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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Do you think I have even the smallest chance with my long distance crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I really suffer from a breakup...Okay, to be honest, it wasn't even a breakup. It was a rejection. My long distance crush is 21 and I’m turning 16 next month. The guy is simply awesome! I can tell you he's worth all my tears cause all my friends ...

Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern i...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

My boyfriend breaks up then texts me, wants to have sex and then blows me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me almost a month ago because he believed a relationship was not his best interest and I deserved better but still wanted us to be friends. It was a very emotional break up for the both of us. However, ...

My boyfriend acting strange and evasive while in his hometown, is it his ex? or his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3062 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi. Been with bf for five months and he went back home for the holidays for a few days. I didn't expect constant contact and didn't get it either. But after Xmas, two days of no contact at all. I caved and texted him, he called me back. Apparently ...

I'm waiting for him to make the next move but it's killing me! Advice, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I rekindled with my ex boyfriend this year and over the last 6 months we have dated a few times and have now become intimate. He came to my work xmas party and we had a great time. That was over 12 days ago. since then he has not called me or ...

Is this fair? Do I have a right to be angry and upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - Hi guys.. So to keep it simple, my boyfriend of just over 2 years had this friend before we met.. His friend was a girl- he told me that they kissed once but it didn't feel right apparently so nothing else happened. He hasn't spoken to her since we...

My ex is calling me a whore and a liar. It bothers me! Would anyone else feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I'm in a bad situation and I don't know what to do about it. Apologies if this quite a long question. I can't really talk to my family because they all have quite decent lives and I feel like a bit of a black sheep. Anyway I've been seeing m...

Do I wait this breakup out? Or take a different approach with my ex Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Ex gf will not stop calling and texting. I have been patiently waiting it out thinking and hoping she would see her vain attempts and stop. She has gotten worse. Every other day, and several times a day. I am so tempted to call this harassing c...

My boyfriend never calls me unless he wants to see me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I got back with my ex boyfriend after a break up of two years and no communication. We broke up because he does not respect time and likes coming at my place at night and hardly during the day. We went out twice since we got back together and I miss ...

My ex shut his heart against love but after 2 years apart I still want him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I am 27 and I am only interested in men much older than me. There are certain qualities that I am looking for in a man that can only exist in older men. I hate young men and everything about them. Young men disgust me. I don't mind an age gap of ...

He partied with his ex while I was pregnant, and I can't seem to move past this betrayal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - So when me and my fiance got together, we mutually agreed that maintaining contact with exes was a dealbreaker. We were very happy, and I fell pregnant with our son, who is now three. However, when I was 12 weeks pregnant, I went on a holiday with ...

He can't take the time to shop for me and my kids, but he will for his kid and for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - As most men do, my bf dislike shopping for anything. Especially xmas shopping.. So I've done all of it this year... Including a few little gifts for myself.. Then today I get a text saying that he totally forgot he needs to buy a gift for is ex from ...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3070 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

I'm still in love with my ex! We talk all the time and I just can't move on. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I had been dating this guy who I met online back 2014, we talked FOREVER and got to know each other so well, we got along, we agreed on everything, he was perfect for me.. He admitted he loved me over the phone (during those 5am calls that lasted 10 ...

Should I step back or crack on and see how we go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been seeing my ex for about 3 months now after splitting up in 2008. It was me that ended the relationship as I felt we'd grown apart and wanted different things out of life. We got chatting a good few months ago whilst in th...

How we can combat these problems? We love each other very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - My partner and I have been together for a year. Both of us have had very bad experiences in previous relationships. My ex husband lied to me a lot and treated me very badly. My partners ex's were unfaithful. The problem in our relationship ste...

My boyfriend's ex has been in touch with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I am in a LDR of a year. We have had some ups and downs, but love each other and see each other every other weekend for its entirety and speak/text loads. I found out his ex has been in contact with him. She broke up w...

What can I do about threats my ex is alleged to have told my sister, all about my planned trip to see my new Bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 months and to to say the least he was difficult and seemed to think he was some kind of father figure to me as my parents are dead and he was 14 years older than me Now I have met a guy on America who I have planned ...

Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays? My ex and I broke up two years ago at the end of Christmas. Each year when the Holidays come around, I find myself thinking of him and missing him. We've never seen each other after our brea...

Will this be a repeat of last time? Am I the easy option after his last split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm hoping you can help. I split with my ex in 2008 after 6 years together. We didn't live together or anything and had no kids between us...just children then from previous relationships. We got together quite soon after my marri...

Ex' is threatening suicide. How do I stop her bothering me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I came on here not too many days ago stating my ex girlfriend of five years had me feeling unsettled. I stated we have been broken up for at least six months. She constantly contacted me and I responded cordially. Perhaps a friendship could come of ...

I shared personal information. Now it'sall over the office

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - The guy that I was engaged to 1997 gave me herpes.I was still young in my twenties. This change my whole life. He didn't tell me he had it. I was so hurt I cried. At some point I excepted this of course I couldn't change it anyway. Ten years late...

What would be the reason I cannot orgasm with my girlfriend, when previously I could orgasm with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3078 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend (I'm a lesbian) and I haven't had an orgasm while I've been with her but I had them with my ex. I miss having orgasms what should I do? ...

When do my needs start to count?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - I need help and I need help quick. My boyfriend is divorcing his ex'. The court hearing is in January. They get along. She has someone in her life. Me and her do not get along. Me and my boyfriend fought all this week because my daughter took a ...

Is he into me or does he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3080 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - Ok so i'm sort of seeing this guy. We went to high school together and maybe 6 months ago I ran into him at a bar while I was out with my friends. I didn't recognize him, my friend did. We called him over to our table and we caught up. I asked if he ...

Is he that afraid of his ex or just a no good POS that is showing his true colors?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - Ok this is really immature of me but I usually tend to mimick whoever I'm with one of those you do this I'll do the same kind of things. Now it's about dreaded Facebook. So I've been with my guy for a little over a year and we both had accounts (I ...

Not over her, yet. How can I stop comparing every girl I date to my first love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

9 December 2015 (M) - Its been 2.5 years since my last girlfriend left me for her high school love. We dated for over a year and she was the best girlfriend I ever had. She was perfect in all ways and for the first time the spark was there till the last week she dumped ...

I have never loved anyone like I love my ex. What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Alright, so here's the scoop. My ex boyfriend and I broke up in 2014ish around there. After we broke up we kept talking off and on for like 4-6 months. In that time he never dated anyone else and I had a new rebound boyfriend. Everytime I woul...

Is there a time limit on falling in love? If so, does it come to a point where you may have to give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Hi guys, I am going to try and keep this as minimal as I can. Me and my partner have both just turned 23, finished university last year and living with family. Now, we have been dating since June 2014, known each other for 23 months. We st...

He's not over his ex after 2 years, is this a lost cause or will I get my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for over a year and we recently started to date. Now that we're romantically involved, I can see that he isn't over his ex. I didn't realize the issue before we started dating, I guess because he doesn't really t...

Am I being unreasonable with my no contact request?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - Hi my partner and I separated for some time. During that time he began a sexual relationship with a woman for about 4 weeks. We have now got back together again and I have asked him to stop all contact with her. He makes excuses and fobs me off ...

Is now the right time for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - I need help. I went to see my ex yesterday for the first time after two years since we broke up. When i got there it felt as if we were dating but things have changed, people change. I find him more interesting now than before. The chemistry is ...

We are to be married in 2 weeks but are fighting about his ex and his socializing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I'm getting married in two weeks. My fiance and I have been arguing alot lately. He throws a tantrum and pouts for days. The last argument was because his ex keeps contacting him and he just wants to ignore her but I want him to tell her to leave ...

How can I determine if he really wants what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I dated a guy on and off last year but we remained friends. The basic reason why we broke up was 1. Lack of communication and 2. I wasn't sure that he was over his ex. Recently, he said that he misses me. I said the same, and so we started hangi...

My ex was very passionate after not seeing each other for 15 years. Does this mean there is a future for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I met up with my first love a few months ago and have seen each other twice in nearly 6 months. the second time was so intense and we became intimate. When a man is so passionate with an ex girlfriend after nearly 15 years of not seeing her, is it ...

I cheated on my current love with my first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - Dear agony aunt, Recently I have been on rocky waters with my fiance/father of my child. I have found comfort in my first loves mother whom I have always stayed very close friends with. After seeing her for a cup of tea and a chat about my relatio...

Did my old flame let me down easy or leave the door open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - I am in my early 40's and recently asked an old flame who I have become friends with on fb again as I already know his sister. I mentioned to him that when I am next in town in a few weeks would he like to meet up for a drink briefly before I go ...