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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He went to go down on me and then stopped.. now I feel like the most insecure person in the world.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have to put this bluntly, otherwise i'm going to go off into loads of upset drabble and i don't want to bore you with that... I've always had trouble with my 'private' area, as a female i'm so worried all the time about what it looks like and s...

How do I go about living with someone again and trusting them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hello I am almost 46 yrs was married for 16 years which ended around 10 years ago leaving me with a settlement which got me somewhere to live which was mine (no mortgage) then i met my recent ex partner - sold my house , put the money into one w...

Is there a way to go about regaining his trust? He says the chances are slim. However I never cheated him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - thank you all for reading this..hopefully you will be able to help because I am in need of some advice.. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half now..we've talked on and off but never got back together..I do still have feelings fo...

When I go to church my new hubby watches porn. Makes me feel unworthy and small and picture him doing it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do. My relatively new husband is surfing porn. It makes me feel unworthy and small, unattractive and all the rest. He tries to tell me that he isn't fantasizing about other women but I feel it is the first step he is takin...

My girlfriend is self-conscious about her weight and very distressed about her maid-of-honour dress that doesn't fit. How do I approach the subject?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Since I have been dating my girlfriend (for over 4 years) she has been self consious about her weight. It is not uncommon for it to fluctuate 30 lbs in a year. She knows it doesn't bother me and I love her no matter what. I always console / ...

What should I do to clear my head of this obnoxious secret she kept for a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - My girlfiend told me that she had slept with another guy in the past. According to her, she swore that nothing happened between them. Is it hard to believe that, even with the circumstances that were given. Ever since she told me I've been confused ...

Is he cheating or falling out of love with me, or am I just paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

13 October 2008 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for over 2 years. We have a 16 month-old together. For a while now he has been changing a lot towards me and I think he is either cheating on me or falling out of love with me. It is too the point to where he ...

Do I ask him about this supposed porn collection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I was friends with my current boyfriend for two years before we started dating. Back when we were just friends, he told me all about the porn he'd make with his girlfriend. Now that we're dating, I find myself wondering whether he still has all ...

He knows the smell of smoke turns my stomach, but he won't quit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My husband started to smoke after we had a big fight. He did it and said he did it to spite me. He knows how i feel about smoking. I was raped by a man who smoked and that is the one smell I just cant be around! everytime i am it triggers horrible ...