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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Lack of trust... or lack of commitment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I have a huge problem. I'll quickly tell you things before i get onto the main part. I'm 20 and been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Before her, i had 3 girlfriends who all cheated on me. Anyway to the story. About 8 months ago, i...

I'm not pressurised into sex but I'm worried he will cheat on me if I'm not good in bed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im ...

Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her...

I told him I wouldn't call her, but today I did. Please help, I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i found love msgs from a girl in my boyfriends phone which he gave me to take for repair. i asked him about it he said that we would talk about it when i visit him (am currently away at school). i started going out with him in may 2008 and thos...

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...

Is this a trust issue and should or could this effect our future marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - my Fiance and I have been together for 1.5 years and are incredibly happy. I have always had a weird intuition about a relationship in his past and just recently found out they got pregnant and got an abortion. He hasn't talked to her since this ...

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the ...

I'm a self proclaimed clingy girlfriend. How do I stop doing all these? How do I make my relationship better? How do I make myself better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone... I am in desperate need of help. I am a self proclaimed "clingy girlfriend." I have been with my man for two years and some, and I have always been that girl who needs to know where he is, who he's with, what he's doing, what time...

It's worse than cheating or drinking, I don't know what he thinks! Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I think about leaving my husband everyday. I don't know what I should do , I just don't trust him. A Few years ago he started to have impotence, and his sexual desire was gone. He is ok medically,but he is just not ever sexy with me and stays soft. ...

Am I overreacting by being jealous of her former lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - My wife and i have been married for a few years now but one of her former lovers has always cast a cloud over our marriage as far as I'm concerned. Whenever she sees him she just acts like I'm not there and they get talking for ages and laughing ...

How can I get her to be more physical with me again? I miss the attention.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we are running into so major problems, I will try anything to make it work so please give me your best. Things were going great as usual till about a month's time ...

Is he being sincere or does he think he can get "benefits" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, There is this guy I lost my virginity to. he's 23 and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said I couldnt do it anymore. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his ...

He said he 'might' want to sleept with other women. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship and just recently got married. Through out our entire relationship we've always had problems with the way he acts around other girls. He's a big flirt and recently it's become a big problem because it's been ...