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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Seems he's far away enough from me to cheat on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years now.. we have been in a long distance relationship.. he is in med school and i am back here in the US.. i feel now that he is far away he may cheat on me.. is it possible or am i just being paranoid..?...

I miss my boyfriend to distraction, what can I do regain control.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It's been about 9 months now. We hit it off last summer and things are going really well. But we said goodbye about 4 hours ago, because he'll be flying off to another country with his...

Long distance relationship stress!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years; he's traveling for work and I'm in medical school. We've talked about getting engaged once we can be in the same city and we've both met each other's families. We have a fantastic...

How do I get to be with my Turkish man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i meet a turkish man on net 7 munths ago,and i realy fall in love with him ,he said he loves me to,so we strared to speak about getting married and that he will come to my country to live with me,i was married before and i have a son of 7 years old ...

She makes me stop before I can get her there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - My girl and I have been in a long distance relationship for just under a year. We met in the most romantic way, and fell in love intensely. She is 32, and I am 26. I'm not sure how much of the relationship history I need to give here, but I will...

Will he come back to me and our baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I was with a guy for one year we were engaged and I am curently pregnant with his baby. He left me for a girl 14 years younger than him we were having a few problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. I love this man with all of my heart and want ...

I feel like it's over but don't want to accept it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I don’t know exactly how to start this it’s a long story and the main problem that's just arisen not so long ago. The background information that you guys should have to help me out into what I am supposed to this is the following: I am in a long ...

He's hanging out with his friends and is so different when he's with them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship , we havent been the whole time and it is only for another few months, but every weekend hes been hanging out with his friends and he acts completely differnt when hes around them and the only ...

Was distance really an issue or was he just letting me down easily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Last September I met a guy online and we had a real connection, we chatted for 3 months- just flirting, but I really developed an intense connection with him. He even asked me out, but then for some reason it never happened. We lived far apart, and ...

How can I find out if my long distance girlfriend still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - hi there....its not been long since ive been dating sumone who i really love a lot and now at present im staying very far away frm her and we are in a long distance relationship... i just need your help to find out whether my girlfriend still loves ...

Is something going on with his potential coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend gave me his Facebook password couple of months ago. We're in a long-distance relationship at the moment, and we message each other a lot on Facebook. He is planning to move here in 2 months, and I'm flying down in June to spend time ...

How do we communicate more effectively? And how do I keep from bugging him too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of a year and i are great together, when we're physically together. i only see him about once a week, and all is well. the problem is, when we're not together during the week, i feel like things are a bit tougher emotionally. we'...

We're leaving school and going our separate ways, I'm in pieces and he doesn't seem to care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I regret not making a move on this guy.. i've fancied him for over a year and he found out i liked him and didn't like me back at the time but 6 months later he started becoming really interested in me and i really have a feeling he likes or liked ...

Shocked that he's with someone else so soon after our break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I broke up with my long distance ex-boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I've decided no contact with him is best for me to get over him, so we haven't spoken since the break up. I just found out that he's in a new relationship. It's been 3 weeks!! I wa...

As we live distances apart and our love sharpens,I get doubting feelings regarding her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - I've met this girl on phone,but hadn't seen her then. We fell in love when we eventually met,I felt it. However,there's the case of long distance rearing its ugly head. What's been bothering me lately is the strange attitude she had adopted;at ...

Could I just be wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My neighbor and I dated awhile back, at a terrible time for both of us. We remained really close after we broke up, and even the people closest to us mistake us for a couple, and he never corrects them. I still care about him, and at times it ...

I'm afraid that my father and his side of the family won't approve of the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - some time ago i went to cuba to meet my family. there i meet a guy (his aunt is married to my uncle). we hit it off the second we meet. after that i went back to cuba a few times to see him and we have kept in touch. i have falling in love with him ...

Playing with fire...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Ok, me and my boyfriend have been with each other over a year now. We're in a long distance relationship and i love him very much. He's caring, funny and sweet but i always feel like something is missing and i dont know what. He's talked about ...

He's making subtle comments about commitment -- should I press him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together with for just under a year. We have discussed marriage once before in this time seriously about 3 months ago. At that time I wasn't ready and I didn't know how to express it so I got real...

Long distance relationship woes, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. We talk every morning, a couple times a day and every night before we lay our heads down. Last night he was out with friends until 3:30 in the morning.He never called me. I called as he just got home. This is ...

Karma the love story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - *OP's original question, Okay, My story is one of those "created a fake account and fell in love" ones :[ Alright so letsee, Long story short, 3 years ago I made an account on myspace to get back at this one girl, but It was going to be a joke s...

How do I deal with the distance in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 10 months now. I live in the UK and she lives on an island south of the UK. I went over there last summer and we met at a party. Since then we have seen each other on a number of occasions ...

Confused and torn between 2 different guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - this guy(lets call him bob) have been dating for a about 3 and a half months, and everything was pretty good until a couple weeks ago when he started getting really emotional. we had problems in the begining where he would get to clingy and id get ...

Long distance relationship creating insecurities with boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - i discovered that my bf was cheating on me then we talked about it and we seemed okay but i'm still feeling insecure about it because i live far away from him and his so called ex girlfriend lives close to him.How do i get over it and trust my bf ...

One day a week really isn't enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hello every1, me and my bf r goin out for 5 yrs now. he says he really loves me, he also plans for our future, and when we are together we are so right for each othjer, we also have great sex life but the prob is he never initiates our date....

Am I in over my head with this younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hi, i'm in a bit of a dilema, about 4yrs ago i met this guy (A)...he was married going through a divorce and i was in a very unhealthy relationship with guy (B). guy(A) and i became friends working together and he was like a shoulder to lean ...

My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...

She asked him if he would be hers when he came home! MY boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i am a college student and i put away all my fears and decided to trust my boyfriend, but recently while he was on face-book he began talking to this girl from his neighborhood,i was in his arms while he was talking to her, she started telling him ...

Will this change his mind after a huge argument...?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. He's in the Army and currently training out of the state (AIT). The past two weeks have been extremely hard on him due to the fact that the training just got tougher. So, I'm not surprised ...

I'm not feeling very secure in my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 4 months and we were close friends for nearly an year. Few weeks before he dumped me out of blue, when i asked him for the reason he said he moved on and never attended any of the calls or replied...

How can I stop myself from missing him so much and focus on my job for the next 4 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - we are a happily married couple for 10months now, my job has forced me to work on another country but its getting really heard everyday to cope with the idea of his absence he is encouraging me to work for sometime earn some capital, then go back ...

Does he like me and care about me as much as I do for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - This is going to be long..... So my bf and I have been dating for about a month now. We are both students but he is still enlisted with the US army. About a week after we started dating, he got orders that he will be deploying in November an...

I want to leave but we're married... is it worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid friends, This is my second post :) I want to share with you my feelings and concerns, so you can orient me if I'm doing everything the wrong way. I'm married, since last August 2009, but I come from a long distance relationship from ...

Is he pretending to be busy or is he honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...

She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online...

Can't trust him, but think about him a lot, what now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - Ok here is guy I met on net and we have been friends for a year . We were very good friends and he shared everything about his life with me. He said he loves me more than anything and wants me as his life partner. As it is a online relation and we ...

Confused over my long distance romance, please help me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - Hi, well im 16, and i have been in love with this guy for two years. only problem is, he lives about 4 hours away and lives where i go on holiday, (i go there about 6 times a year so i see him alot) everytime i go down, it's like we're together...

Every time we leave each other it becomes harder and harder!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - hello , okay so my issue is that me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship , we have been together for about a year and a half and we were best friends for like 2 years before he even asked me out , but the thing is he moved away like ...

Leaving for a month, what should my boyfriend and I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice. Im 15 and a freshman and I met this great guy this year. We go to the same school but we never really talked much but a while ago we started talking and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We been toghter for 2 months ...

I haven't just lost a g/f, I've lost my whole world

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

17 May 2010 (M) - Ok, me and my girlfriend have been together 2 years and 2 months.. 3-4 of those were together, inseperable, and the rest of the time we've been long distace. which of course hasn't been easy, i don't like my time at uni at all and it reflects on m...

Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - Good news: I'll be receiving my degree within 4 months. Bad news: I'll be moving where my future job takes me or back home until I secure a job fit for my career. Granted, I've lived my whole life leaving and trying to make new friends. It'll ...

She's taking forever to choose between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - Okay this is a long story but i wont go into so much detail as i could be here all day. been in a long distance relationship for abt 4yrs, anyway my gf was supposed to come over in Mid Feb this year as i had just spent 9 weeks with her in malaysia ...

I think I am ready to lose my virginity, but is this a wise decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I am currently overseas and undergoing a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend who is back in my own country. I will be returning to my country in 3 months time and I was considering should I give my virginity to him then as I guess I am ...

We broke up because of this sticky situation but we still love each other, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - So I have a bit of a problem... 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up :( we broke up because he is going to work away soon and I wouldn't see him for upto a month or two at a time or even be able to talk to him because he won't have any phone ...

We have only been dating for a month and she is moving abroad, where does this leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - ok so ive been seeing this girl for a month. shes told me she really likes me in a text. also told a mutual friend. She told me shes off to ibiza in about 2 weeks to work til september. Im ment to be going out there at some point maybe j...

Should I wait for a guy who is crazy about me or see if the guy who isn't sure will figure out if I'm what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Wondering if I should stay with my boyfriend. I'm 6 months pregnant. My boyfriend works out of town a lot. Last visit he came into town and on the second day said, "We need to talk". He says he loves me but isn't sure if he is in love with me. Sa...

What can I do to keep him interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - hello everyone, I am with a guy on and off 3 years now, we always go back to eachother and the passion is still here but I don't find enough time to be with him and I feel like he may be doing something behind my back...so I need to know what should ...

Can I receive pictures of my boyfriend even if I don't have a camera phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Hey my boyfriend wants to send me pics of him, cause we havnt been able to see each other in awhile. Well i dont have a camera phone can i still get them? Also i have T-mobile if that can help lol. Thanks for your time!...

I know something isn't right but I don't know how to fix it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 May 2010 (?) - Hello Agnony Helpers, So my problem is that on and off for a few months now I just keep feelings like my boyfriend (of almost 2 years) isn't that interested in me. I feel pretty stupid for even mentioning this but it's just been bothering me for...

Having doubts about my LDR!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Dear reader ( i guess) any ways here's the thing i've known this guy since i was 17 thought the internet and we were friends for almots 5 yrs now( im 22 now) this year he conformed his love to me and i love him too but he lives far away so it's bas...