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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

We broke up but when met up again and had sex. I'm confused about what he wants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I dumped my ex about three weeks ago. Let me tell you why, he started saying he doesn't know how much longer we would be together because he doesn't like being chained down all the time. I took that as him saying he wants to see other people. I ...

After a night of passion he told me he isn't looking for a relationship but wants to continue meeting up for sex. I was embarrassed and hurt so I liead and said I wanted the same thing but I don't.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I had a night of passion with a regular in the bar where i work. He is very nice and i really liked him. Then i met him again twice more. Im so embarassed because he said to me this morning that he hopes i dont expect anyting from him as he doesnt ...

He doesn't want a relationship but I do. Should I end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hello, advice desperately needed! Firstly before everyone says it I know I am an idiot for getting myself into this situation but I've fallen for a guy who doesn't want a relationship. We have been 'seeing each other' for about 5 months now - by ...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

Can you love someone and still cheat on them for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - I have been in a true heart dilemma for the past year. It all started when I went back to work after my maternity leave, I was 34 at the time. I was married at the time going through a separation. I found my work to be a relief from the stress a...

FWB should I have told him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - I was involved in a friends with benefits situation with a guy for about 3 months. We had a mutual friend, and i would always be at their house, so was the guy. We would have so much fun together. One night he told me he wanted me....sexually. ...

Is it okay to keep in-touch and have sex with your ex on the odd occasion without thinking too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - Ok so I will try and make this short. My ex boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago but has phoned me regularly (once a week). We caught up a couple of weeks ago, he cooked me a lovely lunch and we had sex, I was at his place for about 4 hours,I feel ok ...

Isn't this a violation of the bro code?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

11 July 2013 (M) - Ok, so I was seeing a guy for casual sex for a few weeks, I'd mentioned it to a friend that I wasn't that into it, and was losing interest. We all went to a party I introduced my casual sex partner to my good friend. Me and my fuck buddy return ...

Should I be giving up my best friend just because I have feelings for him? He said he's happy to stop having sex, but doesn't wanna lose me as a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - I have fallen for someone I can't have, but I knew that when we started and now its too late. I met this guy about 9 months ago, we clicked immediately, he had a gf but decided to sleep with me.. I knew it was wrong but he said it was just a bit of...

Do you think sexual chemistry could really be gone and if so, do you think it's possible to rekindle to salvage this budding relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Hi readers! I'm a long-time lurker, first time poster. I'd like to thank everyone in advance for reading this post; I realize it rather lengthy, but I do hope it's easily readable... For the past couple years, I have had a "friends with be...

Is it normal for a guy to keep a booty call around for 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - Okay, so 2 years ago I moved back home and decided to try out the internet dating deal. I met a few nice guys but nothing really went anywhere, except with one guy, sort of. We met a month or so after talking and seemed to hit it off. We always had ...

I'm having regrets after a one-night stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3966 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - Well I'm going to brutally honest. I'm 17 and I gave a guy a blowjob this morning cause we were up all night and I was at his appt. With friends and his friends. Later on we all separated and did our own things mine personally leading to giving him ...

Should I tell my ex that I slept with his father for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

6 July 2013 (F) - This may sound like something off Jerry Springer, but I've been in a sexual relationship with a guy on and off for 3 years. He's very attractive, a lean, skinny, tall, hippie, mixed with Captain Morgan , James Franco looking pot head with Mick ...

Should I ask my best friend to be my first kiss? How can I do this without sounding odd?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

6 July 2013 (M) - I don't know how to go about this so I'll just ask it straight forward; how can I ask my best friend to be my first kiss without it being weird? Here is some background to help you answer, we are both bi and now out and accept each others sexualli...

Is she only messing around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

3 July 2013 (M) - Hello everybody. I really need some objective opinions here. I'm currently in a FWB relationship with a girl I like very much. As in, A LOT. But she's clearly not that into me, she has told me that explicitly and she rejected me when I asked for...

I wanna know why he's being a creeper and what do I do when he brings over girls to our house.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

3 July 2013 (F) - Ive spent the last year sleeping with this guy. We spent almost everyday together and I knew we weren't together and he told me he didnt want a relationship with me I understand that he's a user so I don't want you guys to reiterate that fact to ...