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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is he using me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...

Am I really cursed by this gorgeous face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I was shocked today when my male bestfriend came out and said that hes bi and that he likes me.. We were walkin on the street when he told me... Im a guy too and I didnt expected it! I posted a problem a week ago and now here comes another pr...

Please help! I don't know what is happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - This is yet another annoying teacher-student-love question. But really, this is getting out of hand for me. I had this teacher in year 7 (Mr S I'll call him) and by the end of that year obviously I started 'fancying' him. I had him the next year as ...

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...

How do you make a LDR successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - How does one make a long distance relationship in the least bit successful? or even slightly functional? The reason i ask is that i'm in one...and to be honest i kind of want to rip his head off with my bare teeth. ...

I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I know people are tired of the stupid "am I pregnant" questions on here but mine is maybe something different. I just started having sex with my boyfriend. We use condoms and everything but he pulls out and takes it off at the end and leaves his ...

How do I make my boyfriend more sexual with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend are the perfect couple but he not as sexual as I want him to be. How do I loosen him up? And I also want to give him oral. should I?...

I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything ...

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...

Does my ex still love me? Is there a chance of him coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hey, so im 19 and my ex is 20. HE used to be a total partier until he met me.We dated for a year and we got really serious he introduced me to his whole family and i thought we were going great. We spent like 24/7 together, we lost our virginity ...

I don't want to fall for "him" all over again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have this huge problem. 3 years ago I really fancied this guy in my year... it was my first crush and I was a bit obsessed, he was the best looking guy, really funny, like you know the type who aways shouts out jokes in class and all the guys are ...

My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...

Should I keep going with her or just dump her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I been sorta dating (well starting to) this chick and we hang like all day and shit but she has been sorta like edgy when I try to get close or put me arm around her, I get this werid vibe and she sorta moves away and doesn't like hugs back much ...

Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My niece is 14 and says she is pregnant. What should I do? I really don't want to tell on her but I just want to make sure she gets help what should I do???Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???...

I would love to give him oral too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend gives me oral sex but he never asks me... but I really want to do it. What should I do? I'm afraid of what he might think of me if one day after he gives me oral I just bend down and give him oral, what do you think?...

He wants me to be his next baby mom.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since Febuary 22 2008... and it's going on a year. Okay now we have had sex already but we don't have sex very often like maybe 2 times a month and he has a baby. Let me tell the story - ...

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

Emotional abuser? Or messed up mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Okay, So I've known this guy for about a year now, when we first met, we liked each other, but never did anything about it. About 3 months ago, after being friends for ages, we decided that we wanted to be together, the thing is, we're both stubborn ...

Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because ...

Should I try to go out with her? Or just forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hey. Okay, so I like this girl who is senior. I'm a sophamore. Senior and sophamore relationships happen a fair amount in our school (it's a small one), but she seems a bit beyond my uh level... I think she thinks I'm cute, but not in a "I wanna ...

I got a sexual text from another guy..my b/f see it..now I'm wondering if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend,an incident happens between us the other day.actually their is this other guy texing my phone saying he wants to get in a relationship with me.one day my boyfriend grab my phone went in my phone and saw a a tex the guy send me ...

When can I talk to her about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - me and my gf have been together 4 2weeks and 4days.when do i talk to her about sex? by the way im 14 and she15...

My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs a...

Should I take the risk and meet him for drinks at his house?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hi there! So, since I've been doing not so well with men in person, I decided to join a free dating site. Right away, a guy messaged me and we seem to have quite a bit in common. The problem is, he wants to meet, and although I do want to ...