let your body language be open and sexy.
Say, if you're listening, look like you're taking it in, don't force yourself to look him in the eyes, but face him with your body and mirror his position, occasionally stroke your lips while looking at him speaking mouth and make sure your neck and collar bones are exposed.
But whatever you do, don't be obvious!
Basically, you want him to notice you and get him thinking.
If you can tell he's beginning to like you, but is too shy, then just ask him out alone and start to flirt openly.
If he's really not getting the message, heck, just tell him you like him!!
Not every man likes to chase and to be honest, they often think they're in charge, even when you're doing all the work!
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Depends on the man, whether they want to be chased ot not, and it depends on what level you perform your chase.
A quite man will appreciate a mature chase. Chase here means you take the first step, like call him, talk to him and invite him for coffee, your treat.
A wild man who is chased will probably just strip your clothes off and have you for supper, whether or not that was your intention.
I'm a quite man, and I prefer a woman acknowledgeing she likes me enough to say so.
A non-quite man doesn't care, if he wants it, whether sex or the prize, will do the chasing.
To go into detail of the different types of personalities is the same for women: impossible.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Dont play games, as only some men like the chase, while others hate it.
Just be forward and ask him out
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reader, agtorange +, writes (20 March 2008):
 I've never wanted to "chase" after a girl, I'd be much happier if she came to me.
But ust give him hints, and he will follow.
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