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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Should I meet him or listen to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i have met this guy online and have been speaking to him for about 9 months. im only 16 and hes 23. i want to meet him so much but im quite scared and my friend doesnt approve of him as hes 23 speaking to a 16 year old about a relationship. should i ...

She's coming 100 miles to see me but I'm terrified as I'm still a virgin!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Guys and girls! OMG I am so nervous, I'm terrified. Ok, here goes. I am a virgin. In fact, I've never kissed a girl in my 19 years of life. A girl I met on the internet (seen her on webcam, she IS real!) And she's making a special trip from...

Do I really like him even though I don't know him personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have met a boy 2 years older than me on an online game. we have been talking dirty to each other qiute a lot and i like it. the problem is that i really like him but i dont no whether i should ask him if he likes me and if we should be together as ...

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My ...

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all ...

I am afraid he wont want to be with me when he finds out my age

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have just started to talk to this boy on msn, and he sounds really nice but he's 16, and i'm 13. I'm worried that he won't want to be with me when he finds out. please help me i really like him...

Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

I'm attracted to his mind but not his body. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I need some help. My problem is long so bare with me. I have been talking to this man via text message for quite some time now. I have never met him in person but i met him on the internet quite a while ago. It started out talking on ...

Open relationship... what does this really mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I have become very good friends with a man I met on the internet. We have the same likes and dislikes. We talk every day on the phone and sometimes twice. We have seen each other twice. He is a long haul trucker. But we live only 30 minutes away. We ...

Through facebook, can I somehow see if this guy is still interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I know it sounds like a lame question, but i really would appreciate help! I need to know if this guy i have liked for so long, is still interested in me, as he used to admit it so often that he was crazy about me, but recently it's died down. ...

Should I meet him at Easter when I'm 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi all... I cant believe I am even thinking about this nor asking for peoples advice, it's totally not like me. I was wondering what I should do... On msn, I recently starting chatting to a man the age of 44, he seemed decent enough, funny and...

He says he likes me, but his dating site profile is still active.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi here we go: I am dating this guy I met on a dating website. We get on very well and last Saturday we had sex. It was our 5th date. I feel a bit insecure as I think i pushed him into it. He texted me next day and asked how I was and I replyed ba...

I'm in a LDR since 4 months and I planned to go see her soon, but recently she seems less interested and now I'm not sure what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I have been in a LDR with this girl for about 4 months. at first we couldn't stop chatting on msn and texting each other but now when i talk to her on msn she may not reply for ages and i know she is there because if I ask if she is she always ...

My friend will wait for me to divorce but why is he on dating sites then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I'm going through divorce after 20 some years of marriage. I met a guy on a bike ride a few weeks before I filed and we hit it off as friends we've been friends since 4 months now I moved out of the house and live with friends. I spend a lot of ...

Do I stay with my pot-smoking boyfriend of 9 months, or go for my long distance aquaintance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, off and on, and I love him.. but he hasnt told me i am cute, pretty or gorgeous..(I always tell him he is gorgeous and cute) it bugs me, because I dress cute for him and want him to notice me.. However, ...

She asks me online to go out, then disrespects me to my face. I only want to be her friend. How do I make things right ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - This isn't really a question...well I need advice I guess. A few days ago someone added me and then wrote me a messege on myspace They randomly asked me out (it was someone I knew but didn't know why they "asked me out". So i kept asking the...

The big question... Is he interested???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I am a member of an online dating service. A guy emailed me and asked if I wanted to chat so I replied and we wrote a couple of lengthy emails to one another. I don't have a picture on the site but he does. We are both 29 y/o and looking for d...

This seems odd, or is there a logical explaination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have a weird question to ask. Can someone explain this behaviour, Im so confused! My friend (guy) is acting odd in the past while and Im not sure why. We talk for a little while, almost constant online and texting, and then they will all- of-a-s...

He lives so far away... will this work or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - So I met this guy online, and we both really like each other, but we both live so far. I'm not sure how to make this work, so I'm just wondering if I should just move on or keep on talking to him and see what will happen?...

How can HE be happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I am still sad, but finally angry. I was married 30 years. Five years ago, my husband walked out very abruptly. I didn't learn till after the divorce that he had met someone on-line from Malaysia and was going to bring her here. (This was a good ...

I can't stop using the adult chat room!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I am 15 and have got many problems. Firstly I can't stop using this adult chatroom. This chatroom is mainly used by men and of course is only for people over 18. When I'm on it I completley reinvent myself and make up story's as I go along. ...

Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...

Just found out the man I love is married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago. From the beginning, he seemed head over heels for me but I have already gone through a divorce and just wanted to take things slow and make sure that our relationship was progressing for the right reasons. ...

Does internet dating when I'm already with someone count as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hello I am Roran Cullen (Not real name) and I need advice on a Realationship Problem that I am having right now. I don't usually use internet as my source to get advice. You see the thing is I've been dating my girlfriend for almost three yea...

Why won't he introduce me to his 12 year old daughter?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I Am 22 years old my boyfriend is 33. We have been dating for a year now and I am a secret to his family and daughter. We met online and were both rebounds for he had just broken up with his girlfriend and baby mama of 12 years. As for myself, I ...

I'm developing feelings for him, but don't know if he feels the same, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - i meet this guy about a month ago online but we only went out recently for a date. Date was ok ,wasnt fantastic, but we could carry convertsations well, which i found important, as chatting online with someone and in person is very different. Al...

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me with a cyber-lover. What do I do? We have two children together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I caught my fiancee trying to cheat on me. She'd been cybering guys on the net for a while (one on which worried me because he was a local) I told her this upset me but just accepted it as a bit of fun. I told her not to give her phone number to ...

I'm just looking for a little guidance on who and how to choose out of the two.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Ok, so here's my problem, it's one of those two girl problems. About a year an a half ago, I met my current girlfriend, who happens to be my first, and we've been going out since then, she's the only girl I've ever been physically intimate. It's...

Hero to zero!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - I met the most amazing woman online. we talked for hours every day via msn , and the more we found out about each other , the more we discovered we had something really special. we shared everything , even that she had been single for 5 years once ...

Am I over reacting to this pic? Or is this really as bad as I think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I need some advice on online dating. I just started dating again ...so i'm am new to what is acceptable or not. Recently i set up a profile on a decent website. I have gotten a lot of responses However, one person in particular caught my eye...

Why isn't she telling me about this other guy if she has nothing to hide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hi guys, Quick one, I met this girl on the internet, same age as me... we've now been seeing each other for near 4 months. She has a male friend who she texts every other day virtually, they used to share a house together, and then she mov...

He doesn't seem to be the same now that we've had sex. Was I used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online a year ago and we have become fast friends. He lives 5 hours away but we text and chat on the phone and I tell him my dating woes, etc. We finally decided we loved each other and we'd see what happened when we got together. ...

Should I just stop talking to this guy I met, online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online and chatted for months before eventually meeting, we got on really well and met a few times. i am moving away with work (only a few hrs away), something he was aware of but he still met me. after meeting the last time i ...

After 12 weeks, would you say we were a couple or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi aunts just a quick question. I met a guy off a dating site around 12 weeks ago. He is amazing. Cute, funny, kind etc. If we dont catch up he calls me every day, we go out to dinner all the time and have met each others friends. I'm just about to ...

I fell in love with a man.. but he's really a woman... and now I'm so confused. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just ...

We met on line, I don't know if he remembers that I have a child, I want him irregardless of the distance and all of his flaws... but does he want me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hi! please help! i've met this guy online and we connected instantly. was only a member for a day or two when i came across his profile and i thought i'd send him an interest. he got back to me and since then we have been chatting via ym for months. ...

She terminated our long distance, online relationship. Should I still call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x. Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I...

I met a guy on Myspace but I don't feel that spark

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Theres this boy, we met on myspace, then we met up. We met about 4 times but i didnt feel a spark , he told me he liked me on a text...but hes never treated me like a boyfriend, hes not kind of boy to be all touchy feely or anything, maybe if he ac...

I met an amazing man online and life was bliss but it now seems to have all fallen apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hi All, I hope someone can help. I met the most amazing man online around 4 months ago.......a little background tho, its long winded I know...... He was engaged for 7 years, the relationship broke down which spiraled him into a dark depress...

He says his internet cuts out online and doesn't reply to me. Does he not want to talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - im talking to this guy and we connect extremely well.weve only talked via instant messenger,and im waiting for him to get back from another state next month so we can meet.he is there for work.anyways,just lately ive been feeling a little uneasy.his ...

I'm devastated... the love of my life confessed to me that he is really a woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just ...

Relationship dilemma - I don't want to spoil her life with my scare

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years . earlier it was just friendship and we met online thru a chat site. we have met around 5 times after that face to face and we talk daily. in the past one year our relationship changed the lvel...

What can I do within my comfort zone to let him know I'm interested? I'm so shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this sounds really lame but there's this guy that I'm crushing on yet I'm too shy to even hint that I'm interested. We knew each other from elementary school and just recently found each other online. He told me that when we were young, he ...

I really like her but don't know what she thinks.... any opinions appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - ok, I'm a little lost, any advise is greatly appreciated, first of all, I have always had a problem with confidence, I fight for it everyday and I believe I am doing ok but still get very anxious. I have also never been in a relationship. The ...

My online friend has become arrogant and disrespectful since he found a girlfriend. Should I get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - dear agony aunt...im a 17 year old girl. i have an online friend since the last one and a half year. we used to very attached to each other. and were the closest friends. but since the last couple of months since he has started dating this other ...

Do you think he has genuine feelings for me or do you think he is trying to break up and still look like the good guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online and we began dating, he was very intense, talking about future and using the love word(albeit indirectly) after just a few weeks. We were getting on great and he bombarded me daily with texts etc, then last week discovered he was ...

I have told him that him looking and chatting to other women upsets me but he carries on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend online 10months ago and moved in with him 2 months ago. He looks at half naked women online and chats to them. Last month I found out that he had sent nude pics of himself to some of theses women and was asking them to send him ...

I'm 16, I love the guy I met in the Internet but I said 'yes' to another guy that lives closer to me, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - i am 16 and recently i met i guy on the internet.hes twenty and goes to university.but another guy ive met asked me to be with him and i said yes but the problem is i love the other one but he lives a bit far from me and the other one lives cl...

He said he'd never rape or hurt me! I believe him....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

5 October 2008 (?) - Hello, Im a 15 year old girl and iv'e been going with with a 22yr old male on the internet for about 2yrs this year. We love eachother so much, I live in australia, he lives in canada. He's told his mum,sister,nieces and nephews about m...