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I have a problem with premature ejaculation and feel I can never have a successful relationship with someone because of it

Q.   I am 29 years old and have never been in any kind of relationship with a woman. I have very bad premature ejaculation and feel I can never have a successful relationship with someone because of it. You might say how do I know I have that problem ...

A.   27 June 2012: I had a boyfriend with this problem. I was shocked at first because hed ejaculate 3 times in 20 minutes. Honestly, it did cause problems sometimes. Sometimes I really just wanted to have fast careless sex, but instead I was always having to worry ... (read in full...)

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

Q.   so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

A.   27 June 2012: Because hes selfish & only thinking of himself. Because hes chasing cheap thrills to spice up his life. In reality, this type of thing doesnt last. Its all fun & exciting & new for a while & then he'll realise that your solid marriage was infa... (read in full...)

Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flir...

A.   27 June 2012: You should be honest. Maybe shes waiting for you to say it before she does. Its all silly games in the end, go for it, I say.... (read in full...)

He went to a strip club, I confronted him and he got mad, what do I do?

Q.   I have been dating a new guy for about 4 months now. Our relationship moved pretty fast but we were both happy about it.He is a friend of my brothers, totally opposite of any guy I ever dated. I have a little boy who will be 2 in a few months and he ...

A.   27 June 2012: He lied to you. Tell him strip clubs are your line & hes crossed it & if he insists on crossing it again its over. One warning. Apart from that, hes probably taken advantage of you by moving in after 4 months. Having sex with him for him to 'love... (read in full...)

I can't handle seeing the way women are portrayed in the media!

Q.   I cant handle the way I am so consumed with worrying about other women and the way they look. Worrying what my boyfriend thinks when he sees them, or worrying if he will notice them. This goes for women on the street, in stores, anywhere we go. I ...

A.   27 June 2012: Personally, Ive made the choice. I wont watch movies with scantily clad women in them. I showed my boyfriend the statistics on how women are portrayed in the media (check out a documentary called "MissRepresentation" if you can find it, itll really ... (read in full...)

I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things

Q.   I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He ...

A.   27 June 2012: Bottom line - thats not cool at all. Lets hope when you get married that your man isnt seeing some woman on the side. Perhaps his wife is yelling at him all the time because hes a cheating liar! How disgusting to make a mockery of marriage lik... (read in full...)

Worried that we are not intellectually compatible?

Q.   I am in a new relationship with a man who makes me laugh like nobody else, is affectionate, hard working and very patient. We are living together and planning to go away travelling together. I'm very physically attracted to him, I trust him, fee...

A.   22 June 2012: I reckon that a bit unrealistic. Which we all suffer from from time to time. My boyfriend does loads of stupid stuff. Puts the milk in the cupboard instead of the fridge. Turns the power off when we go away for the weekend & doesnt realise hes ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to say 'thank you' for everything he does for me!

Q.   My boyfriend has make so uncomfortable lately, everytime he brings me out to eat he always wants a thank you right away. he treats me like a uneducated person who doesnt know how to thank people when things are done or given to them. i always say ...

A.   22 June 2012: Yup. Hes being controlling. Having a little power trip & patronizing you. Explain to him youve noticed it, dont appriciate it & hes taking it too far. Then dont tolerate it. Just leave the room, leave the restaurant, leave him alone for a while if ... (read in full...)

New boyfriend admitted he can't get an erection because of my weight and I'm devastated....Help!?

Q.   I have an incredible new boyfriend I really like, but he has trouble getting and keeping an erection, and the reason is.....my weight. We are incredibly drawn to each other on so many levels- intellectually, emotionally, etc. He says he finds my ...

A.   22 June 2012: Its not your fault. Its his & hes taking it out on you. Ive actually never been sexually attracted to my boyfriends body. Hes very tall, lanky & skinny. I prefer men with a bit of meat. So I never see him with his shirt off & want to jump his bones. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he really ogles other women!

Q.   My boyfriend is genuinely sweet and caring, but when it comes to looking at other girls he makes me feel really uncomfortable. The last episode was yesterday when we were on the train and he saw this girl sitting with her boyfriend in a short skirt. ...

A.   11 May 2012: Its crazy the posts on here. Everyones having the same problem. Its not just me, not just you. I sent myself to a psychologist (at $120 an hour) to try & stop MY insecurities. Yeah Ive got low self esteem but after 2 years of arguing with myse... (read in full...)

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