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Period comes twice a month.
Q. I have my period twice a month, what should i do? ...
A. 1 March 2010: You're only 16/17, leave it for a little to see if it settles naturally, jumping straight for hormones is not good advice. Its true, the hormones in the pill COULD balance you out, it could also make them heavier, more frequent, neverending or make ... (read in full...)
Is it true partners who hurt you are who you really want?
Q. Is it true even if someone hurt you a lot in a previous relationship and you put a lot of your time and your energy into it and than it ends. So both of you start dating again or maybe only one of you does but is it true that you miss this person...
A. 9 February 2010: No, its not true.
The people who love you would nevet try to hurt you. Emotionally or physcially.... (read in full...)
He only says nice things to me when he's smoking weed...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me ...
A. 9 February 2010: He smokes weed, bad boyfirend choice.... (read in full...)
Preventing pregnancy
Q. Am I right that it's possible to get pregnant without penetration? What should I look out for to prevent these little accidents? What time about during the menstuation cycle is it least likely to get pregnant?...
A. 9 February 2010: They're not bionic, even if you ejaculate straight into her, its not a 100% chance of pregnancy. People do get pregnant from foreplay however because of precum getting where it shouldnt.
Just be careful.
There is no specific answer... (read in full...)
To cuddle... or to be cuddled?
Q. just a general questions.... Guys! I know this is gonna sound stupid but honestly do guys prefer to be cuddled or to cuddle the girl? I'm just wondering as many people say it's all a guy could dream of is to hold the one he loves but im just ...
A. 9 February 2010: We're supposed to be the big spoon and hold the girl when we can. But it's nice to be the little spoon sometimes, it gives us a sense of belonging and shows the love isn;t one-sided.... (read in full...)
Help! How can I gain her trust?
Q. i love this girl so much she means the world to me... but she doesnt trust me... how can i gain her trust?...
A. 9 February 2010: Display your reliability by being her friend and being there for her when the need arises.... (read in full...)
Parents wouldn't approve of my young relationship, how do I keep it from them?
Q. [Mod Note: Stated age incorrect, OP is 13 years old] Ok so I liked this girl and she asked me out at a party and I said yes. We're now going out and I am really happy. The one problem, were 13, and if my parents find out, I will get in a lot of t...
A. 23 December 2009: I don't see why your parents would get angry, unless they dont trust you with girls?
I had a GF when i was 11, my parents thought it was great, admittedly i had no idea what sex was...
You can "go out" with her as much as you want but your parents ... (read in full...)
I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?
Q. Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ...
A. 23 December 2009: Yeah sure :) just dont open any links anyone sends you of "porn". Oh god, my life will never be the same again o.o... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me 8 times. Will he grow out of it?
Q. My boyfriend is extremely attractive, like the hottest boy I have ever laid eyes on in my life. He's got the tightest body made of solid muscle and the cutest face and he is sooooooooo much the best sex I have ever had a million times over. The only ...
A. 3 December 2009: I didnt bother to read the post, the title says it all.
The answer is no.... (read in full...)
I just wanted to be in someone's arms...
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for a little more then a year, I adore her, i love everything about her. problem is that we are in a long distance relationship, so we have such trust issues and miss each other dearly. so we were broken up, she s...
A. 2 December 2009: Go with the guy, you cheated, sometimes its the natural course of things, dont feelbad, just move on.... (read in full...)
Help me to write this love letter...
Q. hi, i need a little help.. my boyfriend is going away overseas on a business trip. i would like to write him a love letter before he goes letting him know how much i love him and miss him already. i know kind of old school... im not exactly sure ...
A. 2 December 2009: Having others help you write a heartfelt letter isn't going to work. If it doesn't come from you its not a love letter. Just say how you feel, its all you can do.... (read in full...)
How can I break this smoking habit once and for all?
Q. This may seem pathetic but its true. Simply put I'm an old kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with I seem to make everything worse for myself and because I can't deal with it I smoke. It started out at smoking with my friends ...
A. 2 December 2009: You could just think abut the actualscience beside smoking, thats the main reason I don't smoke.
There are no relaxants in ciggarettes, not a single one. The whole "take one because im stressed" thing is purely psychological, a placebo effect kind... (read in full...)
If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?
Q. Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot ...
A. 21 November 2009: Its a selfish way to think. Children brought up in single parent families lack a male role model which can sometimes lead to problems in the childs future. Also, it can influence the childs sexuality.... (read in full...)
I've been an emotional zombie ever since my fiance passed away.
Q. 3 years ago during the summer of 2006 I met my fiance at a family get together she was friends with one of my sisters and we hit it of great. We got engaged in Spetember 2008. we got in to a car accident coming home froma news years eve party 2008 ...
A. 27 October 2009: you need more time to recover, the heart heals slowly. Don't feel pressured into dating again, just give yourself time. When you're ready you'll know. ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to talk dirty to my partner!
Q. Hi All I need help, my man wants me to talk dirty to him in the bedroom but i dont really know what to say? Can all you guys and gals out there who love talking dirty give me some tips plz? Or is there a website, book or something i can...
A. 25 October 2009: Not trying to sound crude, but you could just watch some porn xD guys dig that kind of thing.... (read in full...)
My BF really scares me because he can be sweet, and then extremely abusive.
Q. [Note from Mod: Two questions from same poster] I have run out of options. I feel so run down. I am dead inside and so confused. My boyfriend will curse at me...accuse me of infidelity...throw things at me...spit on me...call me derogatory ...
A. 25 October 2009: Get out of their :)... (read in full...)
I don't know how to snog, so I keep making up excuses for not snogging!
Q. im 13 and yes i dont know how to snog, but theres this boy in my class who likes me and i like him an he always goes in to snog me but i have to make up excuses for not snogging him and its getting frustrating. Any advice? x...
A. 25 October 2009: a snog is england lingo for what is essentially french kissing, for those who dont know .
So anyway miss anony mouse, you can only learn by practicing, but i can give you a few pointers to help out :)
You want to place your lips above and under hi... (read in full...)
I hate my new stepmom!
Q. my dad re-married in august 2008. i hate my new stepmum. she is mean to me and everything! i tell my dad but he says that i'll just have to get used to her. but she is always talking about my weight and she thinks that i just want to have sex with a ...
A. 24 October 2009: Some people are just inherently nasty. It sounds like she feels she has to compete with you for your fathers attention and is being mean to you to try and make you want to leave home as soon as possible. She just wants your father to herself,... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and online friends with a 40 year old
Q. i recently became online ''friends'' with a man and i think everything heads in the wrong direction.i met him through an online game.he told me he needs someone to explain him the game,so i agreed to help him and added him in the buddy list,as he ...
A. 24 October 2009: Yeah the guy sounds like a total creep, break contact with him, add him to your enemies list and all that game stuff. Delete and block his messenger address. stop talking to this man. i do feel the need to say however that i also play online game... (read in full...)
Is it shallow for me to pursue women with small breasts?
Q. I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self ...
A. 24 October 2009: remember, anything bigger than a handful is a waste. Youre not being selfish, its what you go for, so go for it.... (read in full...)
What did I do to deserve all this pain and suffering? I don't know how to move on and start over.
Q. About a year a go i had to break up with my boyfriend because he treated me wrong. I'm 15 and we were together for 2 years. He was 16 when we first got together. For the first year it went perfect, We spent his birthday, My birthday and chr...
A. 23 October 2009: This is definitely a very sad story. But there is always hope :)
Nobody deserves anything like this, least of all someone like you.
Have you tried taking a short holiday? Being somewhere completely new where nothing will trigger the bad memories... (read in full...)
Why I Can't Get Over My Ex-Girlfriend?
Q. I am really struggling to get over my Ex-Girlfriend’s memories . Every night, I am having a dream about her, seeing her not happy in her life. I know I got her hurt with my over-possessiveness. But over the past few weeks, I have critical...
A. 23 October 2009: IF your ex is getting on with her life, and dumped you for good reason, and you can see what that reason is, you should learn from this experience and try to move on. You might need to try and embrace the feelings of another woman before the thou... (read in full...)
As a younger guy how can I get older women to enjoy sex?
Q. These question relate to older women. How do you as a younger guy make an older women feel good about herself? How to bring up sexual interest with an older women? How to make her feel good about her body? How to encourage her to ta...
A. 23 October 2009: Please, define "older".... (read in full...)
We never go out anywhere! I don't know what to do anymore.
Q. i love my boyfriend to bits, but im having trouble believing he has "real" feeling for me, we spend everyday in his house, watching t.v or having sex, what kind of a relationship is that? i even had to ask him to take me out for our years anaversa...
A. 23 October 2009: If he has enough money he should take you places. Your 1 year is traditionally a big deal and he definitely shouldve took you somewhere. If he has money problems he might not have a choice, if not, hes just being lazy. Try and do cute indoorsy... (read in full...)
Please help me, I don't know if this is the end between us!
Q. i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into things he asked to take a step back n things were going well but for the past month ive ...
A. 23 October 2009: You really should give your age when you ask for advice as everything is different depending on what stage of your life you are in. You sound like a teenager, so i'd say dont worry about it too much, if its meant to be, you wont break up. If not, ... (read in full...)
18 year old girl unsure about her sexuality
Q. (I'm an 18 year old girl) For the past few years I've been unsure about my sexuality. I find certain guys (usually gay guys or metrosexuals) goodlooking, but I'm too scared to have sex or get into a relationship. I always blow them off..I was in ...
A. 14 October 2009: It sounds like you havnt been shown the wonders of a good relationship yet. You shouldnt be afraid of them, its great to love but its even better to be loved back. Put your neck out there and give it a try, start off with hetrosexual i think th... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this messed up relationship?
Q. im not sure what to do every time i try to distance myself from this boy and get over him somehow we end up messing with each other again. i want 2 leave him alone but somehow i feel like i cant. i dont want to be in a messed up relationship but ...
A. 14 October 2009: Lexie is right :) He's messing you around and you dont want that, try and find a replacement man and see how that goes. Remember, youre still young! kthxbai ^^... (read in full...)
Did my text ruin our chance to renew our relationship?
Q. Sorry that it is a little long, anyway i dated this guy for a few months he lost his job and i helped him out but after a while i could not take it anymore he just started asking me for money over and over again i felt like his mother, but i still ...
A. 14 October 2009: Men don't lose their phones. They're like our children. I think he's lying, dont trust him kthxbai ^^/... (read in full...)
Going further making out?
Q. Girlfriend might come over to my house Saturday. I would like some advice on how to take it a little further without possibly scaring her. We've been together for about 11 months and have done nothing sexual at all. Ohhh, and by taking it further i ...
A. 14 October 2009: So you've been "making out" with her which i assume to be french kissing, tongues and the like? just carress her body while you kiss, squeeze her bum and if she doesnt flinch, keep doing it :) Maybe move on to a breast if youre feeling lucky, p... (read in full...)
Will she give me another chance?
Q. hi everyone and thanks agin for the help. ok i finally got to talk to my ex after 13 days away from her.mind you i did most of the talking. i did alot of thinking during my time without her.i figured my faults out and what i was doing wrong in the ...
A. 14 October 2009: Oh god o.o block text, i can even begin to read that.... (read in full...)
I'm 17..any suggestions on how to have phone sex with my gf?
Q. Hello everyone i need some help. My long distance girlfriend of 6 months wants to have phone sex with me but the problem is i have no idea what to say while doing it, i don't wanna look like a complete moron while doing it. Like she asks me how bad ...
A. 14 October 2009: Metaphors are always good, like "i want you more than a fat kid wants cake" or words to that effect, When "talking sexy" try to focus on one sense at a time, like "...and you feel me run my hand down along your spine and pull you intowards me, our ... (read in full...)
I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?
Q. hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont ...
A. 14 October 2009: I'd love to know WHY you dont enjoy sex, i think that would class as very useful info. If you dont enjoy it for physical reasons mention it to your lover and you can try and work it out. If for some reason its an emotional problem, try to talk the ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend ignoring me when we hang out with friends?
Q. I REALLY need your help on this. Ok so the thing is that whenever my GF and some of our friends hang out i feel totally ignored by her. It's happened a couple of times already. So we're just hanging out and then I'm just sitting alone or something ...
A. 14 October 2009: She probably only said that because its the easiest answer to give. Try what she suggested and if there is no positive result, i vote bail out.... (read in full...)
After 2 negative pregnancy tests could I still be pregnant?
Q. Alright so on August 15th, I had unprotected sex, we didnt use the pull out method nor did he ejaculate in me (that either one of us are aware of), I had just come off my period at the time. I am now almost a month late on my period (it will be a ...
A. 14 October 2009: People, people! Dont scare the poor girl, its more than 90% likely that its JUST STRESS, all you people screaming at her about doctors is only making it worse, she has said she is scared of doctors and to me thats almost proof that it is stress ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 14 October 2009: Hey, im a guy. ^^ You have 2 possible types of man here Man 1 - Kind caring and so totally in to you - you want this man - now Man 2 - Will have sex with anything - thats anything - it doesnt even need a vagina I hope you have man 1 :) GL kthxb... (read in full...)
I keep experiencing a strange pain in my vagina. Could it be something serious?
Q. recently i have been experiencing a strange pain in my vagina...i wouldnt exactly call it a pain because it doesnt actually hurt..it's like a strange twinge feeling that lasts about 2 seconds. it doesnt happen very often..its probably only happened ...
A. 14 October 2009: Go to your GP. NOt to worry you or anything but it could be deadly serious Seriously, get it checked out.... (read in full...)
Vaginal flatulence - Help!
Q. The title says it all really. It seems that every time my boyfriend and I make love, that I have this problem. He does notice, laughs a little, and we carry on as we were, but it's a serious mood killer for me. Do I feel attractive when ...
A. 14 October 2009: It only happens because theres air trapped inside of you. Its usually the guys fault for going in at a bad angle. Try the missionary position as opposed to anything else and see if you still have this problem. If you do it could be either because y... (read in full...)
I think my parents have started to smoke but they've always told me that they quit in their youth! What do I do?
Q. I'm in a weird situation at the moment and I'd really appreciate some advice on what I should do! I'll try to go through this in a logical order. Here goes... I think one or both of my parents have started smoking. I think this because: ...
A. 14 October 2009: My mother used to smoke, but she quit when she fell pregnant the first time around, but, im pretty sure that she's had one or two secretly. I mentioned the funny smell of smoke in the house and she said she didnt know what i was talking about. ... (read in full...)
How do I approach the most gorgeous guy on earth?
Q. There is this really gorgeous guy at my school (university). I have been seeing him around campus and I think he is simply the most gorgeous guy that has ever walked the face of the Earth. I don't know anything about him, not even his name...but I ...
A. 10 October 2009: Just walk over and say hi, or try and find out what clubs he goes to and meet him there "by accident". Remember to flick your hair :P... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend ignoring me when we hang out with friends?
Q. I REALLY need your help on this. Ok so the thing is that whenever my GF and some of our friends hang out i feel totally ignored by her. It's happened a couple of times already. So we're just hanging out and then I'm just sitting alone or something ...
A. 10 October 2009: She's either uncomfortable showing her affection publicly, or she's not really that interested in you. Either way you need to confront her on it, there's no point in being scared of your partner because you cant be with someone who you cant talk to... (read in full...)
After 2 negative pregnancy tests could I still be pregnant?
Q. Alright so on August 15th, I had unprotected sex, we didnt use the pull out method nor did he ejaculate in me (that either one of us are aware of), I had just come off my period at the time. I am now almost a month late on my period (it will be a ...
A. 10 October 2009: You aren't pregnant, This has happened to my girlfriend before. You're so stressed out about thinking you're pregnant that you're missing your periods. Too much stress = no periods just relax and you'll come back on again.... (read in full...)
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