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Advice on Dating For Guys
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24 May 2011: I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area. Opening Conversation: Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like the...
How to build a relationship
No replies yet... 24 May 2011: Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions an...
A relationship is like building a house!!!
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28 May 2008: Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions a...
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Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?
Q. Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...
A. 29 May 2008: Now this is a very very very big subject and im not going to sit here and tell you to wait for some guy to magically appear and pass that off as advice. So here is some instruction to build your own relationships that last. Alot of girls search for ... (read in full...)
I need last minute confidence on giving him my lap dance!
Q. Hey guys help needed! I need last minute confidence on giving my lap dance. i'm planning on giving him one tomorrow night! i just know i'll feel silly, as though i'm acting sexy but he's just thinking i'm totally not sexy, or just over-doi...
A. 28 May 2008: I am the perfect person for this! Now a lap dance is all about showing him what you would be doing if you both had no cloths on. and when u dirty dance in a club you do similar. You have been blessed with a vagina, nice legs, nice bottom and breast ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling bad about the huge fight with my best friend. What should I say?
Q. Okay, so me and my best friend got into a huge fight last friday. She was making me look like an idiot in school to make herself look better around this guy that were both talk to. I got mad and told her sister who had picked up the phone that I d...
A. 28 May 2008: Well a lot of people are going to tell you that you should just sit down sort it out like adults but what are u going to say that’s going to illustrate the way she has made you feel. You have just been made to look like a fool and now your in the ... (read in full...)
Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?
Q. I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...
A. 28 May 2008: Looking back and analysing your past relationships involves you to take the birds eye perspective. Then you realise that “you don’t know what you have got until its gone” Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have w... (read in full...)
Should I ask my (female) ex back out?
Q. Hi. I'm 15, and finally accepted I was gay about 18 months ago after a lot of soul-searching. Last July I fell for one of my mates, and managed to get up the confidence to ask her out. She saif she felt the same way, and we sort of persued a secret ...
A. 28 May 2008: Don’t think about protecting friendships. Friendships is an adjective that describes the relationships status. If she splits up with her boyfriend then you want to be there to listen to her if she is upset. Support her as a friend and pick up any ... (read in full...)
First time oral tips needed!
Q. it's my first time giving oral how do i make it good for my boyfriend without making it obvious that it's my first time...any tips thanks xx...
A. 28 May 2008: You could make believe that u are the queen of blowjobs. if ya think about it. when a man is having intercourse with u the penis is being pleasured there by just going up and down slowly and quickly and round and hard and soft u get the picture. we ... (read in full...)
Is there hope for a future relationship with her, even though we're not in contact now?
Q. hi i was wondering wot anyone makes of this. i was sort of seeing a girl for the last month and for some reason i totally fell for her straight away. its so weird because im really picky and i told myself id never let myself get in2 someone ...
A. 28 May 2008: yeah there is. u have to play it tho. u need to sort ure feeling for her out first. cut of all communication slowly. adjust what u write to her. u now know that she has gon back to her ex and there is nothin u can do apart from speak to her every ... (read in full...)
I want to end my friendship with my unreliable selfish mate.
Q. hi everyone, ive got problems with my best mate. ive made my mind up im finally finishing our friendship. ive put up with her for years and now realising the same as with loser guys dont change neither do mates! i dont need/want to have her in my ...
A. 28 May 2008: i dont think she deserves the courtesy for u to even tell her u dont want her friendship. to be quite honest ud jus be giving her a taste of her own medicine by ignoring her back. and if u ignore her and she doesnt email u then job done. if she ... (read in full...)
I'm getting bored with my girlfriend...
Q. My name is Anthony, and I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. Without getting too graphic, certain area's of her body have changed since I took her virginity and we started having sex casually. I don't find her as attractive anymore ...
A. 28 May 2008: i cant work out weather u want to make ureself attracted to her again and find a way around it or u want to end it and find sum1 new. those are ure two choices. my advice to you wud be to explore those options. what will option 1 bring u. what will ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to put the past behind me and I'm scared that if I do I'll be back to square one. I need help but don't know where to turn!
Q. I'm avoiding relationships and I admit I need help. (Well at least I said it). I'm 30 now and really want to be in a loving relationship, marriage, kids the works but I feel I'm past the point of no return. I can't bring myself to go through mo...
A. 28 May 2008: very good positive reply from emilyanswers. everything u have sed there is right. what id like to add is that as im reading what u write about ure past boyfriends. u are very aware or what ure feeling and how ure past is makin u behave but u just ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my bf is meeting girls on the internet?
Q. i have been told my boyfriend is meeting girls off the internet. how do i find out if this is true?...
A. 28 May 2008: u feel upset that a guy u once thought so much about is finding intrest in other girls. and i understand u want to know if u are bieng mugged off coz im sure u dont want to be wasting ure time with a guy who doesnt realise that u can actualy be sum1 ... (read in full...)
She won't talk about sex and I'm extremely unhappy and thinking about ending the relationship.
Q. Okay so I'm almost 18 and my girlfriend is 15 we have about a 2 year 9 month age difference and we have been going out for about 10 month now. Now on to the question I feel that I'm a very sexual person and I know she's a little younger then me and ...
A. 28 May 2008: ok. uve got the advantage of knowing her thoughts. she has told u that she thinks u just want sex. u now know that this is what is stoppin her. coz it is. that the underline belief about it. now u cud leave her but she is an amazing person and if u ... (read in full...)
Guys, have you broken up with a girl, then want to get back together? Girls, am I delusional or should I find someone who is ready for commitment?
Q. Posted this earlier but no replies...really hope to get some advice here! My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy i...
A. 28 May 2008: u shud realy jus move on to sum1 else but lets try and do everything we can to win this guy back. pscologicaly, what ure aiming for is for him to feel positivly about you. what u should try is friends with benifits. only meet up for sex for a while. ... (read in full...)
What should I do to keep my relationship fresh and get his attention more?
Q. I have been a relationship for 6 months: 2 months of staying close and 3 months being far away. We have a long distance relationship because I have to work in another country for 6 months. I have 3 more months to work and then I'll be back. Norm...
A. 28 May 2008: now when i give advice i normaly concentrate on pscological reasoning but with this it jus is so aparent that sex and arousal and that type of feeling is completly neglected. alot of people are going to answer this question by sayin u have to "talk ... (read in full...)
I want him back but there's religion, third party and character differences.. help!
Q. My BF and I for 2 years always fight for petty reasons. We belong to different religions. We have huge character differences. His parents have long wanted him to severe ties with me but he risked it all for me and still pursued the relationship. We ...
A. 28 May 2008: i understand ure problem and it is very difficult to answer but if we stick to what is simple we can find a way of justifying what is write for u to do. no u obviously have 2 choices. u can convert to his religeon and he will take u back. im sure he ... (read in full...)
When people have sex is it more intercourse or oral?
Q. when people have sex do they usually practice more intercourse or oral?...
A. 28 May 2008: the goal is realy to make the female have the most pleasure. or u may jus want a shag. in that case just intercourse but if u care about the girl u might want to use more oral. there and hundred of ways u can stimulate the vagina. now there are 4 ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to stop anxiety and stress?
Q. whats best way to stop anixety and stress?...
A. 28 May 2008: hi. anxiety and stress are emotions caused by understanding beliefs and worries and thoughts. what wud be of help to u is to think carefuly about what it is that is making u stressed and anxious. maybe debt, love, work, family anything. one u have ... (read in full...)
My orgasms aren't really that great...
Q. Okay I'm having quite a big problem here. My orgasms aren't really that great, nd ive tried experimenting but it seems like they're just over so quick! its like, 5/6 seconds of a nice feeling, but then i dont even feel satisfied. Everyone else ...
A. 28 May 2008: yes u could wait until u can get real orgasms. science has proved many different ages where u experienced climaxed orgasm but which ones are true. but the average is late twenties. ure a teenager now and ure sex shud be very satisfying coz ure young ... (read in full...)
Should I say goodbye to him or take a leap of faith and tell him how I feel?
Q. Right, I have been what I think is friends with benefits (A)with someone for nearly 4 years. I really really like them. However, after getting sick of teh arrangement I went out and got myslef a really nice guy, really solid would do anything for ...
A. 28 May 2008: things change when u tell somebody how you feel about them. the way u feel about them changes and also they way feel about u changes. now this is a positive thing but humans bien natrualy curious about how the other feels might lead to paranoia and ... (read in full...)
Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!
Q. Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka....
A. 28 May 2008: What u need to do is imagine ureself steping out of ure body and watching the situation as if it were a soap or a movie. For 10-12 year olds to sit and have a mature chat about this guy and come to some sort of mutual agreement. ure still not ... (read in full...)
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