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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

No matter what I do, girls still don"t like me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - What am i doing wrong , girls still dont like me ? Im a junior in hs and alot of girls dont like me . Idk y though , i tried be confident, an asshole, ect. pretty much everything Nothing works !!!! And all my female friends say im real attr...

I feel I am too intimidating .....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I feel like i am too intimidating to guys and therefore they dont talk/approach me. I have a general 'don't mess with me/i am my own person' attitude that lets boys know that if the try to mess me around like they do to other girls i just won...

I said I was confused, he said he was too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - This boy really confuses me... Please help. I said I still really like you he says he still really likes me, yet he broke up with me. How does that work? When I said I was confused he said he was too. What is going on? ...

I really want to talk to him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

30 August 2013 (?) - Ok well it's sophomore year and my friend J(first letter of his name, not gonna reveal his full name) finally is a high schooler but he's older than me by a month. Ok back to the story, we've been talking since I was in the 8th grade and he was ...

Now that school has started that spark is gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3914 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I started talking at the end of last school year (3-4 months ago.) over the summer we didn't get to see each other a lot because of our schedules but we texted constantly and when we hung out there was definitely that connection ...

He has a girlfriend but she's no good. How can I get him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, There's a guy at my school my age. Our dads know each other so I know a bit about him. He has a g/f of 9 months. I've liked him for a year so I was gutted to find out he had a g/f. She's so horrid and flirts with his friends. We aren't r...

She said she likes me, but I don't want to lead her on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

28 August 2013 (M) - About a month and a half ago, I told a girl that I liked her. After a few dates she gave me a letter on my birthday that told me she liked me back. Ever since that, I've been worried about it and regretting saying that, because I don't want to be ...

Been single for 2 months, met someone nice. Is it too soon to be venturing into something new?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - I am 16 years old and I think for the first time in ages I have met someone nice. So far in my life I've been in two relationships both of which have been violent, abusive and I've just been cheated on and been stupid enough t...

Nothing has been said since I reminded her of her sexual past, should I bring it back up?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 2427 days ago

25 August 2013 (M) - I am upset over something but don’t have the right to be. I posted last hear on Dear cupid and got some good feed back. Let me explain and get your reaction. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy for a number of years. I realize the p...

My boyfriend is trying to stir up drama when all I want to do is talk to him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is on a lads holiday at the moment and last night he dropped me a message that he had to be honest and on his first night he had kissed another girl but it didn't mean anything. I told him I was glad he told me but I wasn't going to ...

I need some French Kissing pointers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend are a little bit new to making out (we're both each other's firsts). We've tried kissing before but I found it a bit awkward ... I understand that when you're french kissing your tongues are supposed to interact, but what do ...

The girl I've had a crush on for years is moving away! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

23 August 2013 (M) - the girl ive had a crush on since seconded grade is moving to florida this new year what do i do. should i tell her how i feel or forever be quiet and give up on her. if you have any better ideas please tell me. 8/22/13 ...

How can I go swimming when I'm having my period and can't use tampons?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - Please help. My friends mum is taking me, her and her 8 year old sister on holiday tomorrow we'll be going swimming in a really cool pool too but I started my period 2 days ago I can't cancel as she already paid. I can't use tampons. I tried but it ...

He broke up with me but keeps changing the reason why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - dear cupid, I have been dating this boy for about two months, I really liked him and I thought he really liked me too. but last night he broke up with me, his original reason was that I was too smart for him and he was too dumb for me. I am prett...

I'm not sure if he prefers me or her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - So, I like a guy at my high school, and I know he likes me or at least likes flirting with me. We flirt often because we play the same sports, but don't have any classes together. One of my friends thought he liked me, too, which helps because I ...

I got horrific razor burn and ingrown hairs from shaving my groin. How can I make it go away and avoid it happening again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me she prefers a man that is shaved in the groin. I've always just trimmed fairly short, but I figured I would give shaving a shot if it is what she likes. I've only ever shaved my face so I wasn't too experience with what to do ...

I want to know how I can ask him out without making a fool of myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - I have a crush on one of the chefs at my job. Ive known him for about six months and in that time the only time he notices me in when the chefs need dishes. Im 17 and he is 23. I want to know how can i ask him out without making a fool of myself or ...

How do I make my best friend see things my way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I'm really concerned about my Best Friend We've know eachother since elementary school and we've always been neighbors. Back then it was kind of weird if i didnt see her every week. She's super nice and funny, but she's also a bit impulsive and ha...

Why do conversations with my friend always wind up being steered towards sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I really don't know what's going on with my friend. We're pretty close and I guess he's kind of like a brother to me. He might not see it that way, but I see it. I met him almost a year ago. We've exchanged crushes and personal secrets, and the...

Is being tan really considered to be more beautiful?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - So lately, everyone has been commenting on how pale I am. I mean its the summer time and I work as a lifeguard so you'd think I'd be super tan but nope, I have to wear a lot of sunscreen and when I don't, I get badly burned very easily and the burn ...

Has porn ruined the rest of my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Hi there, I started watching porn from a young age (11 years old) and stopped when I was thirteen and was wondering now, has porn ruined my life? I feel like it's disturbed me from a young age, I only realised when I was about 12 years old; I knew ...

Only my extreme shyness is stopping me from talking to him. How do I get over being shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

19 August 2013 (?) - Ok so, school starts Next Monday and that means I get to see my crush again. Yay! But I'd be happier if I can actually talk to him. I'm extremely shy and find it impossible to talk to him. It's not even funny, whenever my mom always ask me to buy s...

He's 16 and I'm 17. Should I try to talk to him when I see him at choir?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Ok so! Recently I finally got over my ex, it took like 6 months but I am finally over him, we ended up just honestly stay best friends. Anyway now that I have moved on I found this new guy I really kinda like. I always saw him around the schoo...

Are boobs that important to guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Hello! Ok so I am a 17 year old girl, and very small and thin... If any of you know who Ariana Grande is (singer/actress) I basically have the exact body type as her. Short, petite, and thin. Unfortunately that also means I really don't have boobs ...

Should I tell him I had a miscarriage ? Were both 18 I don't want to freak him out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i are both 18 . Last night i had a miscarriage should i tell him? I didn't even know i was pregnant . And i don't want to freak him out . By bringing up a baby and stuff . But should he know ? I was probably around 4 weeks maybe 5 ...

He said he needs space because of all these problems! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

18 August 2013 (F) - Dear agony aunt i have a problem with my current boyfriend. We started dating 1 month ago. Everything was a sea of roses in the begining however one day he told me we had to talk and he told me about recent problems that had all showed up at the ...

I'm in a lot of pain after breaking up with my boyfriend, who was also my best friend. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3925 days ago

18 August 2013 (F) - I started dating my best friend in early September and it was great. He was the sweetest guy I knew, he always wanted to hang out, he was always there when I needed him. That all changed about a month ago. Him and I would get into the biggest fights ...

It kills me to hear her talking about him. How can I ask her to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3529 days ago

18 August 2013 (M) - There is a girl that I could swear I am in love with. We talk so much and we both trust each other a lot. Recently she has been telling me about some guy who she is obsessed with. He is some 6 foot 4 "super hot" soccer player. I could not possibly ...

What are some proven successful ways to overcome premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

17 August 2013 (M) - For anyone who can help but mostly to those who had premature ejaculation and has overcame it. I have sexually intimate with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. My first time with her was my first time and also my most embarassing moment. I go...

Bad boy broke my heart and now I'm wary ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

17 August 2013 (F) - I thought that I needed a thug, a bad boy, a guy who would love me and keep it g at the same time. Stupid little me, I decided to fall inlove with a guy who didn't even feel the same way back. It's hard, it's real hard, when someone doesnt feel the ...

I'm freaked out by my boyfriend telling me he loves me after one week together. Should I take a break from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - ok I have recently acquired a new boyfriend, he's really sweet and nerdy like me but we have only been going out a week and have only actually met up about five times. and then today he told me he loved me! I didn't respond I just said "see you ...

How do you know if you're really over someone and not just trying to replace them with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - Hey there, my boyfriend broke up with me one month ago, leaving me here to spend the whole summer alone or - even worse - with my parents. Now, here's the situation: this October I'm gonna start university, and - as many friends of mine told me ...

The girl I love is very goodlooking and she constantly posts pictures of herself online which other guys comment on. Why is she doing this and how can I show her how much I like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 August 2013 (M) - Too make a long story short. Theres this girl whos really hot and from 1 to 10 shes a outstanding 10, i met her at my school and she was taken at the time, so time went by and she ended up becoming single and me and her became closer. i would ditch ...

It bothers me that my girlfriend thinks I'm too innocent to talk dirty

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

15 August 2013 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have done some light petting and have decided to try oral next time we hang out. She's gone that far with other guys where I have not. We were talking about how we didn't dirty talk over text and she said it was because I was so ...

I have very strong feelings for her and want to ask her to homecoming dance in a memorable way. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 August 2013 (M) - The homecoming dance is coming up in a few weeks and there is one girl that I can't imagine going without. We dated less than a year ago but we broke up and I think she still has some feelings for me. The only time I get to see her this year is at ...

New to oral -- would he have been put off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3929 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - {Two questions combined} this is really embrassing but yesterday i had a boy go down on me for the first time. he wanted to do it and i didnt ask but i was so worried that i would smell as we were at a festival and that my downstairs was really u...

Two terrible reationships and now I want something good! What do I look for in a guy? And how do I lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3709 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Hello! I hope everyone is doing well and keeping this site going and I basically have an a bit of an update and a question for all of you wonderful aunts and uncles. Recently I came out of my second un-successful relationship due to my ex be...

I want to masturbate but I don't want to feel the guilt again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

13 August 2013 (M) - To make a long story short, I use to be inlove with masturbating and i stopped doing it 2 months ago, but i feel like if i do it just once ill get hooked but masturbation is a thing with all males 99% of all males do it and i have had these strong ...

Off to college, how should we part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3929 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Hey Guys, haven't been here since I was fifteen. Well recently I fell into a relationship with this guy who I had liked for a long time. I became his friend in AP calculus and eventually we hung out outside of school. For three months or so we ...

My 14 year old daughter gets attention from older guys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a 14 year old daughter and if you looked at her (the way she dresses her makeup and how she acts) you would think she's at least 16. This doesn't worry me, she's very mature and beautiful and most people can't believe she's just 14. She's ...

I want my boyfriend's much older brother. Does that make me a bad person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - I have a wonderful boyfriend. Who's loving, caring, funny and perfect! He makes my life complete and without him I'm nothing. Just since we have had a few large problems.. He finds away of escaping from reality. What has lead me to socialize with ...

How can I make myself happy and blind to the way that I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

12 August 2013 (?) - hey, so i have some major problems when it comes to my body i hate every inch of it from my vainy feet , past my chucky cellulite thighs to my dry hair, i have good days were i am happy and can stand to look in the mirror , but then i have bad days...

He says he'll leave his girlfriend for me when she comes back. Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone so I'm 16 and I need help! I became bestfriends with a guy(also 16) from my school when I moved near him as I didn't know anyone he was really nice and we went to work in the same place we'd walk to work together. I knew we were just ...

I feel jealous when I see my b/f and friend together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, ok well, I wanted some advice. I have two best friends, a girl and a boy and the boy is my boyfriend, we are all very close. But whenever I see my friend hanging out with my boyfriend I get jealous, and I know it's stupid and I know tha...

My parents gave me up to foster care and it seems no one is on my side

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - I want a normal life style but yah right! I'm not a normal kid like everybody else. My parents gave up on me! 7 years ago me and my brothers and sisters got taken away by foster care. I had to grow up fast and see and hear things that a lil one ...

Some of my friends have turned on me. Do I confront them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still at school (at the moment it is the summer holidays). At the end of July i went on holiday, whilst i was away my friendship group met up, which is fine, but while they did this one member of the group starting bitching about me, and ...

Self esteem ruined due to ex and his new play thing. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago. We did start seeing eachother again for a month but we now haven't spoken for around about a month. We broke up due to him being a serial cheat and even tho...

I really like him but next year we won't be in any classes together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3709 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - In may i posted: I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science ...

How to deal with my boyfriends parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - My problem is my boyfriend's parents. I say boyfriend just to make things easier, when he told his parents we were in a relationship they basically told him to split up with me , stay good friends and don't go out with me until he is 18. I was upset ...

Do I give up trying? Want to hang out with her. Are there better ways to interest a girl? How should I approach this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

11 August 2013 (M) - There is a girl that I really like and have very strong feelings for. We have talked every night and have become very close. We have also hung out numerous times. One night I kissed her and she was completely on board. I like her and she likes me...