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male
age
30-35,
a-g55
writes:She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking*She giggles*She touches you*She tries to get Rapport and build comfort with you*She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so*She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)*If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second*She smiles at you*She stands nearby (proximity)*She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said*While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you*She says something to her friend and they both giggle*She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation*While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)*She asks you for your name*She asks you your age (make her guess)*She compliments you*She is playful and tries to challenge you*She's disagreeing but laughing*She's punching your arm but laughing*She uses nicknames for you*She plays with her hair while talking to you*When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours*She repeatedly touches you in any way*She asks if you have a girlfriend*She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one*When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back*She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you*She avoids mentioning her boyfriend*If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it*When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction*She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking*She introduces you to friends*She buys you a drink*She calls you a player or a heart-breaker*On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)*On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)*She returns your calls*She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with youPassive IOIs*Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays*She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods*If you move, she follows you or waits for you*She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close*She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut)The most important IOIs to look for are:*She re-initiates conversation when you stop talking*She giggles*She touches you*She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you"Enjoy!
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (5 June 2011):
Thank you so much I have wired so long to find out these clues genuinly very grateful
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reader, Lifeless13  +, writes (1 June 2011):
Ok... I thought alot of these were just girls beings girls... This list would explain why people call me oblivious.
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